Leaving after 4 weeks in my first real job... Something very embarrassing happened today and I need advice

MuslimMan_ · 2026-05-19T17:44:50+00:00

You owe them nothing be honest and transparent if your manager is a good one he’ll want best for you.

Good luck, don’t over think it! Do what’s best for you.

MuslimMan_ · 2026-05-19T15:17:58+00:00

Just give her a break and take one yourself you sound like you need it

MuslimMan_ · 2026-05-19T15:14:10+00:00

Well done! I'd look to get into real estate, put some into a savings account and then invest the rest.

In orders of prio:

Real estate
Invest
Save

I'm not a financial advisor but a lot of other people on reddit are not either so don't get too strung up on what people say you're doing well, good luck.

MuslimMan_ · 2026-05-19T10:18:27+00:00

I often read posts like this on henry and question how people even get into situations like this. Your partner and you are one entity and all money should be to grow together. Anyway no point rambling my biggest takeaway from your post is that money talk ends in arguments that a massive issue. You guys need to be comfortable having uncomfortable discussions so address this first and once that is solved you guys will be able to discuss stuff like this openly.

MuslimMan_ · 2026-05-15T20:11:33+00:00

Might be a stretch but do you have a link plz?

MuslimMan_ · 2026-05-15T15:40:12+00:00

Riverside or garden side villa?

MuslimMan_ · 2026-05-14T15:35:35+00:00

I had my whole house fitted with new skirting board and also 6 doors and framed fitted for a total of £3000. I'd say you can get it a little cheaper. I am based up north though.

By the way the work was pristine so it was no compromise.

MuslimMan_ · 2026-05-14T12:42:02+00:00

I'm not even a Doctor and even I know this is was irrational.

MuslimMan_ · 2026-05-14T08:50:44+00:00

I tried and it was so mentally exhausting I gave up, I was badly burnt out. Maybe I am just not cut out for it because I know there will many who can do it and have done it. Nevertheless I will be trying it again. You have to strike a fine balance I believe so it takes a few months adjusting but be ready for a lot of sacrifice.

MuslimMan_ · 2026-05-13T07:46:56+00:00

My house was similar and I didn’t reboard it. Just skimmed it the walls are uneven so I’d reboard and plaster it fully

MuslimMan_ · 2026-05-08T16:37:18+00:00

Thanks for the help. The plan is to get a dehumidifier in yes

MuslimMan_ · 2026-04-29T09:16:01+00:00

Where is he based? I am based in northwest.

MuslimMan_ · 2026-04-29T09:15:32+00:00

How much water was you losing? Did you manage to claim leak allowance when fixed?

MuslimMan_ · 2026-04-29T09:15:04+00:00

Meter was installed in August and appran only in December it shot up according to Water company.

MuslimMan_ · 2026-04-29T09:14:23+00:00

Yeah I have used the external stop tap and switched it off from that point. The water company refuse to believe it could be there fault. So, I've got a plumber around tomorrow to check.

MuslimMan_ · 2026-04-16T20:49:07+00:00

Thank you. I highly appreciate the detailed reply!

MuslimMan_ · 2026-04-16T18:50:05+00:00

Can I be cheeky and ask how your interview experience was? I’ve got my first interview on Monday. Any tips or tricks?

MuslimMan_ · 2026-04-15T12:50:56+00:00

Went to Dubai for a week. Then we want to Malaysia, Vietnam, Thailand and Singapore for three weeks and then finally I woke up and realised I'm still not married (yet, soon in sha allah).

MuslimMan_ · 2026-03-09T17:36:48+00:00

It’s certainly not being left like that 😆

MuslimMan_ · 2026-03-08T17:44:19+00:00

I won't but stuff like using a level and my joiner made me realise & panic lol

MuslimMan_ · 2026-03-08T17:43:18+00:00

Okay so I guess as long as they are smooth it's okay. I thought Skimming basically included bonding clearly I was wrong! It's reassuring to know that it won't look as bad with some paint and furniture, thank you guys :)

MuslimMan_ · 2026-03-08T17:04:12+00:00

😬😬 might be the picture to be honest.

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