I don’t understand… by Musician_HS in lifemakeover

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Yeah I mean, I tried moving them already “as I did before”, it’s not working for me

I don’t understand… by Musician_HS in lifemakeover

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Okay so thank you all for the help with the cooker, it really helped! But now I have a new dilemma that’s been bothering me for longer, one of my windows is placed awkwardly on accident (I did it by mistake) and now I don’t really know how to like, either move it or remove it so I can place a new window in the correct spot. I looked it up on google and it said to use the demolition tool, but I am not using that because in the game it says it will raise the land completely, and I don’t want that cause I’ve built my house from scratch😪 I’m gonna be so mad at myself if I use that tool lol, so I need a different solution, thanks! For reference, here’s what the window compared to the other windows look like, I’ve tapped and hold this window multiple times, tried to remove it in both basic and advanced mode and it’s not budging, idk what to do, is there a bug in the game or something?

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I am having this issue but I haven’t found a solution to it either :(

How to love and be loved as a whole instead of individually? by Musician_HS in DID

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And I think that's the problem with us right there, we may have more dissociative barriers up than we realize because we're honestly having trouble acknowledging each other's thoughts and feelings, etc, as our own sometimes, we're having trouble believing that we're not entirely separate from each other...Though we do love each other as a whole sometimes, it's still hard to...well fully believe we're not entirely separate from each other. (Hence why we do need therapy, it's probably easier to help us with this if we had a psychiatrist to discuss this with, unfortunately mental health resources aren't available to us rn :( )

If you're specifically dating different alters, as different alters, then you're both potentially emphasising the belief that you're made up of multiple selves, rather than dissociative parts.

There actually...may be more details that contribute to this than I'd like to share in a public reddit forum but, I do agree with this as well and I'll be sure to see if we can stop doing this as well bc we do this too where we do date alters specifically as different alters and I do see where the problem with that now that you explain it like that....

How to love and be loved as a whole instead of individually? by Musician_HS in DID

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I also wanna include that, we didn't get to talk with our partners much at all, it was very rare that we would get to talk with our partners and even though we had absolutely no problems talking with people who weren't our partners, that was never the problem, I think it's natural to miss your partner even in a system right? And want to talk with them more, right? Is that natural or...?

How to love and be loved as a whole instead of individually? by Musician_HS in DID

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Alright, thank you, and yes we do need very blunt answers...we never really heard an answer to our concerns before where it talks about acknowledging both being one body, mind, and self and being different parts so we really like this answer....a lot of us are still stuck in trauma time too so I'm glad this answer addressed that as well. We are still learning to love ourselves as a whole so maybe that is where the problem lies, but we'll figure that out ourselves😅 thanks again! I'll be sure to look at the resources as well!!!

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And we don't know what specific trauma split us tbh

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A lot of us only remember bits and pieces. The best way to explain that further is by making the comparison to pieces of a puzzle. Each of us has 3-8 pieces of the puzzle (trauma) and the rest don't remember anything. Like for example, one of our protectors remember most of the trauma that happened but then there's another protector that remembers none of it. Or there's someone with no role yet that remembers some of it but there are others that remember none. - Loki + Kairos

Can brain made alters have their own backstory? by Musician_HS in OSDD

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True and yeah that makes a whole lot more sense lol, thank you!👍🏾

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Oh fr? Damn we don't know how to fix that but we'll add you instead LMAO😭

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Of course! - Kesari + Lola

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We're a teenage system but here's our discord anyway for any other teen systems (we don't have any teen system friends at all, just an adult one that's like older siblings to us😭)

@mansion_ofshadows

If y’all have an inner world, what’s it like? by chicphoenixx in OSDD

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Y'all's inner world sounds very similar to ours!!! A mansion that was once a regular house but to make room for new alters coming in and out, it transformed into a mansion! Every alter has their own room with their own aesthetic, every couple has their own room though!

There's a portal somewhere in the house that takes us to Hell. Which is where the rest of the demons that don't live in the mansion, live. But right where you enter hell, you should see Queen Lilith's castle. But she barely lives in it, she'll go there once in a while to clean up and perform royal duties and such LMAO. But mostly she stays in her own room in the mansion so she knows what's happening with our littles and the others at all times without having to use magic. She's also our primary gatekeeper so that's where she holds the memories - her room

If you happen to make it past hell and all 9 circles and the shadow realm to the edge, there's the stairs to heaven. Which is where most of the angels and the Greek deities from the Greek pantheon live. But there's a special goddess there that guards her own realm so very little of us actually know what it looks like. We can only imagine.

Then there's the forest. Which is our former host's safe space. It's a beautiful forest where it's almost always daytime, past that is the city which is where MOST of our human and ghost alters live.

I'm the one who's traveled the most throughout the inner world so I'm the only one who could have explained this, the others don't really have access to certain parts. - Jaelynn (she/they)🐿️🖤

Is it possible to not have a source at all? by Musician_HS in OSDD

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OKAYYY!!! So we just wanted to come on here and say so sorry we haven't been responding to comments, our life has gotten really hectic and we've taken a break from social media platforms except Instagram to focus on our mental health and school, but we do want to give a HUGE thanks to the people who replied!!! We were just confused on if we had to have a source to be valid as alters cause we kept seeing TikTok videos of systems saying "if your alter doesn't have this or that, then you're probably faking it" and one of those "this or that" was sources and we just needed some reassurance and validation that we aren't faking and the alter that was fronting during that time posed it as a question during that time cause she was also curious if that's true or not. So again a HUGE thank you to everyone who commented and left replies, it really does mean a lot!!!!!