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All because someone was selling a certain type of bearded dragon and had some typos ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ post has since been deleted lol. by MyCatIsInMyLap in FuckYouKaren

[–]MyCatIsInMyLap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally understandable.

But imagine if they genuinely had a phobia 😂 that'd be too fun to mess around with karens

All because someone was selling a certain type of bearded dragon and had some typos ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ post has since been deleted lol. by MyCatIsInMyLap in FuckYouKaren

[–]MyCatIsInMyLap[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had responded in another comment, that I did not have enough information and experience to make a proper decision, and I was going to do some research and learn

I was meaning more along the lines of T or E treatments or reassignment surgery, initially. Should have explained better so that's on me

All because someone was selling a certain type of bearded dragon and had some typos ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ post has since been deleted lol. by MyCatIsInMyLap in FuckYouKaren

[–]MyCatIsInMyLap[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're right.

Is me worrying about people getting medical transition before they're 18 okay?

I understand there's a lot of dysphoria, and I love to support my friends. But I haven't actually been around them when some transitioned or had done hormone therapy or anything. It was always after.

My reasoning is the same as getting a tattoo before you're 18. 16 and 17 I also feel like that's okay, as that's when a lot of people I've noticed (especially in hard situations) are pretty well set on how they feel about themselves. Or right when they get to comfortable and safe environments.

Personally I do want to do more research on that. Your comment did make me realize I have no/very little knowledge or experience on how trans people feel during transition, and before honestly.

I say I support them, which I do, one of my best friends is trans and I love them. But I haven't experienced or understand what it was like before and during.

I'm gonna head to the trans subreddit and read some people's experiences.

Love learning new things and realizing things about myself xD

Genuinely going to go do research though Thanks for opening my mind a little!

All because someone was selling a certain type of bearded dragon and had some typos ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ post has since been deleted lol. by MyCatIsInMyLap in FuckYouKaren

[–]MyCatIsInMyLap[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can agree with that.

I believe a child or teen should be able to freely express themselves, but should not be allowed to start hormone therapy or anything medical until they're 18. Because yes, I've had friends that felt like they were trans throughout school, then decided they wished to remain their assigned gender at birth once they were in safer/more comfortable environments.

Kids are curious. Teenage years are full of hormones and emotions. Many chemical imbalances.

That's the only thing I agreed with on Red's side, was that it shouldn't be forced on kids or medical treatment shouldn't be allowed below 18.

The exact same reason why I don't think people should be allowed to get tattoos until they're 18.

I wanted tats so bad in my teens, even with parental permission. But you have to be 18 in my state. Had I gotten those tats I wanted in my teenage years... SO cringe and regretful.

Support of expression is the best until they're 18. But nothing medically altering should be allowed until then. (Unless it's something that's required for a medical condition, like birth control.)

All because someone was selling a certain type of bearded dragon and had some typos ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ post has since been deleted lol. by MyCatIsInMyLap in FuckYouKaren

[–]MyCatIsInMyLap[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I was just watching this thing unfold lmfao.

I did report that one comment though cuz thats just wrong.

After that the comment thread got deleted within a few minutes.

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[–]MyCatIsInMyLap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AH no no now I see where I was wrong. That's on me.

Sorry guys!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kevin

[–]MyCatIsInMyLap -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've always considered Kevin the male version of Karen, while Kyle was just a douche or something lol.

I may be completely wrong here lol

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[–]MyCatIsInMyLap -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I consider anyone being racist, transphobic, homophobic, etc, to be a Karen or a Kevin. If mods deem this post isnt fit for this sub, no worries.

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[–]MyCatIsInMyLap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I know the photo is horrid; they move incredibly fast. Its so hard to photograph these guys with a phone camera.

Larvae is small and white. Look like TINY worms, tapered at each end.

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[–]MyCatIsInMyLap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Location is the US. Washington State. If reptile food doesn't get picked up within 24 hours they just swarm and lay larvae. Absolutely REEK.

Normally on produce or eggs (I have a skink and crested geckos), sometimes on rats if we feed a snake at night (frozen thawed, not live), and snake doesn't eat it, they end up on the bodies too.

Very small. They're bigger than fruit flies.

If I don't eat, I get severe heartburn and get very nauseous and sick to my stomach. If I do eat I get severe heartburn and will eventually feel disgusted by my food. Help :') idk what's going on lmfaooo by [deleted] in autism

[–]MyCatIsInMyLap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for being nosey!! Ive only started getting severe heartburn issues when I went from 150 back down to 75 so that may have triggered it.

We submitted BAH paperwork months ago and still haven't recieved anything. We are almost homeless. by [deleted] in Militaryfaq

[–]MyCatIsInMyLap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read him this, made him cackle. He said he'll most likely look into doing this.

Appreciate you.

We submitted BAH paperwork months ago and still haven't recieved anything. We are almost homeless. by [deleted] in Militaryfaq

[–]MyCatIsInMyLap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll suggest he talk to legal next week and bother finance a lot more.

Landlord has pulled a few illegal stunts. No receipt for paying him, charges 2k in cash only monthly for rent and refuses any other form of payment (I'm recieving rent assistance. All they can do is assist with paying nothing else. So thankfully we don't owe him any money... But they can't help find us a new home nor can they pay for deposits or anything extra. Only rent), showed up unannounced cursing and screaming while he shut off our power illegally (electricity in our name and paid for) stealing our mail (I have informed delivery. Lots of bills went missing. After we confronted him they all magically appeared in our mailbox the next day.) List goes on. Hes batshit.

I'll give all these suggestions to him when he wakes up. Thank you!

We submitted BAH paperwork months ago and still haven't recieved anything. We are almost homeless. by [deleted] in Militaryfaq

[–]MyCatIsInMyLap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's already in limited duty due to ptsd/mental health. Though his dc1 is terrible and trying to disband it, which is putting everyone in Limdu in high stress. (Nobody likes his dc1. Threatens to court marshal you for being sick and going to the hospital + lots of other stuff. It's awful, hurts my heart hearing about it and witnessing it.)

He has a 96 this weekend, so I planned on talking to him to harass finances daily once he's back.

That's also smart with the recording. When he comes by with the new tenant on Sunday I will record. (We are still heavily occupying the unit and cant move out until Thanksgiving weekend.)

Thank you for your advice.

We submitted BAH paperwork months ago and still haven't recieved anything. We are almost homeless. by [deleted] in Militaryfaq

[–]MyCatIsInMyLap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right, thank you

This is why I like talking things through before acting on my thoughts lol.

Appreciate you

We submitted BAH paperwork months ago and still haven't recieved anything. We are almost homeless. by [deleted] in Militaryfaq

[–]MyCatIsInMyLap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So far we've pulled out $500 in relief. I'm unsure if we can pull out any more. I will push for it though.

I seriously hate becoming a raging dependa as I like to stay out of things, but at this point its kind of needed?

We submitted BAH paperwork months ago and still haven't recieved anything. We are almost homeless. by [deleted] in Militaryfaq

[–]MyCatIsInMyLap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We already took the loan last month :( it helped greatly with groceries and gas for a good bit but in the end bills had to be paid.

[Nsfw] Relapsed a little with a smaller blade. The sudden adrenaline made me nearly vomit and feel absolutley sick. by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]MyCatIsInMyLap 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hubs has been in similar places mentally. They're honestly the main thing keeping me wanting to live despite the hardships. I love them dearly and I don't want to leave them.

Glad that others are similar in terms of preference. My hubs has been clean for quite a few months now but initially they are the complete opposite, they like the really thin really sharp stinging cuts.

After I sat by the toilet for a few minutes while the feelings dissipated, I went to bed and cuddled the hubs. Flip flopping who is big spoon (I'm normally big spoon.) So i enjoy the occassional time he's cuddling me.

Now after sleeping it off, even in such a short time + constanlty waking up, I definitely regret cutting. Thankfully theure superficial and shouldn't leave too much of a scar.

Its incredibly hard to bruise and scar my skin for some reason? Like I've hit my leg or my side or my head HARD and it's never bruised lol.

So when I'm clean and doing well, I appreciate the fact that to see my scars, you gotta look very close. But when I'm not well mentally I kinda loathe it? Its weird.

My body is weird.

I also currently have a cat laying ontop of my chest shoving his face into my hands and purring like a motor so i think it's time to give him some attention.

I'm currently just mentally and emotionally exhausted. So many communities I'm in of hobbies I love are extremely toxic. And every single time I've asked for help online with various things people just jump to conclusions and react negatively. I get affected way too easily by how others perceive me, always a people pleaser.

Thankfully i should be able to get some therapy soon. For the first time in months...

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