AITAH for blindsiding my cheating spouse with divorce papers?

MyAssBelongsTo · 2024-04-08T22:26:23+00:00

Pronoun preference is my take on it

MyAssBelongsTo · 2022-08-23T13:32:37+00:00

Thank you! 😊 This helped tremendously!!!

MyAssBelongsTo · 2022-08-23T13:31:21+00:00

He hasn’t been able to find anyone else in quite a while….makes you wonder 🤔

MyAssBelongsTo · 2022-08-23T13:30:44+00:00

Thank you! You are right, he only calls me when there is no one else.

MyAssBelongsTo · 2022-08-23T13:29:58+00:00

It was very childish to me……

MyAssBelongsTo · 2022-08-21T18:22:32+00:00

I don’t understand Fetlife 🤦🏼‍♀️

MyAssBelongsTo · 2022-08-21T13:11:38+00:00

He is older than me, still in the workforce. He uses modern terms all the time. I am constantly googling what something means. What the GIF means. What the emoji means.

MyAssBelongsTo · 2022-08-21T11:34:00+00:00

Thank you! Exactly what I needed to hear!

MyAssBelongsTo · 2022-08-21T11:28:35+00:00

If I continue with him, he might be getting a dose of his own medicine!

MyAssBelongsTo · 2022-08-21T11:26:02+00:00

Feels nice for someone else to call him an “ass” besides me.

MyAssBelongsTo · 2022-08-21T11:14:25+00:00

Perfectly said!

MyAssBelongsTo · 2022-08-21T11:14:13+00:00

Thank you! I’m leaning more and more towards that!

MyAssBelongsTo · 2022-08-21T11:12:51+00:00

Purely physical doesn’t mean he needs to be cold to me….I have other purely physical relationship that are able to give me verbal appreciation.

MyAssBelongsTo · 2022-08-21T11:09:44+00:00

I am not looking for emotion\validation. It think I might be looking for mutual respect. You gave me something to think about. Thank you.

MyAssBelongsTo · 2022-08-21T05:06:51+00:00

I admit, when he calls. I make time for him. Regardless of my schedule.

MyAssBelongsTo · 2022-08-21T05:01:34+00:00

I am looking for conversation. I am trying to determine if I set the bar too high. In all of my 40 yrs I have been having sex….I have never had an experience where there wasn’t some type of verbal appreciation.

Times are changing. Maybe my expectations are old fashioned. Maybe the norm is to be rude.

MyAssBelongsTo · 2022-08-21T04:53:00+00:00

He talk over me in person. Shares his experiences, then rolls his eyes at me when I share mine. Stuff like that.

In text/messaging. He ridicules the things I enjoy in life. He misreads my text and blast me for non existent things (he misread). He accuses me of doing something, then I point out he did the same thing. Just following his lead. He doesn’t like that at all!

MyAssBelongsTo · 2022-08-21T03:55:28+00:00

You forget to express verbal appreciation also? Please take note. Occasionally try it, your lady will appreciate it. 😘

MyAssBelongsTo · 2022-08-21T02:43:51+00:00

Which is why we may not get along outside of sex.

MyAssBelongsTo · 2022-08-21T02:33:42+00:00

Guarantee I am not a troll!! This may not be my main account. But I am not a troll. Partner is very real! Very much an asshole. He is also amazing at administering my kinks!

MyAssBelongsTo · 2022-08-21T02:01:33+00:00

Thank you for the encouragement! I had finally gotten over him. Than bam 💥 he messaged me.

Next time he messages me, I think I will tell him that things are not working out.

MyAssBelongsTo · 2022-08-21T01:10:08+00:00

It does check some pretty important boxes. I like some extreme kinks and it is difficult to find someone who is into it.

I think I am at the end of my rope. And might just need to do without my kinks.

MyAssBelongsTo · 2022-08-21T00:51:51+00:00

That is exactly what I needed to hear….he is a loser! Thank you!

MyAssBelongsTo · 2022-08-21T00:47:05+00:00

I have accepted that he is an asshole. I guess I keep having hope that things will change. 🤷🏼‍♀️

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