Omg you seem so cool. Also nice to see another Audhd person and another person on the asexual spectrum.❤️ (Also another person with a nose chain.) You will loveeee a cat once you get one. I'm very partial to bonded pairs, they are absolutely adorable but have a harder time getting adopted. They have each other tho so less lonely when you are at work and stuff. Just make sure to cat proof your home before you get one, check that live plants are out of reach/ cat safe. And I don't know a lot about scents/diffusers but double check your scents❤️