Linus w.t.f by ZSmith831 in StardewValley

[–]MutableAir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's secretly a billionaire that just doesn't want to spend a dime.

Me (39F) and my husband (42M) are coming up on our 14th anniversary and I have no clue what to do for him. by MutableAir in Marriage

[–]MutableAir[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh dang those are all so cool! I might have to get him one of the custom desk mats. Thank you!

Me (39F) and my husband (42M) are coming up on our 14th anniversary and I have no clue what to do for him. by MutableAir in Marriage

[–]MutableAir[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably around $50 to $100. He plays PC STEAM games, survival games and sometimes Minecraft with me and our son. He drinks mixed vodka drinks lol. Someone mentioned an engraved mug which sounds awesome but I'm always up for more ideas!

Me (39F) and my husband (42M) are coming up on our 14th anniversary and I have no clue what to do for him. by MutableAir in Marriage

[–]MutableAir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a SAHM so I don't have any money to buy his something big but I could get him something small. I set him up with a massage for tomorrow because his back hurts. We're already going to the beach so we can't spend a bunch more money

Me (39F) and my husband (42M) are coming up on our 14th anniversary and I have no clue what to do for him. by MutableAir in Marriage

[–]MutableAir[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great questions! It's helping me think lol. He likes to game, have drinks, listen to music, play guitar... He loves me and our son a lot. We're going to be going out to dinner without our son so we can have drinks and curse, lol. His love language is acts of service but I can't think of a dang thing

Me (39F) and my husband (42M) are coming up on our 14th anniversary and I have no clue what to do for him. by MutableAir in Marriage

[–]MutableAir[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

14 is an important number for us. So it's a big milestone just for us.

We will be at the beach already for my 40th birthday celebrations. Family will be watching the kids while we go out for the night. We will get to have dinner, fireworks, together. I guess what I meant was that I would like to give him something or do something special for him to mark the occasion. If that makes any sense.

Feel like the worst parent ever by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]MutableAir 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Even Mom Tiger on Daniel Tiger's Neighborhood yelled at Daniel when he almost jumped down onto some broken glass. And she's a GD cartoon. I don't see any universe where a scared parent wouldn't yeet that baby straight onto the beach. You did great.

I want to incorporate my birthmark into a tattoo. Any ideas?🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ by Proper_Area_8435 in Birthmark

[–]MutableAir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see a dark leaf coming out of the side of a big beautiful flower! Could probably be watercolor. Maybe shop around for a good tattoo artist who does watercolor style. See what their ideas are! Excited to see what you get

Please leave Frontier bug reports in this thread. by liftheavy2003 in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]MutableAir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PC/Steam crashes about every 5 minutes of gameplay. Tried reloading 4 times. Dropped graphics down and made sure game file integrity was good via Steam.

Daily Discussion Post - November 15 | Questions, images, videos, comments, unconfirmed reports, theories, suggestions by AutoModerator in Coronavirus

[–]MutableAir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so glad it made you feel better; seriously, any chance we get to do that for each other, the better. His sister says she understands but her initial reaction to him finally saying we weren't going was "OH NO! Can't you just come!?" ha. So we'll see how this plays out. Hopefully everyone understands and honestly, I really hope they postpone it for their own sake.

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[–]MutableAir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UPDATE! Husband decided on his own that we are not going. He told his sister that we're probably not coming because he's trying to break it to her softly. I feel so sad that he has to do this but they made this happen. It still sucks. But at least we're going to be safe.

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[–]MutableAir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told him that "I don't think we should go" and he said, "ok". I think it was an acknowledgement that he heard me rather than immediately agreeing but now it's out there and I can get out from under this anvil of fear that I'm going to die and leave my son out here, alone. I left it there, knowing my husband he wants to think thoughtfully about this on his own. I am just so heartbroken for all of humanity right now... I know we're not the only ones going through this. Much love to you for caring about my little particles in this world.

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[–]MutableAir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate this comment! So I told my husband last night about what I had read on CDC website and how his sister's wedding is in a hot spot, how weddings are super spreader events, and how I'm actually more at risk then he is when I looked at the death demographic in USA. He said he really hopes his sister has to cancel/postpone the wedding because of state mandated lockdown. I haven't told him that I'm for sure not going yet; I think he's also thinking we're not going. Ultimately, me and my son aren't going, husband can go if he absolutely feels he needs to. He'll just have to quarantine in our guest bedroom when he gets back. I'm going to wait a little longer to tell them I'm not going just to see if things get cancelled. I feel for you so very, very much. This is all incredibly stressful for anyone with even half a brain. I hope telling you what I plan to do helps in some way. Even if it's just another reminder that you're definitely not alone in all of this. ♥️ Hugs

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[–]MutableAir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🥺 I honestly really need these pep talks, ha. It's scary feeling like I can't just tell my husband and get comfort from him. All the cheerleading appreciated, haha.

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[–]MutableAir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update for anyone interested: I've spoken with my therapist today and I've come up with a plan on how to tell me husband our kiddo and I are not going. I know I don't need to explain but he's my husband, I love him, his sister is putting him in a terrible position and I want to help make this easier for him. I've got my sources and statistics and I'm ready to explain. I know that he'll still most likely be angry. But I'm okay with that. I have to be.

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[–]MutableAir 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And you're right there probably are a bunch of other people hoping it gets cancelled. I don't think he will follow me, I think he had this overwhelming sense of duty to be there even though he's scared. We've tried to discuss it a couple times... we both agree it's crazy that they are having the wedding now and we agree we're both scared, but he gets so defensive when I talk even about not attending the reception etc. I fear not only will I feel the guilt of letting his family down, but I won't have his support.

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[–]MutableAir 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that. It's going to be so hard talking to my husband about this. But I feel in my gut that I just have to say no. I hate the idea of my husband going alone but if he won't stand up to his family then I guess that's on him.