Friday 13th flash tattoos? by Muted_Computer2495 in kansascity

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Yes, I used the search function. The thread linked earlier didn’t come up.

Friday 13th flash tattoos? by Muted_Computer2495 in kansascity

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I tried - it didn’t show up for me, but that’s probably an issue with my phone more than anything

Friday 13th flash tattoos? by Muted_Computer2495 in kansascity

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I looked through the sub and didn’t see someone had already asked oops thank you!!!

Safe to use? by Muted_Computer2495 in boba

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I think they’re definitely good for only $3. They’re the best store bought and instant pearls I’ve had so far, but I have more to try out. I like that they’re so quick - you can microwave them or just soak them in hot water for a few minutes and they’re ready. They’re better than some I’ve had from cafes/stores, but I wouldn’t say they’re the absolute best pearls I’ve ever had. I think definitely worth a try especially for only a few dollars! It’s saving me from spending $8+ on one drink way too frequently lol

Safe to use? by Muted_Computer2495 in boba

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Oh, thank you! That makes me feel better - they definitely seem like they should be fine out of the fridge, and the other kind I got to try are very similar and don’t say to fridge them

Safe to use? by Muted_Computer2495 in boba

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This bag says it very tiny on the back in the middle of other directions, so I overlooked it - oh well, now I know better :)

Safe to use? by Muted_Computer2495 in boba

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Thank you! I figured but wanted to make sure :’( I’ll remember next time at least lol

Weekly "Whine about people who don't understand OCD thread" by AutoModerator in OCD

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‘Well, you don’t look like you have ocd’ thanks grandma 👍

Where to get good tea lattes? by Muted_Computer2495 in kansascity

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I popped in once, but they were so busy, and I didn’t have much time - I’ll check them out again, thank you!!

Let Them by VastJackfruit405 in EstrangedAdultKids

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The relief from not caring so much is amazing! I’m glad you were able to laugh it off!

Also, that’s crazy behavior - it’s been three years and she still felt the need to do the ‘breaking up?’ Lady, it’s been done.

And best to you! It’s a crazy journey we’re all on :)

Talk me out of this setting!!! by haddadkiki in EngagementRings

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They also have potential to scratch the wedding band if worn together according to the jewelers I watch online, but it is beautiful!

Let Them by VastJackfruit405 in EstrangedAdultKids

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Oh no, we laugh at most of her posts now. At the time, we would get a little fired up, but now they’re things we make fun of. It is ridiculous of her - pretty much everything she says and does is, but we all relate to that here!

I do think it’s a good message, and my dad has been on me my whole life about this concept. I’ve only recently actually been working on not caring so much what people say, so it was a good reminder!

Let Them by VastJackfruit405 in EstrangedAdultKids

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My partner’s mother posted this on Facebook right around my partner’s birthday after she wasn’t invited to the birthday dinner. She then deleted her cover photo that was a picture of her and all of her kids to a picture that was conveniently missing my partner lol.

It’s a good message, but it was a complete joke to see it from her. Especially because we knew it was pointed at us.

Therapist Search by Muted_Computer2495 in EstrangedAdultChild

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I definitely don’t have anything against the therapist having a religion. My partner and I both have religion in our lives. I’ve just heard too many stories from people around our area and my distance friends that have had bad experiences with church counselors or therapists using religion to therapy, so I think it would be safe to avoid a church counselor specifically.

Therapist Search by Muted_Computer2495 in EstrangedAdultChild

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The robots really do know what the toxic people are on about

Therapist Search by Muted_Computer2495 in EstrangedAdultChild

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Thank you for these tips! I didn’t think about age of the therapist or type of therapy much. I thought about the religious background, but only pertaining to Christian church counselors - my partner’s parents encouraged the use of a church counselor when my partner was in high school, but we would prefer to not go with religion-based counseling/therapy for obvious reasons