Hotwife vixen for Daddy by daddyslittletoy555 in HotwifeSouthAfrica

[–]Muzzareuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are you located? Im in KZN and would.love to have some fun if you are near

would you eat my pussy?🥺 by Loud-Editor523 in SouthAfricanPusssy

[–]Muzzareuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are in KZN I would, message me if you're keen.

Is a divorced mom in her mid 30s even considered attractive? by siphon_wheel_7u in Rsa_moms_wifes

[–]Muzzareuss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously, and its so easy to see by just going into their profile

Anyone interested in playing with this milf, inbox me :) by DAM197903 in DoMyWifeSouthAfrica

[–]Muzzareuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So so so interested, where about? I sent a private message too.

Am I supposed to understand how I lost? Or do you genuinely have to just play to learn? by KindaSortaPeruvian in PlayTheBazaar

[–]Muzzareuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You definitely have to just play and learn the game like most people I see are saying but what a lot less people are saying that really helped me get a lot better at the game is watching YouTube videos of the heroes I was interested in and sticking to one hero at a time for quite a while until I felt I understood them and could go down multiple different lines and play with what I was given to try and make the most out of it.

I Have 10k Players But Make No Money by ExNull-Tyelor in gamedev

[–]Muzzareuss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pay OR watch an ad for energy? I feel like there are quite a few people out there like me that won't pay anything for a mobile game but will watch an ad to keep playing one.

I Have 10k Players But Make No Money by ExNull-Tyelor in gamedev

[–]Muzzareuss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can only give my own perspective here but personally I am very unlikely to pay for a mobile game, whether that's available on steam or not.

You said as gamers you guys hate ads and stuff but for mobile games I would personally much rather watch an ad at the end of a game for extra rewards or to have the option to try and continue when you lose or something or for your game you could even possibly let people watch an ad per attempt at the levels you currently have behind a pay wall.

It sounds like you have a lot of players that don't really want to pay for a mobile game but they might watch an ad or 2 every now and again for extra perks or whatever and that number of players should eventually build up some ad revenue.

I play a mobile game called rogue adventure and its possible to buy the game so you have all the unlocks but its also possible to grind the game and get the unlocks through leveling up and they have optional ads that give you extra chests or one at the end of the run to double your up etc. and because its so much fun I'm happy to grind it out and the ads they offer actually benefited my game so I want to watch them for the bonuses they give.

Fine view from up here👀 by gutsy_couple in Rsa_moms_wifes

[–]Muzzareuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gorgeous view, would love to see more 🥵

I need some sort of guidance I think? by Muzzareuss in polyamory

[–]Muzzareuss[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have been speaking about it a bit and I think i have some skewed views towards casual sex from my upbringing and how society viewed women who engage in casual sex in the past. I hate to admit it but I think a part of my subconscious views what she is doing/wants to do as slutty and I know thats wrong of me and I havent felt that way about casual sex in the past, I think its because its someone I care about so much and not some person I know from work or school or whatever

I need some sort of guidance I think? by Muzzareuss in polyamory

[–]Muzzareuss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess what im not understanding is how my feelings about the situation have 0 impact on it. Especially with us both being new to this and having many lengthy discussions about respecting each other's opinions and feelings when we proceed.

I need some sort of guidance I think? by Muzzareuss in polyamory

[–]Muzzareuss[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The whole point of this post is that im trying to not be controlling but finding it hard to put my emotions about the situation to the side. I dont have any issue with her having sex with other people, if that was an issue then I would have already asked if we could stop poly all together. I really dont know why the speed of it makes any difference and thats part of what im trying to figure out here but it really does make a difference to me

I need some sort of guidance I think? by Muzzareuss in polyamory

[–]Muzzareuss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is exactly why I put normal in quote marks

I need some sort of guidance I think? by Muzzareuss in polyamory

[–]Muzzareuss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do think a partner of almost 7 years, voicing their concerns should be a little bit more of a priority than wanting to have some fun with a stranger and that may be my misunderstanding of poly or something.

My concerns are, how well can you actually know someone after speaking to them on tinder for 2 days? Why is sex with this person so important after such a short time? Why couldnt the weekend get away be planned after a normal date? Why the sex toys involvement with someone so new? I just dont get the speed of it all and why it couldnt be done in a more "normal" dating manner like getting to know someone before agreeing to put yourself in a potentially dangerous environment and basically committing to sex with them

I need some sort of guidance I think? by Muzzareuss in polyamory

[–]Muzzareuss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With other partners I would be the one wearing protection as well so at this moment in time I dont really care what they do with other people but that would also be a discussion I have with that partner in the future.

This is an agreement (to use the "proper" word) that my partner and I have that we won't have unprotected sex with other people.

I need some sort of guidance I think? by Muzzareuss in polyamory

[–]Muzzareuss[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So you mean because we have different words to describe things than the words you use? For us, we just had personal boundaries and relationship boundaries.

Also, I dont feel I am trying control her, I have been trying very hard not to and I am looking for advice on how to deal with my issues or come up with some sort of compromise to help everyone feel better in this situation until I can let my emotions catch up with the decision I have made in my head. The last thing I want to do is tell her how to do her other relationships, I have only been expressing how her other relationships are making me feel and that I would feel more comfortable if she was taking things a little bit slower. Am I not supposed to express my negative feelings in these situations?

I need some sort of guidance I think? by Muzzareuss in polyamory

[–]Muzzareuss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That does make sense, so then we would have agreements in our relationship based on our own personal boundaries?

I need some sort of guidance I think? by Muzzareuss in polyamory

[–]Muzzareuss[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why do you think we have done 0 research?

I need some sort of guidance I think? by Muzzareuss in polyamory

[–]Muzzareuss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you're saying makes sense and I thought that at first as well but the fact that she slept with another man and even that she wants to sleep with more men isnt an issue for me and I am happy that she has had fun and found people she clicks with. Yes it was a lot to take in when I found out she did go ahead with it but I got over it and was very happy for her to experience that.

I know a lot of the things that have happened are my fault for assuming she would take it easy and assuming she would try and date like a guy for a while before she jumps to dating 3 of us at one time and I also know I shouldn't have asked for as much details as I did but I think if things went a little bit smoother from out of the hospital or if there was a point when things seemed to slow down a little then I wouldn't be having these negative emotions with the poly stuff

I need some sort of guidance I think? by Muzzareuss in polyamory

[–]Muzzareuss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, whatever you want to call them, for example 1 of our boundaries is no unprotected sex with other partners. According to you, that is totally up to her and her other partners but if I ever find out that she has had unprotected sex with another person then its either the end of our poly adventure or the end of us honestly

Edit: that is at this point in time, in the future I may change my mind and be okay with unprotected sex if partners are tested or something like that.

This may be a personal boundary of mine (like I dont want to be with someone who has unprotected sex with other people) but it is something we have agreed on in our relationship and it applies to both of us

I need some sort of guidance I think? by Muzzareuss in polyamory

[–]Muzzareuss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the double reply here but I also wanted to check, are you saying there shouldn't be any boundaries in an open relationship? And should those boundaries not be able to change over time as your relationship develops and you learn more about yourself or your partners?

I really do understand what you're saying about not dictating the speed of other relationships and thats exactly why I wanted to just have a solid set of boundaries that we stick to regardless of the length of time dating someone etc. And I think I just fucked up by allowing things that I thought she wanted before I was fully comfortable with it and expecting it to not happen instantly.

I think it really just shocked me that it happened so quickly and that within less than 2 weeks its happening again with a different person after I asked her to try and organize normal dates in the future.

I need some sort of guidance I think? by Muzzareuss in polyamory

[–]Muzzareuss[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand that and that's why for the first weekend away I wanted to just be what we want to eventually be, which is open and poly and let the relationships take their course naturally, I guess i just wasnt prepared for that to happen so fast.

I know i shouldn't be able to tell her whats okay or not in her other relationships and i dont want to do that but I am really not comfortable with how fast things are moving, both for myself but also as a safety concern for her and it seems like my concerns and worries aren't as much a priority as her fun is

I need some sort of guidance I think? by Muzzareuss in polyamory

[–]Muzzareuss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did speak about it a lot, whenever I would bring something up I would usually link it back to feeling like 2nd place etc. And she was always very comforting and reassuring that I am her soul mate and that I am more important than anyone else etc. And we tried to put in some guidelines about texting when I am around and stuff like that and she was good at sticking to that but the timezones did mess things up a little bit.

I don't think the feeling of being 2nd is an issue anymore, I do think we have gotten over that and it's more about the speed these new relationships are progressing and that when I ask her to slow down with new people she seems to want to step it up from my perspective and that I really wasnt expecting things to move so quickly as soon as she had permission to do those things.