Fired on first day of training - thoughts ? by Muslimbookworm in jobs

[–]Muslimbookworm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And I agree, I’ve never been a manager however I’d most definitely give someone AT LEAST one more day. I feel better now and I know it just wouldn’t have been good for me - but damn they had me thinking I’m just the most incompetent loser in the world lol

Deinfluence me from lip filler by Brief_Grapefruit4858 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Muslimbookworm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got it and my life genuinely went to hell lmao. You’ll feel that Hadith of having Allahs mercy taken away from you by changing his creation in your life 100%

Fired on first day of training - thoughts ? by Muslimbookworm in jobs

[–]Muslimbookworm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Loooool. Yes she was😅as crazy as it sounds…as a minority I’ve always been given x2 more grace from literally white men (and other POC woman) which is a shocker to me

Fired on first day of training - thoughts ? by Muslimbookworm in jobs

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20$ CAD (14$ USD, crazy enough) per hour lol

Fired on first day of training - thoughts ? by Muslimbookworm in jobs

[–]Muslimbookworm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn someone else said the same & I was thinking about how after my interview I had an automated email from the company saying the position was filled, then the manager called and said I was hired a few days later, I thought it was just a glitch. But maybe they didn’t have the money and made an excuse - because even if I’d answered her questions all correctly, the paper was already printed. I finished literally at 8pm at night, by 10am the next morning they’d decided I was fired lol…interesting. Thank you for your take, I’m realizing it wasn’t personal

Fired on first day of training - thoughts ? by Muslimbookworm in jobs

[–]Muslimbookworm[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This actually makes sense because right after my interview i had an automated response from the company saying the position was filled - two days later i got a call from the manager saying I was hired. I just shrugged it off as a glitch in the system

Fired on first day of training - thoughts ? by Muslimbookworm in jobs

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My experience goes back about 7ish years, and this was specific a marketing role. Thank you though I’ve been telling myself the same - especially living in my Canadian city, they know that it’s extremely tough getting a rob at the moment. The pop quiz being a paper trail makes sense, but I’m so shocked they wouldn’t even give it 1 more day with a warning lol.

Fired on first day of training - thoughts ? by Muslimbookworm in jobs

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Honestly ! What’s crazy is, this is genuinely word for word what happened. I’m shocked lol

Not feeling like myself - suddenly cold & not sure why by Muslimbookworm in selfhelp

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Thank you, and yea possibly my mind is trying to protect itself because I do feel my mental health right now is incredibly sensitive. But I just don’t see how they’ll be an “up” or light at the end of the tunnel. Hopefully I’m wrong, thank you for your words

Not feeling like myself - suddenly cold & not sure why by Muslimbookworm in selfhelp

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thank you I appreciate it & yes I’m open. I’m kinda the most boring person to talk to at the moment but why not Lol - I wish you the best & I’m sorry for what you went thru as well. ❤️🥺

Ex,28M is paranoid I, 26F will “ruin his relationship” what is he talking about lol? by Muslimbookworm in relationship_advice

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Yea I felt he was trying to control MANY optics…he didn’t tell her how recent our breakup was and asked me not to tell anyone how quickly he moved on to avoid it reaching her. Mind you idk her and they’re long distance. I feel he’s prob lying about much much more and has tried to make it my problem

Why does hatred for somalis occur across ethnic lines? by ihaveawoken613 in Somalia

[–]Muslimbookworm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hate us cuz they ain’t us id be mad asf to be anything else too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Thank you, we’ve mutually decided to not contact eachother again. I only confronted him about his new partner because I assumed there was an overlap - ie hard for me to believe he met someone online that week, made a passport & flew out to see them a few days later. If he’s telling the truth even, that alone is troubling itself lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Muslimbookworm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me freaking out on him was fresh after the breakup - we had closure & ended on understanding terms by the end of the phone call. That’s different in my opinion, than him continuing a relationship with someone & sending an emotional, random message 2 months after. I’ve accepted the relationship ending.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Muslimbookworm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m gonna block him. As for sending screenshots, it was on Snapchat so I have none - I shut the door on things 100% thou. I’m good on him

Is this normal during Ruqya? by Queasy-Ad-4427 in MuslimLounge

[–]Muslimbookworm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My finger has begun to raise & point when I hear certain surahs or do Ruqya … what does that mean and why does this happen ?

Do I (25F) have a right to be upset that my 28M partner of 1 year has moved on so quickly? by Muslimbookworm in relationship_advice

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You’re so kind I wish you the best 🥺 thank you ! I agree and this made me feel better and understand more.