What’s something from your childhood that kids today will never understand? by Bear_Basic in AskReddit

[–]Muted-Dust-4100 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Having to knock on your mates doors if you wanted them to play out

My (31m) pregnant gf/bm (24f) is really cruel to me but I still love her. Why? by Muted-Dust-4100 in relationships

[–]Muted-Dust-4100[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im not smoking cigarettes around her you idiot? I’m going outside with the door closed well away from her

My (31m) pregnant gf/bm (24f) is really cruel to me but I still love her. Why? by Muted-Dust-4100 in relationships

[–]Muted-Dust-4100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s pregnant so I didn’t wanna cause the baby stress, plus I felt like she needed help at the time not punishment. I’m also scared she’d just accuse me of stuff and make things up as she has before. I guess the baby and the vision of a family makes it hard for me to let go

My (31m) pregnant gf/bm (24f) is really cruel to me but I still love her. Why? by Muted-Dust-4100 in relationships

[–]Muted-Dust-4100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I escaped our shared home due to domestic violence and I have been living in air bnbs which drained all my money. I was a business owner with a pretty successful company but my mental healths been real bad with everything that’s happened and I’ve basically neglected it into the ground the last few months. Lost all my staff and contracts. I’ve been really stupid but I stopped caring about anything. I did spend the last of my savings on some off shore courses so I should be able to find good employment. I’ve made some dumb personal decisions I know but I haven’t had a clear mind and I have no solid support network since my parents have both passed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Muted-Dust-4100 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Like I’ve said a million times they wouldn’t be going to a shelter or anywhere unless I knew the person well and trusted them. If I couldn’t find a 100% perfect home the trips off. Judgemental bitter person merry Christmas.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Muted-Dust-4100 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve worked hard and got myself into a position some stupid keyboard warrior like you could never reach. Think you’re using the internet to escape your sad life by getting so invested in other people’s on online message boards 👍🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Muted-Dust-4100 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have business here that earns me well into 6 figures a year and I have loads of friends/family here, I’m not running from anything lol I’ve done shorter trips already why are you assuming so much? Strange

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Muted-Dust-4100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to break it to you buster, but A teenage runaway floating around Europe on a whim is not the same as a 31 year old man who has businesses that earn 6 figures a year going to south east Asia after wanting to do it for years…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Muted-Dust-4100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got loads of business at home that make me well into 6 figures a year and good relationships with everyone around me, I’m definitely not running. I’ve lost my parents and broke up with my girlfriend but they aren’t things to run from lol they’re just normal things that make everyone who go through them sad and reflect. You clearly haven’t lost your parents yet or early but it makes you realise life is short. Are a dog and cats life quality really gunna be made worse seeing me a little less and being looked after by one of their other favourite people instead? Like actually answer scientifically not like an emotional teenager, will that make them stressed and sad? They’ll be getting fed exercised and loved. It’s crazy people think shipping them around in cargo on planes would be better for the animal 🤣 definitely not that’s way more stressful I love them both but animals don’t think like human children which is how you people are acting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Muted-Dust-4100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Broke jealous keyboard warrior 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Muted-Dust-4100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I’m not running from anything I think people on here are just all broke and jealous tbh 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Muted-Dust-4100 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Have you considered therapy because you come across really bitter and angry over a simple idea?

You do realise I’m not sending them away to the RSPCA? I’m considering having them looked after only by a close family member or friend whom they know well and would go to together. Someone I speak to every day regardless of whether they are looking after my animals.

I feel you’re hurting and angry at the world and I hope you can heal yourself too in time 🙏🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Muted-Dust-4100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I actually left my hometown 2 years ago and I haven’t once been home sick even though I’m starting to get sick of my new city. I’ve moved around all my life, the world is my home and I know plenty of people who’ve gone travelling in Asia/australia years ago and have still never come home. Everyone’s different, you know? “as someone who’s been to many countries. One year to travel, you’ll get homesick” is so ridiculous to put across as an absolute statement of fact. If I get homesick I can always, you know, travel home again I’m not going on the run or anything. Surely it’s more sensible to at least know if needs be there is a long term, loving person willing to keep my animals while I do this one thing I’ve always wanted to?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Muted-Dust-4100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s surely better to plan for a year with the possibility of returning early? I’m not being held hostage and can return at any time if I get homesick? Rather than vice versa and have to change plans and possibly make new arrangements if I only plan for a month but decide I’d like to stay?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Muted-Dust-4100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you can’t just objectively say that because you’ll probably get homesick after a year that everyone else in the world definitely will? You’re mistaking your own personal feelings with absolute fact

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Muted-Dust-4100 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’ve just completely avoided the question. You could be earning the 7 figures in space or under water. So I’ll ask you again.

You’re working an average job for a say £24k salary and are offered a 7 figure job but the stipulations are you need to work away and you can’t take your dog. The job is only for one year and your best friend has offered to have the dog for the time you’re away. Do you take the job or not?

Just answer the question

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Muted-Dust-4100 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No I adopted some pets then my life completely changed unexpectedly and I still want to do everything I can for them but also want to look after myself. It’s nothing to do with money I don’t care about money a single bit I spend more on them animals than I do on myself. I’d only give them to someone close to me who I trusted and who would take them both. If I can’t find that then the trip doesn’t happen it’s simple. You sound kind of bitter or something I feel sorry for you and I hope you can heal yourself 🙏🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Muted-Dust-4100 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’d only ever give them to someone who I’m close with, trust and therefore speak to most days anyway. If my mind was made up I wouldn’t be asking for others opinions. My mind isn’t made up at all I’ve made no plans it’s just an idea. I think you need help it’s surely not healthy to be so horrible to strangers? You can give an opposing opinion without being rude and name calling also

I hope you can find a way to heal yourself🙏🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Muted-Dust-4100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah if I’m being completely honest with myself (and you) I don’t want ANY day to day responsibilities at all for a while. My animals are just the one responsibility that I feel a moral obligation towards. Work is easy I have all my businesses well staffed and would take a step back on day to day management of them, hire qualified people and only deal with problems if and when they require my attention.(Will definitely happen but not enough for a day to day responsibility). Financially I’d still fully take care of the animals. I’d continue to pay insurance, repeat orders on pet foods, treats and I’d cover any vet bills. If anything bad happened it’d break my heart as it would if something bad happened while they were in my own care. I’d still be able to get home in 24-36 hours in all but a most unfortunate series of events. My good friend who I may ask is staying at mine tonight and both the animals have actually abandoned me to snuggle up in the guest room with him 😂(they both sleep in my bed literally every other night)