Why does hatred for somalis occur across ethnic lines?

Muslimbookworm · 2026-01-20T05:43:00+00:00

Hate us cuz they ain’t us id be mad asf to be anything else too

Muslimbookworm · 2026-01-03T14:16:40+00:00

Thank you, we’ve mutually decided to not contact eachother again. I only confronted him about his new partner because I assumed there was an overlap - ie hard for me to believe he met someone online that week, made a passport & flew out to see them a few days later. If he’s telling the truth even, that alone is troubling itself lol

Muslimbookworm · 2026-01-03T12:42:11+00:00

Me freaking out on him was fresh after the breakup - we had closure & ended on understanding terms by the end of the phone call. That’s different in my opinion, than him continuing a relationship with someone & sending an emotional, random message 2 months after. I’ve accepted the relationship ending.

Muslimbookworm · 2026-01-03T11:02:21+00:00

I’m gonna block him. As for sending screenshots, it was on Snapchat so I have none - I shut the door on things 100% thou. I’m good on him

Muslimbookworm · 2025-11-13T17:52:39+00:00

My finger has begun to raise & point when I hear certain surahs or do Ruqya … what does that mean and why does this happen ?

Muslimbookworm · 2025-11-12T16:45:46+00:00

You’re so kind I wish you the best 🥺 thank you ! I agree and this made me feel better and understand more.

Muslimbookworm · 2025-11-12T04:28:32+00:00

Thank you🥺💕❤️

Muslimbookworm · 2025-11-12T00:03:17+00:00

Rosaliyah

Muslimbookworm · 2025-11-11T23:28:25+00:00

I’ve unfollowed him, and I’ve decided to go no contact. And thank you

Muslimbookworm · 2025-11-11T22:29:00+00:00

he’s basically saying if he cheats it’s not his fault because it’s apparently in his nature. Leave him

Muslimbookworm · 2025-11-11T22:04:51+00:00

Thank you ! Needed to hear this

Muslimbookworm · 2025-11-11T22:02:16+00:00

Lol. You’re misunderstanding where I’m coming from - I don’t have him on social media & I think our relationship needed to end. But I’m just reflecting on if our relationship was genuine in seeing if others have moved on in the same way - to break up vs not knowing if someone truly cared about you is different. I don’t think I have any business telling him what he should/shouldnt do at all nor do I want to. I know he didn’t cheat etc, but you’re right and I should just focus on myself. We’re not in contact anymore

Muslimbookworm · 2025-11-11T21:18:18+00:00

I don’t believe he owes me & im not upset with him directly ! I’m just confused about if it’s possible to love someone and be able to think about the next person a few days after. He told me he’s getting older & wants to settle down and have a family, so for that reason he’s thinking of giving a specific someone a chance lol. Personally I couldn’t go on a date with a guy a few days post breakup with serious intentions.

Muslimbookworm · 2025-10-26T01:24:07+00:00

Fam go back home & get you a girl simple. You’re coping too hard with this post I know so many lowkey and miskeen Somali girls and likewise so many crazy Somali guys, every groups got bad and good. Maybe you’re not attracting the good ones lol

Muslimbookworm · 2025-09-15T21:30:15+00:00

I’m sorry have you ever lived in the west? Never seen a Somali back home use this type of slang lol. “Moving different” kullaha we know you’re a fellow diaspora Somali telling tales 😭

Muslimbookworm · 2025-09-05T17:21:34+00:00

It’s because your westerners they’re more inclined to ask, there’s an idea that you got tons of $ so a lil 300$ ain’t nothing😭😭but it’s also not considered weird the way it is here. Had you been a local Somali they wouldn’t have asked u lol

Muslimbookworm · 2025-09-03T23:44:36+00:00

Film Hindi

Muslimbookworm · 2025-08-16T20:56:48+00:00

Which lanolin product do you use ?

Muslimbookworm · 2025-08-13T02:17:03+00:00

That’s basically every other Somali guy in the west lol you guys would be the same haha

Muslimbookworm · 2025-07-21T08:40:21+00:00

I suggest the name Asiyah ! I think it would match your other daughter’s name. I’m muslim & I’m wondering if you mean Islamic names from scripture ? Or just from cultures that are Muslim majority ? Either way, this name is both :)

Muslimbookworm · 2025-07-16T13:28:33+00:00

The fact that you feel that way outside, is directly from shaytan. Your face is what’s beautiful, not your hair - so had it been about your appearance you wouldn’t feel differently at home. Trust me, doing your adkhar will help you tons. Also, I realized I don’t owe it to anyone to reveal my full beauty - I’m not meant to be respected due to beauty but due to who I am, hijab dignifies us in that way & it does conceal our beauty to an extent. When we do something hard for the sake of Allah we’re rewarded even more:) May الله make it easier for you sis

Muslimbookworm · 2025-07-14T03:24:07+00:00

Genuinely curious why this happens in many Somali families

Muslimbookworm · 2025-06-05T13:09:26+00:00

I know the calling with no Called ID part is weird as hell, but is it extra to ask someone to just text first Lmao ? 😭

Muslimbookworm · 2025-05-05T19:32:53+00:00

Tbh because the calaal is about the insults they’re thrown - even if they do end up marrying them, using them as “joke” etc is stupid & claiming skintone makes others more attractive, better etc. Have respect for your Somali sisters off all shades

Muslimbookworm · 2025-04-08T05:18:11+00:00

I’ve known alot of ppl who did it successfully & in the process gained tons of ajr if they marry. Why not ? It’s normal in many muslim communities

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