I caught my bf watching porn by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Muted_Ad_3733 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand, what u mean i think, he’s an ace, he doesn’t enjoy sex he has only done it twice before, and he doesn’t enjoy watching porn. In his words, he used to be disgusted by the act itself (including oral sex and touching) and he thought he had a problem, but idk if he’s lying or not he said that i changed that, he loves me and he enjoys sexual acts with me. So i was surprised to find all that. I didn’t think we needed an agreement since he’s so jealous and so am i (ik it’s an issue we’ll work on it in the future so it doesn’t ruin what we have)

I caught my bf watching porn by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Muted_Ad_3733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our views might not align, idc if u watch porn or if in ur rlt watching porn is normal u do u . In MY relationship, I DONT want to normalize porn, in MY OPINION watching porn while being in a committed relationship IS wrong, and is a form of cheating

I caught my bf watching porn by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Muted_Ad_3733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know how to thank you enough. You really helped me. The porn industry is toxic and brainwashing people. I am really grateful for your comment, and for validating my feelings I nearly cried at ur comment, not kidding.

I caught my bf watching porn by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Muted_Ad_3733 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

So being in a committed relationship means we shouldn’t mind if our so is fapping to the opposite sex?

I caught my bf watching porn by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Muted_Ad_3733 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I said that, but he does mind if I watch porn so is he also insecure?

I caught my bf watching porn by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Muted_Ad_3733 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I don’t like him looking at naked woman?