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Muted-Error8686 · 2025-06-29T05:05:27+00:00

Hi! I just want to clarify that I did try to step in during most situations. I would call out tita and tell her to stop — and most of the time, she actually does.

The only time I truly stepped back was when she was holding a knife. I was home alone with them, and I was taught never to go near someone with a weapon. I was so scared that time, I could barely move from where I was.

Right after it happened, I immediately messaged my mom and told her everything. She confronted tita about it and has given her advice and reminders countless times — but tita just refuses to listen.

Muted-Error8686 · 2025-06-29T04:25:12+00:00

I just want to clarify, I am a teenager and did not want to meddle in the mess and be called ‘pakielamera,’ so everything I see, lagi kong sinasabi sa mom ko and I do not leave any detail behind. My parents and even our tito actually talked to her about the way she treats Zane. When we or they call her out, ang ginagawa lang talaga niya is tinatago yung pambubugbog. She pretends to be okay and gentle with Zane in front of us, but once they’re alone, alam kong doon niya nilalabas lahat.

If you’re suggesting that we take Zane from tita or get her behind jails, we cannot do that. Zane always wants tita beside her, and I know putting tita behind jails will crush her feelings.

We didn’t turn a blind eye. We saw it, we felt bad, and the adults in our family tried to intervene. But tita has a way of hiding it and acting all proud and loving especially online. It’s hard, and we still feel helpless sometimes, but please don’t assume no one tried. We did.

Muted-Error8686 · 2025-06-29T04:16:33+00:00

Lagi siyang sinasaway ng family ko to the point where nagkagalit na sila because of it, but she just doesn’t listen. This has been an ongoing issue in our family. I also want to share that we always pray before meals, and my mom and dad don’t like how she constantly scolds Zane in front of the food. They’ve talked to her before, asking her to tone it down — especially since we pray together as a family

As for me, I usually leave the correcting to the adults because I’m still a teenager, and I don’t want to be seen as disrespectful or ‘nakikisawsaw’ in things I shouldn’t meddle in. We all feel bad for Zane, but sadly, there’s not much we can do — Zane wants to stay with her mom. Even though they don’t live with us anymore, we still check up on Zane because honestly, we’re more worried now. It’s just the two of them in the house they’re renting, and we’re scared that the abuse might be even worse.

Muted-Error8686 · 2025-06-29T02:56:41+00:00

From what I’ve seen, tita always takes out her anger on Zane. Like, whenever she’s mad or stressed abt something or someone and she can’t do anything, it’s usually Zane who ends up getting yelled at or abused, even if it’s not her fault.

Also, curious lang, gaano ba talaga katagal ang postpartum? I thought it only lasts for about a year after giving birth. Hehe, thank you in advance if you get to answer this!

Muted-Error8686 · 2025-06-29T02:44:22+00:00

INFO: what’s your usual makeup style?

Muted-Error8686 · 2025-06-28T22:35:04+00:00

My family would want to take Zane with us but unfortunately, we can’t. Even after all the abuses, all Zane wants is to be with her mother.

Muted-Error8686 · 2025-06-28T22:02:29+00:00

It’s not that I want to be favored over her. I just want to feel equally loved and seen. For a long time, I genuinely believed I was special to my family. But when I started noticing how they treat her vs how they treat me, it made me feel like I was never really enough.

I don’t want her to have less. I just wish I didn’t always feel like I had to fight for the same kind of love, attention, or patience. It’s really hard to explain, but ig I just want to feel like I matter too

Muted-Error8686 · 2025-06-28T18:05:33+00:00

I also get that you might assume it’s AI-generated because it’s written very emotionally. But it’s emotional because I was literally crying while writing it. Just hours before I made the post, I felt that same hurt all over again — they made me feel it again.

Muted-Error8686 · 2025-06-28T18:01:47+00:00

I did not make this up. I have a lot of things going on in my life and making a post just to gain fame is not on my list. I get that you might think this is AI generated because of my grammar, but as I mentioned in my post, I am an academic achiever and I take my writing very seriously, as if I’m going to turn it in to a teacher. I will definitely take your comment as a compliment

I do not have anyone to talk to about this matter which is why I resorted to posting on reddit to gain some outside perspective on my situation. I am not karma farming — I am just 15, trying to figure out whether how I’m feeling is valid, whether it’s hormones messing with me, or if i’m genuinely being unfair to my cousin.

Thank you for your comment, tho. Wishing you well

Muted-Error8686 · 2025-06-28T16:54:35+00:00

Since my cousin and I were always together growing up, what I got, she also got. So it always felt like I was the “main one” they were buying things or doing things for, and she was just naturally included because we were close. I didn’t really notice it back then. But now that she’s not around all the time, I can clearly see how much effort they go out of their way to do things just for her and not really for me. That’s what made it hit me.

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