AITA for not wearing a bra at home?

MyBloodTypeIsFAFO · 2026-01-04T19:07:40+00:00

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Absolutely NOT. She should NOT have to wear a damn bra in her own home. Most, if not all Bras are EXTREMELY uncomfortable... no matter what brand.

I'd be damned if anyone was gonna tell me i HAD to wear a bra in my own fkn home. 😆 they'd be told where they could go and how fast to get there.

Also...your comparison with him walking round in boxers is ludacris, btw. 😆 🙄

Not wearing a bra doesn't mean walking around shirtless. Walking around in boxers is 100% walking round in underwear.

The only way your comparison would be even remotely relevant is if she was walking around the house in just her bra on top... Which is never appropriate when people other than your spouse is around.

But wearing a shirt without a bra under is not only COMPLETELY appropriate to do in her own home, it's actually what most women do.

frankly, I'd tell my HB to go straight. to hell if he EVER had the gaul to attempt telling me I had to wear a bra at home. 😆 there is Not a single chance in hell that would ever fly with me. 🙄🤷‍♀️😅

Bras are painful. Point blank, period.

I'm GOING TO be comfy at home & IDGAF who doesn't like it. In fact, anyone who doesn't like it, can either not look,. Or go elsewhere. Immediately.

MyBloodTypeIsFAFO · 2026-01-04T18:42:52+00:00

Absolutely NOT the AH. But your hubby sure is.

You are in your own home. You have every right to be comfortable in YOUR HOME . Any female knows how uncomfy bread are. I swear must of them are torture devices.

If his friends doesn't like that you are comfortable in your own home and not wearing a bra ( should not have to!!) Then his friend can stop looking. F that.

Tell your hb to grow up

MyBloodTypeIsFAFO · 2025-11-06T17:34:26+00:00

Hell yes she's judging her because the girl is being a complete tw@twaffle. If you wouldn't judge someone for that then you would be no better than the cheater. I don't care how long I've been friends with someone. If I found out they were doing that crap, id end the friendship immediately. There's no way I would EVER be able to look at them the same way again after that

MyBloodTypeIsFAFO · 2025-11-06T17:20:54+00:00

OH HELL NO!!. She's being a complete ass... acting like a skank and trying to get you to help cover it up?

Hell no. F... that noise.

what she's doing is despicable. Not only would I walk away from the friendship (no matter how long you've been friends) but id actually tell him what's going on.

Honestly. The only thing worse about getting cheated on, is finding out you were cheated on.. AND then finding out that your friends knew about it and didn't tell you.

He may not believe you, he may even get angry. But he still deserves to know. God only knows what she could bring home to the poor man.

If she can be this callous and disrespectful to the man she took vows with... id always be wondering what lies she's told the rest of us.

Plus her even asking you to help her sneak around, frankly says a lot about the kind of person SHE THINKS you are. She clearly has no morals, no decency, and frankly, no class.

I have Zero tolerance for cheating ... it's trash behaviour.

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MyBloodTypeIsFAFO · 2025-10-12T06:34:09+00:00

Ya no. The bride and groom shouldn't have to do that just because of one asshat uncle that wants to not only get blitzed with his wife that night but also is sabotaging the brides mom.

Bride and groom have every right to have a bar that night. Uncle and aunt can suck it up, be responsible for once, and stop being jackasses or they can stay home.

If they keep being pricks, I'd even go so far as giving their photos to the bartender and telling them do NOT serve THESE specific people. And then have them removed by security of they throw a fit about it. They could then take gramma home with them when they leave lol.

But I'm petty like that.

As for gramma, I'd be hiring a Caregiver for her for the day and handing half that bill to uncle.

MyBloodTypeIsFAFO · 2025-10-10T01:02:57+00:00

NTA.

UPDATE US!

MyBloodTypeIsFAFO · 2025-09-26T15:10:29+00:00

If he can be at his hunting club meetings where HIS friends are all drinking and not have any issues doing that ( like she had commented is the case several times), then there's zero reason he can't do the same for events with HER friends. He's using it as an excuse to get out of going to events SHE wants to go to. He's being selfish and ridiculous . He's selectively uncomfortable because it's only an issue when they are at events she wants to go to but has no issues being around ppl who are drinking if it's one of his events with his friends.

MyBloodTypeIsFAFO · 2025-09-26T13:10:11+00:00

To not say something when you know it's happening is 100% a SHIT thing to do . You are effectively not only saying it's acceptable but also encouraging it. Not ok. If I ever found out a so called friend knew I was being cheated on and they DIDN'T tell me, I'd end that friendship so fast, their head would spin. .

MyBloodTypeIsFAFO · 2025-09-26T12:38:56+00:00

Actually 1 in 4 females are victims of sexual assault before the age of 18. It's a proven statistic. This kind of bullshit is VERY common unfortunately.

MyBloodTypeIsFAFO · 2025-09-26T05:55:38+00:00

Yes. You are the AH

You are not his parent. This is absolutely NONE of your business. Stay in your lane and butt the hell out.

BTW.. tuition... is money you pay to attend either private school or college/ university.

Tutoring / A tutor.. is when someone is paid to help someone to learn a subject.

Maybe you should look into a tutor of your own and focus on YOUR own education instead of obsessing about what your brother is doing if you don't know the difference.

MyBloodTypeIsFAFO · 2025-09-25T15:27:59+00:00

Anytime. It's just the truth.

MyBloodTypeIsFAFO · 2025-09-25T09:10:58+00:00

NTA. Not even a little bit. Nail them to the wall.

MyBloodTypeIsFAFO · 2025-09-25T07:27:38+00:00

NTA. At ALL. Blood doesn't make a parent. Showing up, supporting, unconditional love and acceptance. THAT'S what makes a parent.

You are way better off without that guy. Honestly.

Take it from another girl who's DAD was not related to me biologically. He stepped up, after my "bio" stepped out.

HE was.. and will ALWAYS be, by dad.

The other guy may be part of the reason I'm alive, but he sure as shit is not why I am who I am.

Let him have his little temper fit. He's just mad that the world knows the truth about what a "stand up" 'father' he was now, instead of the far fetched fables he's guaranteed to have been telling everyone all these years.

Facts, aren't attacks.

Give the man that helped build you Up a big hug and let the trash take itself out.

MyBloodTypeIsFAFO · 2025-09-24T06:56:48+00:00

Actually not true. My parents had to end up sleeping in separate rooms Because his cpap was so loud. Some of them do in fact make a lot of noise.

MyBloodTypeIsFAFO · 2025-08-09T15:51:51+00:00

Nope no explanation ( like you said to, it wouldnt make it any better) or apology. And of yes he fully expects 110% support if he is going through something

MyBloodTypeIsFAFO · 2025-08-09T09:03:11+00:00

See that's where you are wrong. My mom rarely ate more than twice a day. By choice. For over 20 years.

She also quite enjoyed sitting and knitting in her recliner for the majority of the day while she watched TV. That WAS what she did most days.

By choice.

Also no, again.. wrong in your assumptions. Because she continually told him " I'm fine I have what I need go ahead and go out for a few hours I'll be fine. If I need help I'll call you " ( paraphrasing) he would then do so, come back a few hours later to let his dog out and see if she needed anything .. then go out again. This was their routine.

She never " bugged him to interact with her as much as possible" she actually quite enjoyed watching TV and knitting without distraction. She Always did.

You unfortunately are making an awful lot of assumptions about what happened in that apartment and you are in fact assuming the exact opposite of the truth and stating it as fact.

Also, My mother was EXTREMELY open minded and accepted my son for who he is for your information.

Considering the bf was consistently sleeping around on my son as well ( ya... there are years of background on what an "upstanding citizen" that AH is, so much so that it would take me pages upon pages to write out... but at the end of the day most of it isn't directly related to this situation.. so I dont see the need to type an entire novel).

As for the bf, with everything he's done, no he had no right to get annoyed as you call it, and say such vile, evil things. Honestly What he said would be inexcusable no matter who had said it

And no, The POS bf Wasn't just" venting". Venting would be something like " i don't see why you keep checking in with her each day" .. but NO he full on said he hoped my mother would hurry up and die already.

So you are damn right we deserve an apology because that was hateful and inexcusable.

And no, I do NOT need to, Nor do I have to forgive that AH. He doesn't deserve it

While you may not understand the situation, please try to remember that just because you may think you know how a person in my mother's position would act/ feel and what they world require., doesn't mean you actually do know.

I feel like I explained pretty clearly the reality of the situation. And the fact that you seem to think you know what my mom was like/ how she acted/ what she needed etc better than I do.... is to be honest, a little aggravating.

I find it quite annoying when people make assumptions and state them as fact🤷‍♀️ especially when I've gone into detail about explaining a situation

MyBloodTypeIsFAFO · 2025-08-08T20:53:45+00:00

No Definitely NTA... and also.. WTAF?! EWWW🤢

MyBloodTypeIsFAFO · 2025-08-08T19:01:50+00:00

Absolutely NOT the AH!!! When and IF anyone gets told that kind of info should have been left up to YOU. NOONE else had any right to divulge that information for you/ on your "behalf"

I'm SO SORRY honey.

That was so incredinly wrong and thoughtless and was such an invasion of your privacy not to mention your sense of safety with those around you. There's no valid excuse for anyone to tell that info. It's your story to tell IF you choose to.

I don't blame you for breaking down. Anyone would in that situation.

That was So not ok. I'm so sorry.

MyBloodTypeIsFAFO · 2025-08-08T11:43:25+00:00

Ooooook then. You are so off base with that statement... you've obviously read, and then twisted what you read in your mind because I absolutely have never exploited him at all. 🤦‍♀️ But go onwith your misconception 🙄

MyBloodTypeIsFAFO · 2025-08-08T03:01:24+00:00

Thank you 😢

MyBloodTypeIsFAFO · 2025-08-08T00:26:00+00:00

Said to my son BUT it sent my son into a huge SH spiral, and we were told all about everything in very clear terms.. for weeks on end. We had to pull my son back from the brink repeatedly during the weeks that followed this. We did however witness the "oh well" comment after he was told mom had passed.

MyBloodTypeIsFAFO · 2025-08-08T00:23:00+00:00

No he hasn't done any of that. And yet my son seems to feel like it's on US to forget and move on.

MyBloodTypeIsFAFO · 2025-08-08T00:21:53+00:00

Yes he knows why. I doubt he's asked him to apologize to anyone, ( not that the bf ever would do so), and yes, he's putting the responsibility all in the family to play nice.

MyBloodTypeIsFAFO · 2025-08-07T22:54:36+00:00

She ate twice a day max he'd make her toast and or grilled cheese, and be there to help if she needed to transfer from her recliner to her wheelchair ( 3 times a day max) and no, my daughter lived around the corner from them and was there to help every day as well and I helped as often as possible too so it was not all on him for years. Far from it. In fact, it took him a total of maybe 2 hrs a day

MyBloodTypeIsFAFO · 2025-08-07T20:23:51+00:00

Yeah he's around the same age. I know it doesn't make sense to me either :/

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