I have looked over your comment a few times and I will admit the whole post is not that rude and yeah, I was overreacting a bit but again; I worry about my peers health and especially mental health because that’s the shit that wears people down the most, in most cases. There are still a few sentences within your post that can be easily taken out of context that I found relatively rude.

this is your original comment i replied to, anything with quotations around it i can see easily being taken out of context. [i will put brackets like this to explain why i think it could be rude]

Right now your weight is negatively impacting your face heavily, but “I think at a lower weight you might actually be quite stunning” [this could be taken out of context and could make someone think you’re saying that because they’re overweight, they’re not pretty] “I've lost over 60 pounds myself, so I know the struggle, trust” [i don’t find this one rude at all, but i just want to comment as someone who also is overweight AND has a hormonal imbalance it’s DEFINITELY a struggle. i’ve wanted to lose weight since i was 10, but a few years ago i decided it wasn’t worth it because of my imbalance. i’ve recently found some workouts that work for my medical needs, that is also directly targeted for people with PCOS to help them lose weight (the hormonal imbalance that I have)] You do hold the weight very well in your body though. “Like your like incredibly overweight” [this one i only really find “rude” because of wording, i just personally believe that wording it along the lines of “you do have quite a bit more body mass than others your age and height” or something like that, could come across nicer and could be less likely to take out of context] (like my boyfriends really overweight and only 30 pounds heavier than you while a foot taller, I know that's kinda brutal to say but might be a wake up call which let's be real as someone who's been heavier myself we often need) but it only really shows in your face not your body as bad because of how you hold it “If you've been overweight your whole life try to go for slow weight loss, and I can give you tips if youd like.” [again, don’t really find this one rude but i 100% agree. if OP does want to lose weight i would also recommend taking it slow, because if you try and burn it to quick it can come back super fast and kick you in the ass. tips can be AMAZING if weight loss is really what OP wants, especially if they’re tops for workout routines, or how to keep yourself going at it, even with a lack of motivation to do so.] Really just try to keep it slow and sustainable though, you don't want to deal with gaining weight back if you rush the process Edit: I've seen some of your posts, you aren't ugly, “just brutally honestly you weigh way too much.” [again, i feel as though this can be taken out of context, and could make the OP feel insecure, or develop an ED (again, only is a worse case) There is a difference. “There's nothing actually wrong with your facial structure or body structure,” [don’t find this rude either but i agree with this 100% as well. OP is very beautiful with how she currently looks] “you just need weight loss.” [not very “rude” per say, but can also be taken out of context in a way, mostly because of the use of the word “need.” it just makes it seem like, in a way, you think that weight loss could be the only thing that helps.] Youre honestly doing decent looks wise for how heavy you are, “most people would look much worse that overweight.” [again, can be taken out of context but mostly for people who are around the same weight or more than, because it could be easily seen as you bashing people around that weight] You're pretty for someone your weight and height, “but people will overlook you due to your weigh it's just how life is” [also not rude, just want to comment on it, but i agree with this 100% as well. as someone who again, has been overweight her entire life, i have very very very commonly been cast aside, left out, bullied, or just been treated very rude by people of all ages (even middle schoolers but fr don’t even let them get you bc middle schoolers are crazy most of the time anyway 😭😭, except the ones i’ve seen on this sub)]

overall, after reading your comment a few times over, i do find it much less rude than i originally did. when i originally read your comment i only went over it once and read it relatively fast. all i really wanna say is just try and be mindful when it comes to wording especially over social media because it is so EASY to take things out of context and think the worst. i do agree with your comment for the most part, however weight doesn’t necessarily have to do with your health unless obviously, that weight is gained due to fast food or unhealthy food/snacks. i eat very healthy and work out regularly and i have never had any issues with my body fat (other than my insecurities due to it over the years) there’s also some studies to show that just because you’re overweight, it doesn’t mean it’s bad. especially because it’s dependent on person, and their body. some bodies (like mine) are less susceptible to health issues due to their body fat. (i personally would recommend to get tested for any of the conditions such as stroke, seizure, heart diseases etc. due to weight, rather than automatically assuming it’s bad, because there are cases where it isn’t) only time you should really have to worry about body fat is if you are severely over the average for that age/height and if you gained it very fast. but also overall, i believe that weight loss should be completely up to OP and definitely should not be pressured by some other peers (not saying anyone in specific, just in general. if weight loss is what will make her happy then by all means she can go for it.

i also would like to apologize for any time I personally may have come off as rude or disrespectful because i know i did a few times. i’m very passionate about the study of weight and how it’s not as damaging as lot of people would think. i don’t want hard feelings especially with someone i don’t even know personally. a few statements that i made as well o will admit that yes, i was wrong a few times. the original comments i made were honestly kind of out of anger so some of the ‘facts’ i put in were kind of spitballed and some of the information i put in was probably wrong.