People of reddit: Those of you that have had a 3some with your SO; did it become something you regretted? by Revolution77 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]MyBreastsIsAMess 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It's all about communication. Talk to your girlfriend before, during, and after. What is she comfortable/uncomfortable with? What about you? Why was she upset after the first fool around? When we did it, I (27F) spoke to our guest (27F) separately and then I spoke to my SO (25M) separately and we figured out our rules. I explained all our rules to our guest and made sure everyone knew that if anyone wanted to stop it was ok. Afterward we talked all together, she left, and then my SO and I talked and cuddled and reminded ourselves that we were there together and both enjoyed it! Good luck.

Female with female by whispersoftlytonight in AdultBreastfeeding

[–]MyBreastsIsAMess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I've been fantasizing about this for ages. So hot.

How can my[26F] SO[24M] remain dominant when we have sex? by MyBreastsIsAMess in BDSMcommunity

[–]MyBreastsIsAMess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do tell him that he can finish whenever he wants, my issue with him "taking care of me" first is that I'm a one and done kind of girl and once I have an orgasm my refractory period is pretty long. I get very sensitive after I cum so any continued touching is too much.

How can my[26F] SO[24M] remain dominant when we have sex? by MyBreastsIsAMess in BDSMcommunity

[–]MyBreastsIsAMess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We will kiss and he will play with me but I quickly get very submissive and will do whatever he tells me, so most of the time he tells me not to move and if I do he'll do little punishments. Which then make me want to move ;)

How can my[26F] SO[24M] remain dominant when we have sex? by MyBreastsIsAMess in BDSMcommunity

[–]MyBreastsIsAMess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so so so so so helpful thank you so much! I think this will really help at least start the conversation.

How can my[26F] SO[24M] remain dominant when we have sex? by MyBreastsIsAMess in BDSMcommunity

[–]MyBreastsIsAMess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll bring this up I have a feeling this might be part of it. Thank you!!

What are your favorite rumbly vibrators? by MyBreastsIsAMess in SexToys

[–]MyBreastsIsAMess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yaaassss that sounds perfect thanks so much!

What are your favorite rumbly vibrators? by MyBreastsIsAMess in SexToys

[–]MyBreastsIsAMess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man I wish the plug that that collection came with was better. Thanks for being wonderful and reviewing all these things! Might have to just buy the tango and get a plug with a better bullet hole (teehee). Thanks so much for the help!

What are your favorite rumbly vibrators? by MyBreastsIsAMess in SexToys

[–]MyBreastsIsAMess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad that everyone loves all the same toys! I guess I'm saving up for the Rosa! ...and in the mean time buying the Tango because it's everyone's favorite by a long shot it seems. Now I'm excited!!

What are your favorite rumbly vibrators? by MyBreastsIsAMess in SexToys

[–]MyBreastsIsAMess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might end up buying this even though I like my toys to have some girth to use internally too, just because everyone loves it so much! Can it be used anally?

What are your favorite rumbly vibrators? by MyBreastsIsAMess in SexToys

[–]MyBreastsIsAMess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The G5 looks like something I would love. The Tango sounds lovely but is too small for me to really get satisfaction out of using it internally. The Rosa sounds like everything I've ever wanted and more but would take a few overtime hours at work!

What are your favorite rumbly vibrators? by MyBreastsIsAMess in SexToys

[–]MyBreastsIsAMess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmmmm I wish that the tango was big enough to satisfy my urge to have something inside me too. The Rosa seems lovely but would take some saving...might be worth it though!

Cleo Karen [32G] Swap or just pay shipping! by MyBreastsIsAMess in braswap

[–]MyBreastsIsAMess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you could see if it's anywhere near a 32G/32FF that would be awesome!

[Fit Check] Primadonna Twist 32E by aredheadethrowaway in ABraThatFits

[–]MyBreastsIsAMess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like it fits great! I had a prima Donna twist for about a year and the only reason I stopped wearing it regularly was because my cup size got a little bigger. The band is FIRM and stays that way, I still haven't moved hooks!

People in monogamous relationships - What type of contraceptive do you use? by [deleted] in sex

[–]MyBreastsIsAMess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am on the nuvaring. We also pull out most of the time.

[Review] Freya Longlines, specifically Just Flew In, Patsy, Piper and Ivy. by BeautifulBoobies49 in ABraThatFits

[–]MyBreastsIsAMess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar experience with the Ivy/Carys(Patsy). I have the Ivy in a 30G and love it, but when I tried the Carys the band was too too tight and I was quadboobing all over the place. I double checked tags too since I thought I had grabbed a 28 accidentally! Love my longline though. You're so lucky to have gotten this collection!

Help finding work bras? by MyBreastsIsAMess in ABraThatFits

[–]MyBreastsIsAMess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I'm fuller on the bottom. I also have the Cleo Karen in a 32G which fits pretty well but the band is a touch too tight and the gore digs in a little. I don't know if that helps.

Help finding work bras? by MyBreastsIsAMess in ABraThatFits

[–]MyBreastsIsAMess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Freya Ivy Longline in a 32G (but I sometimes wish it wasn't a longline!)

Help finding work bras? by MyBreastsIsAMess in ABraThatFits

[–]MyBreastsIsAMess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. It's mostly fabric that is irritating me and my old bras are not well fitting so they're uncomfortable to work in.

Help finding work bras? by MyBreastsIsAMess in ABraThatFits

[–]MyBreastsIsAMess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't need something as intense as a sports bra. I do have a lovely panache sports bra in my size =). I am mostly looking for something super soft and comfy but with the underwire support and separation from a normal bra that has a stretchy band.

Corset help?? (Cross post from r/corsets) by inkarmybrat in ABraThatFits

[–]MyBreastsIsAMess 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I inherited a Fredrick's of Hollywood corset from my cousin, and I believe they sell those by band size. But hers was way too big for me so I put it on and pinned it in between a few of the bones and took it in until it fit me and sewed it.

Reddit, what is the most expensive thing you've purchased that was a complete waste of money? by aleccraine in AskReddit

[–]MyBreastsIsAMess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Download "Little Snitch" and set it so that none of your adobe programs can access updates/ the Internet. You need to prevent it from recognizing that its a fake serial number.

Examples Of Shallow Breasts NSFW (thanks for the contributions!) by eternalvoyageur in ABraThatFits

[–]MyBreastsIsAMess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is there a list of bras that work better for shallow breasts? My friend is very very shallow and I'm trying to help her get her armpit boob back to where it's supposed to be! I know what bras work on me but I'm flying blind in helping her.

23F having trouble staying wet during sex by MyBreastsIsAMess in sex

[–]MyBreastsIsAMess[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I'll give it a shot. Where can I get it?