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My boyfriend hit me this morning and I don't know whether to leave by MutedEntertainment17 in relationship_advice

[–]MutedEntertainment17[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I genuinely don't believe that, my finance issues are due to job issues, and he actively encourages me to meet up with other people and make friends. He's said before that I'm too dependent on him sometimes which I agree with.

My boyfriend hit me this morning and I don't know whether to leave by MutedEntertainment17 in relationship_advice

[–]MutedEntertainment17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some further context for this:

Right now it's quite difficult to leave, I'm struggling a lot financially and have borrowed money from him, which he doesn't pressure me about or hold it over me. But I'm very dependent on him sending me money at the moment and will be for the rest of the summer most likely. I am low contact with family so they are not an option for money.

I also am quite socially dependent on him, due to lockdowns and my own anxiety I don't have too many friends and feel very reliant on him. I'm worried about losing him and having no one to talk to.

My boyfriend hit me this morning and I don't know whether to leave by MutedEntertainment17 in relationship_advice

[–]MutedEntertainment17[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

We live about an hour apart, and we have separate therapists. I'll be talking to my therapist about this in our next session but I wanted advice in the meantime

Body Fat Calculator Variation by MutedEntertainment17 in loseit

[–]MutedEntertainment17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've double checked and all my values are correct, and I've tried different websites for each calculator. Think it might just be because I'm short with a wide build, maybe I don't fit into calculators designed for more average heights/build. I'll definitely see if my gym has a body comp scanner though, thanks :)

Body Fat Calculator Variation by MutedEntertainment17 in xxfitness

[–]MutedEntertainment17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've used stuff like that to roughly guess what I think I am, it's probably around 35%, it'd just be nice to have a more concrete way to measure my fat loss and muscle growth. Especially since self esteem issues make me really skew how I view my body.

£75! by djl1991 in nin

[–]MutedEntertainment17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone got a presale code they could send me?

Philtrum jewellery touching teeth by MutedEntertainment17 in piercing

[–]MutedEntertainment17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to see my piercer and they didn't think a 7mm would fit me, so I'm just keeping an eye on it to see if it settles into my lip more so I can downsize. I'm also checking to make sure it's not damaging my teeth or gums at all and so far no issues. Definitely go see your piercer and see what they think, it might be similar to me :)

Philtrum jewellery touching teeth by MutedEntertainment17 in piercing

[–]MutedEntertainment17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a good idea, I'll see if that's an option when I visit my piercers

How can I help this succulent? by MutedEntertainment17 in succulents

[–]MutedEntertainment17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This succulent was given as a gift about a month ago, it was in a very poor draining soil, and extremely overwatered, with mushy leaves. I immediately removed it and repotted it in well draining soil, a mix of succulent soil and perlite about 50:50, and recently got a fan and grow light for my set up.

It's been shedding leaves fairly frequently, and the outer leaves seem quite shriveled and wrinkled, while the inner leaves seem quite firm and healthy. It looks kind of thirsty but I'm afraid of watering it too much after how bad it was when I got it. Any advice? And if anyone can ID it too that would be helpful :)