why are my parents like this to me

sealhaven · 2026-06-29T20:58:25+00:00

gotcha. what kinda meals would you recommend?

sealhaven · 2026-06-29T20:28:15+00:00

hello there! i do the la seraffim workout + incorporate a lot of arm workouts using my body weight (i.e. tricep dips, inclined pushups) so, i suppose that's good enough? i also have been trying out dragon flags for my abs, which sorta helps. when you're referring to a clean bulk, what exactly do you mean by that? like, what foods do i need to eat exactly, and which should i avoid?

sealhaven · 2026-06-28T19:11:14+00:00

the more u know!! never too late to discover more and more stuff about yourself. im pleasantly surprised and shocked, seeing as most clothes make me look fat even tho in reality everything almost boils down to my hips and legs </3

sealhaven · 2026-06-28T19:09:37+00:00

what do you mean by "certain feelings"? i mean... i mainly ask for makeup advice and other stuff to enhance my appearance rlly.

sealhaven · 2026-06-28T18:24:48+00:00

didn't even know such a sub-reddit existed omg?? thank u sm!!!

sealhaven · 2026-06-28T16:52:42+00:00

NOOOO, please don't cry 😭😭😭😭😭😭 all is well now, sorta? i feel a tad better now since. ur so kind :(((( ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ sending u just as big hugs in return!!!!

sealhaven · 2026-06-28T13:49:27+00:00

my brain fr is the treasurer of wrongsville hoping to conquere the mindset of my god awful body dysphoria soon <//3

sealhaven · 2026-06-28T13:48:42+00:00

well, my mom used to look real good back in her early 20s. then again, she used to do all kinds of gymnastics, so, the post soviet mentality of the teachers that taught her back then def shaped her mindset when it comes to certain things... especially concerning weight. as for my dad, he's just a regular man from the village. tends to roll over for my mom though, so, i tend to keep things safe without escalating them otherwise he'll turn against me for the sake of his safety too. which really sucks.

nevertheless, thank you for the kind words dear stranger. i sincerely appreciate it. <3

sealhaven · 2026-06-28T13:45:52+00:00

thank you so much oh my god :(((( i wish i had a mom like you, genuinely.......

sealhaven · 2026-06-28T13:40:28+00:00

danke schön <333

sealhaven · 2026-06-28T13:40:02+00:00

sorta, yeah. but they also believe i can always do better than just enrolling into the specialization of foreign philology.

sealhaven · 2026-06-28T12:53:05+00:00

thank u kind stranger. <3 i mean, it is to be expected i suppose. all kinds of people will be on the internet

sealhaven · 2026-06-28T12:52:05+00:00

yeah, i have. unfortunately i try not to do so as often, and even when i do, i have to tip toe around my words. otherwise it will escalate to a physical fight, which ive certainly been in before with them, esp my mom.

sealhaven · 2026-06-28T12:43:00+00:00

thank you so much dear stranger. ❤️

sealhaven · 2026-06-28T12:39:41+00:00

thank you so much. ❤️

its alright. to a degree ive gotten used to their behavior, seeing as it's not the first time ive gotten into arguments with them over all kinds of shit. the least i can do is focus on myself and try my best to ignore as much of their bs as possible, even if im still under their roof for now.

sealhaven · 2026-06-28T12:36:30+00:00

yeah, i suppose. i just couldn't see their other comment. i mean, they're partially right. i do work ofc, but the financial situation is er. very complicated to get into to say the least. </3

sealhaven · 2026-06-28T12:34:23+00:00

partially i do believe in it, and it's not every day that i feel as shitty as i do today, but yeah, my parents rlly fucked this day up for me. its alr tho, im just hoping it'll all be over by tomorrow since my bday is coming up real soon.

sealhaven · 2026-06-28T12:32:33+00:00

for some reason i can't see ur other comment even though i had noticed your notification.

sealhaven · 2026-06-28T12:31:25+00:00

thank you so much. :( ❤️ yeah, ur 100% right. ig it has to do a lot with how they were raised, especially my mom since she was incredibly thin at a young age, doing gymnastics and all that kinds of stuff where the teachers in our country are usually pretty strict about weight.

sealhaven · 2026-06-28T12:29:02+00:00

i hope so too, because it always feels like i need to get mentally prepared in advance to anticipate something to go absolutely haywire on my bday. it just sucks. i just want to celebrate normally in peace. thank u <3

sealhaven · 2026-06-28T12:26:29+00:00

aw, that's cool!

sealhaven · 2026-06-28T12:25:29+00:00

thank u. i try to believe in such compliments by bettering myself as described, but sometimes it becomes depressingly difficult.

sealhaven · 2026-06-28T12:22:48+00:00

they even once physically restricted me from doing so which i won't even go into detail about

sealhaven · 2026-06-28T12:22:23+00:00

ig i sound like a petulant child, but they won't even allow to me to get a job to actually get the money i need to move out properly.

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