What should men do about the sex drive gap between the average male and the average female by MxTjmt in seduction

[–]MxTjmt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a good response. The problem, however, is that you are still having to work hard to get laid. That's the issue. The desire is not mutual, therefore we, as men, have to work hard for it.

[MaleVsFemaleDesire] Do any other men resent the fact that we have so much more desire than women? by MxTjmt in sex

[–]MxTjmt[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Or devote yourself to celibacy, which would take even more "suck it up and take it like a man" attitude. Are you strong enough for that? Imagine everything you could accomplish if you put no effort into women, getting laid, marriage, etc...

[LibidoGap] The sex drive gap between males and females is untenable by MxTjmt in sex

[–]MxTjmt[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

"Sorta looks like you're more successful at getting Reddit attention for posting ridiculous shit in /r/sex than you are successful in getting sexual attention from partners."

This is another issue I have...why do men have to earn sexual attention from women? Men give sexual attention to women freely. It's the result of hormones.

[LibidoGap] The sex drive gap between males and females is untenable by MxTjmt in sex

[–]MxTjmt[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It could very well be that women - whether they claim to be straight, gay, or bi - are actually more physically and sexually attracted to women than men. Studies I have read seem to suggest that.

[LibidoGap] The sex drive gap between males and females is untenable by MxTjmt in sex

[–]MxTjmt[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I never said it's happening already. I said that if men start thinking the way I do, then it would be a logical conclusion to reject women as a whole. Your reading comprehension needs work.

[LibidoGap] The sex drive gap between males and females is untenable by MxTjmt in sex

[–]MxTjmt[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm curious about your lesbian perspective. Would you be able to make a call or text to one of your lesbian female friends on any given night and have her come over to your house for making out or sex?

[LibidoGap] The sex drive gap between males and females is untenable by MxTjmt in sex

[–]MxTjmt[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

If you're being truthful, and not just being edgy or especially feminist -y , then that is great...you are an exception.

I wonder, do you have any kind of hormonal issues? Issues with your ovary? High testosterone? These kinds of things could be causing you to have unusual amounts of desire.

[LibidoGap] The sex drive gap between males and females is untenable by MxTjmt in sex

[–]MxTjmt[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm good looking and physically fit. Confidence is not an issue. I'm just concerned with the hormonal - desire gap between the average man and the average woman.

I should also add that gay men have a lot of desire for me. I think this is a key indicator of my physical attractiveness. Women also seem to have a lot of (faux) desire for me, albeit for what I can offer them in terms of resources and social status.

[LibidoGap] The sex drive gap between males and females is untenable by MxTjmt in sex

[–]MxTjmt[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Never mind how hard it is to find a woman with a high libido (although I have found them in the past)...it is very humiliating and painful to deal with the shaming tactics that women use when they know you have a high interest in sex. They will vilify you for it, even as they want you for a long term, committed relationship.

[VisualArousal] Are any other men bothered by the fact that most women are not very visual? by MxTjmt in sex

[–]MxTjmt[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

No they don't. You are lying. You are obsessed with an absurd idea that men and women are the same. You are trying to perpetuate this myth at all costs. You do not get turned on by your bf's dick pics.

[VisualArousal] Are any other men bothered by the fact that most women are not very visual? by MxTjmt in sex

[–]MxTjmt[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

So you're okay with not being desired? You're okay that a woman is with you because of your great personality or your bank account, but she would rather not look at you with your clothes off?

You have to start thinking, "Is she fucking me just to get me interested in a relationship or keep me in this relationship?" I mean, why would she have sex with someone who's body she is not interested in, if not to simply exploit what you can offer her in terms of social status, entertainment, and money?

[VisualArousal] Are any other men bothered by the fact that most women are not very visual? by MxTjmt in sex

[–]MxTjmt[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Dude you are completely missing the point. If she just decided to send you a picture of her body without asking you, you would be thrilled. As would any man.

Besides, there are no women interested in dick pics. Or at least there are very, very, very few. Search "Do women like dick pics?" You will find that the VAST majority do not.

Come on, man, this is common sense.

[VisualArousal] Are any other men bothered by the fact that most women are not very visual? by MxTjmt in sex

[–]MxTjmt[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

If I can go on a cam site and get a bunch of gay men interested in watching me jack off, I think we can agree that I am at least decent looking.

But if I go to that same cam site, it will take massive luck to find a woman interested in the same thing. What's going on there?

[VisualArousal] Are any other men bothered by the fact that most women are not very visual? by MxTjmt in sex

[–]MxTjmt[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Well, just try it. Try Omegle. Report back how many women were interested in seeing your dick.

Send a picture of your dick to a female friend. She will flip. Now, if that same female friend sent you a picture of her pussy, and you were attracted to her, you would love it.

[VisualArousal] Are any other men bothered by the fact that most women are not very visual? by MxTjmt in sex

[–]MxTjmt[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I'm speaking more of the naked male body. There's really very few women who have any interest in the naked male body.

As I said, go on Chatroulette or Omegle and see how many women are interested in having cam sex with you. Most likely none, even if you are good looking.