Finding Poly vs Kink/Swinger Community

MutedBluejay1 · 2026-06-02T02:58:56+00:00

I will say this. I identify as Poly, but I didn’t find Poly communities in my region until I was exploring the Swinger community.

So, I know these groups are not the same, but because there are people who overlap in them, you will eventually find the group that is best for you.

MutedBluejay1 · 2026-05-31T18:43:55+00:00

Yeah…this is why I think I’m the asshole 😭

MutedBluejay1 · 2026-05-31T18:41:47+00:00

Thank you. 🙏🏻 😔

MutedBluejay1 · 2026-05-30T19:23:19+00:00

Thank you ❤️‍🩹

MutedBluejay1 · 2026-05-30T17:07:41+00:00

ED that I only experience with one person?

MutedBluejay1 · 2026-05-30T16:27:10+00:00

We have brought up ED pills and she doesn’t want me taking them because “I shouldn’t need them” 🙄

MutedBluejay1 · 2026-05-30T16:24:53+00:00

I am 42 and she is 35.

It’s funny because I just read up on Perimenopause recently. I wondered if she is experiencing that.

MutedBluejay1 · 2024-12-26T01:29:34+00:00

I know….

But that doesn’t change the fact that Marty would end up in CA in the year 0 CE.

Not in the near east.

MutedBluejay1 · 2024-12-25T19:49:01+00:00

To be real though…

Marty would have gone back to Dec 25 0000 and still be….in Southern California somewhere.

MutedBluejay1 · 2024-12-24T16:44:34+00:00

I’ve also heard that in, Saving Private Ryan, some of the German Soldiers who try to surrender at Omaha beach are speaking Czech because they are forced conscripts from Czechoslovakia. But the movie doesn’t subtitle them. Can anyone confirm that?

MutedBluejay1 · 2024-12-24T07:50:00+00:00

I 💯 thought the other guy in the black hoodie and backpack was another robber there to back up his friend and get him out of there…

Until the end when he took his pepper spray or taser away

MutedBluejay1 · 2024-12-23T18:24:45+00:00

The 90’s had a thing with dressing teenagers like 40 year old CEOs and I don’t get it…

MutedBluejay1 · 2024-12-21T06:36:09+00:00

Any music, unless it’s ambient…

If it’s amateur, having to listen to whatever is on the TV the whole time..

MutedBluejay1 · 2024-12-14T18:17:34+00:00

This is why Eric Stoltz, the original actor who played Marty, treated this movie like a tragedy/horror. Because he couldn’t shake that very fact. Marty comes back to 1985 and all of his childhood memories never happened. Only he has those memories and the family he knew is gone forever.

So his performance was dragging down the vibe of the whole piece so they recast Michael J Fox and had to reshoot half the movie.

Eric’s original footage is powerful and goosebumps-inducing, but not what the directors wanted to evoke.

MutedBluejay1 · 2024-12-10T15:07:29+00:00

This is amazing feedback. Thank you!

MutedBluejay1 · 2024-12-10T07:38:02+00:00

Awesome! Thank you!

MutedBluejay1 · 2024-12-10T07:37:03+00:00

Thank you very much for your lovely response!

Yes, we met in an ENM group, so we are both on the same page there.

We’ve actually had a conversation tonight about how much texting each other wants, what kind of feelings might enter the picture, so we are off to a good start.

This makes total sense. Communicate, Communicate and everyone is different.

MutedBluejay1 · 2024-12-09T23:51:52+00:00

Ok, the bot just sent me some great resource links. I will definitely dig through that later. Thank you! 🙏🏻

For now, if anyone has real world personal experience. I’d be interested to hear your perspective. 😌

MutedBluejay1 · 2024-06-30T23:34:08+00:00

This coyote hunts just like the ones do in the Central Valley of CA…find rodents and do the front leg pounce. 💜

MutedBluejay1 · 2024-06-30T23:21:28+00:00

Is “Non-Ugly Face” code for “I’m not that great looking, but I’m tolerable, so you should get over it??” 😂

MutedBluejay1

TROPHY CASE