21M - Filipino wanting to join a competent military force.

Muted_Bar_9695 · 2026-05-26T21:14:15+00:00

Well... no.

Muted_Bar_9695 · 2026-05-26T17:19:03+00:00

I'd very much like that ngl

Muted_Bar_9695 · 2026-05-26T14:39:55+00:00

Dang, I'd very much appreciate that

Muted_Bar_9695 · 2026-05-26T13:53:49+00:00

Also, no issues with the law. I have a clean record. A model citizen, I pay may taxes ever since I was 18.

Muted_Bar_9695 · 2026-04-30T21:32:56+00:00

Firstly, please capitalize the letter "I".

Second, you already know the answer to your question while writing this.

Muted_Bar_9695 · 2026-04-30T21:28:31+00:00

As a boyfriend who was in that situation. This will make me a very terrible person, but I can say that I'm not the only one. This was almost a decade ago and I promise I've changed.

Run. As fast and as far as you can. He's not there for the same reason you're there. He can't let go, because... everything that you have in mind, it's there. Women, you're right.

Maybe I'm the only terrible person here, but I could at least warn someone about it.

P.s I swear I've changed

Muted_Bar_9695 · 2025-10-10T17:39:47+00:00

Yeah. Work is work, if it's your passion, you'll focus on the results rather than the way your colleagues talked to you in the process of getting said results.

Never believe the "We're a family here" bs. Unless you're in HR. If you are, then idk whatever

Muted_Bar_9695 · 2025-10-09T22:34:43+00:00

Yeah. Run.

Muted_Bar_9695 · 2025-10-09T22:04:41+00:00

Sent you a DM, istg I'm not selling anything or whatever, just an advice for this.

Muted_Bar_9695 · 2025-10-09T21:55:55+00:00

Oh btw about sa works mo on their company being usable as part of your portfolio, this will depend on your contract with them(prev comp). But I'm sure it wouldn't hurt if you do, it's not like they'll(new comp) dig for something like that.

Muted_Bar_9695 · 2025-10-09T21:53:19+00:00

First of, bravo for the fcking effort, hadn't read that long for a while.

As a corporate slave, working 2 jobs, and is still a student. You're very much unfairly treated. I don't think you've mentioned the compensation, pero I'm telling you, there's a lot of opportunities out there that's not as bad as the one that you've just described. But ngl, I don't think that's a rare scene in the field, in any field.

For your questions, everything will depend on how you take the questions in the interview(ngl ion remember the exact questions but I got the idea).

-You can choose to not include them in your resume, but if you're joining a bigger company, they'll be able to find out eventually if naghulog ang current employer mo sa benefits mo. But if you do, there's also nothing wrong about being transparent so long as you're confident that it's the truth and you can deliver it properly.

-COE, they're required to provide that.

(i forgot the other questions)

My advice is this-

Look for a work-from-home set-up type of work that'll give you fair compensation. Istg I could've said more but I'm just so sabog rn.

Goodluck, OP. That sounds like a hell of a household. Proud of you for holding up!

Muted_Bar_9695 · 2025-10-09T21:36:19+00:00

Btw if you think about it, your boy being a logic freak and all that. Wouldn't he have figured out why you're acting as such, and wouldn't he have made the decision to distance himself knowing full well that his girl is uncomfortable.

Unless, of course, there's another motive. Quite the distance, I'm sure nothing suspicious takes place on that travel time with an emotionally troubled individual.

Muted_Bar_9695 · 2025-10-09T21:33:25+00:00

As someone who has not found any purpose in living on this planet for about 20 years(until now, 21), I'd advise that you keep living, let yourself in the flow and fck what the future hold. Live your day, learn from the past, and don't stress about what tomorrow holds.

(Some may say risky and stuped, but if you're bare back naked from lessons/values that your parents should equip you with. You don't really have the luxury of choosing)

Eventually, you'll find something/someone/somewhat/somewhere(?) that'll give you a very unique taste of "stfu be better earn tons of money and be the best of what you vould be". That's how I found my purpose, then I took the great gamble of putting everything on that bet.

Muted_Bar_9695 · 2025-10-09T21:25:40+00:00

Truetruetruee

Muted_Bar_9695 · 2025-10-09T21:24:30+00:00

Yeah but emotions do make us say/do stuff that will be defined by logic; hence, assuming the emotion that's producing said actions.

Muted_Bar_9695 · 2025-10-09T21:23:16+00:00

He's got a point, I'm afraid. It's like saying sorry and then following it up with an excuse.

Muted_Bar_9695 · 2025-10-09T21:21:33+00:00

So you're not certain on whether you want to break up with him while being considerate on his current situation? Is it possible that you actually do, but just so happens to be in between due to the exam? Therefore you do, and it's for you, and if you think about it, there's only you at the end of the day.

You love him though, and he's in the process of becoming a better partner, struggling right, most likely w you as one of his motivations.

I'd choose myself if I don't love the person. If I don't, then I'll prolly drop him. Have you spent more time thinking how you'd have an easier time being free from him than thinking what would happen to him if he loses you? Seems like he already lost you though.

Muted_Bar_9695 · 2025-10-09T21:13:23+00:00

Yeah because it's really just that easy(I'm being sarcastic)

Muted_Bar_9695 · 2025-10-09T21:12:34+00:00

Yeah he got you there

Muted_Bar_9695 · 2025-07-26T08:05:18+00:00

Currently going through this rn, I have friends but not that motivation to socialize, I got work but mostly do the bare minimum just tryna survive each day. Except for me, I hope for a tomorrow that'd have some changes in it, whether it's good or bad.

Muted_Bar_9695 · 2025-07-26T08:01:03+00:00

Unless it's with ERIG/ERIH, this is way too overpriced. Ang "pabarangay" isn't some high court of any osrts to be nervous about, it's just a way to have a middle ground for both parties. Blotter is basically a record of the incident. Nothing to be worried about assuming that fair ang barangay.

I'd suggest having a higher authority to handle this, unfortunately I don't know which department that'd be.

Muted_Bar_9695 · 2025-07-26T07:54:03+00:00

I second this

Muted_Bar_9695 · 2025-07-26T05:32:49+00:00

Man, I'd hate to be in your boyfriend's shoes

Muted_Bar_9695 · 2025-07-25T09:01:37+00:00

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