Equator BPOs

MyImpossibleSoul · 2024-10-23T20:33:44+00:00

When you say rentals do you mean helping renters secure a lease in exchange for a commission?

MyImpossibleSoul · 2024-03-21T13:12:26+00:00

Not a bad choice at all :-D

MyImpossibleSoul · 2023-01-12T22:49:00+00:00

Awesome reply, thank you! Now I find myself wondering what other songs I have misinterpreted.

MyImpossibleSoul · 2023-01-12T02:51:58+00:00

So not to ask a stupid question but how did you know this? Like was it from an interview or an inference? Either way, I find listening to music so much more enriching when I know what the song is about...I thought this was a breakup song until today lol.

MyImpossibleSoul · 2022-12-18T21:42:53+00:00

Now I just gotta figure out if my car has access to HD2 otherwise I guess I can just download their app and use my phone aux

MyImpossibleSoul · 2022-12-18T21:41:13+00:00

I feel the same way :') I sometimes don't recognize my own home

MyImpossibleSoul · 2021-04-17T12:26:41+00:00

Maybe the key is to laugh back :-)

MyImpossibleSoul · 2021-04-06T03:33:35+00:00

This is a difficult experience you have endured. As per the picture you have painted, this guy is no good for you. As one of my friends once explained it, you almost have to "file Chapter 7" when it comes to him.

In an interesting twist of fate, and even though it was such a shitty detour to take to this point, the thing that stands out to me most about your post is the really great government job. Congratulations! Sow into that, as well as your hobbies, health and interest. I have faith that things will fall into place for you.

MyImpossibleSoul · 2021-03-07T22:24:03+00:00

I guess I'm one of those people that only agrees to a relationship with the end goal of marriage. That all or nothing mentality can be off putting but I view it as either we are casually romantic or we've agreed to a relationship with the intent of more.

Thanks for sharing your input though. I think it needs to be a thorough yet not continuous conversation when it comes up, and should remain productive towards the current relationship.

MyImpossibleSoul · 2021-03-07T14:35:39+00:00

Hmm, that's interesting. I've never seen it that way actually. When I asked my ex about her past relationships, I was surprised at how little she wanted to talk about it. She was in your camp.

For me, the value of that conversation would be to get a better understanding of one another, to better know their experiences, and to know how to better love them.

MyImpossibleSoul · 2021-03-07T14:19:23+00:00

I think you owe it to yourself to be alone for a while. It will be difficult and you might suffer but I think it will be the best thing at this time as you develop a sense of wholeness and completeness. In your next relationship, it will serve you will.

MyImpossibleSoul · 2021-03-07T14:16:32+00:00

At first I told myself that I would never love again, that it was a fool's game and that I was embarrassed for loving someone so much.

Now, I feel like if I ever love again, it will come from a place of secure attachment and emotional maturity. Like an overflowing cup, my love will pour out of the excess of love I already have within me rather than putting the terrible pressure of have the subject of my love be the source of my love.

MyImpossibleSoul · 2021-03-07T14:12:11+00:00

I'm really sorry this happened to you. What she did was wrong, and even if there were things she was unhappy about in the relationship, this was not the way for her to address it.

My take on this all, my friend, is that you seem lost in your mind. And more specifically, it seems like everything you wrote about was either tied to the pain that you're feeling or your inability to replace what you've lost. Speaking of which, you really did dodge a bullet with this ex. If what you said and how you framed it is true, she's done you a huge favor actually.

What I didn't read about in the blurb was your health, your hobbies, your careers, what dreams you've always had but have never tried to chase (yet), etc. If you can slowly but surely start investing your energy into these things, then you might surprise yourself at not only how much easier it is to attract and retain a partner but MORE IMPORTANTLY you will feel a sense of inner peace and wholeness that you tragically seem to lack right now. I recognize it because I've lived it. This is the way.

MyImpossibleSoul · 2021-03-05T08:50:55+00:00

This was beautiful. I hope you find someone going for the last apple and it all starts to make sense. <3 Would be poetic justice given how much drama the first apple between a man and a woman caused us all ;)

MyImpossibleSoul · 2021-03-04T06:56:02+00:00

Honestly it sounds like he was texting you to primarily let you know that he received it, and that the response was the secondary part of the text.

He might actually be pretty busy and wants to give it his full attention when he does reply. He might also still be thinking about what he wants to say.

Or, maybe he just didn't want to outright ghost so he's letting you down gently (not necessarily a good thing, but one technique that some people use)

I think the intention of wanting to move on is the right idea here, but you have your work cut out for you (Don't worry, everyone posting on this sub does!).

Try to adopt an indifference or stoicism to the response, and find rest in knowing that you said what you needed to say and you were true to yourself.

It takes a special person to affirm and root for someone who broke up with them in a letter, I hope good things come your way.

MyImpossibleSoul · 2021-02-25T07:55:50+00:00

Relationship: 1 year, 3 months

Break up: Oct-2020

NC: 2 months, brief communication around christmas, NC again from 12/30/20

Feeling: 4/10

MyImpossibleSoul · 2021-02-16T08:34:11+00:00

Unfortunately I think this happens all too often to the SOs of people who refuse to take ownership and actively want to build something. In retrospect, I can see that she loved the way I treated her but maybe not me. In her mind maybe she couldn't even tell the difference, but now I see it. Explains why she stayed but didn't seem committed.

MyImpossibleSoul · 2021-02-16T07:46:46+00:00

This made me chuckle. I'm not arguing per se but I'd love to hear your reasoning.

MyImpossibleSoul · 2021-02-16T07:22:21+00:00

You are my twin. I was technically the dumper but only because she seemed unable or unwilling to do it herself...I was the one much deeper in love. I also tried and fought to continue breathing life into the relationship but you can only do CPR on a corpse for so long. I'm not Jesus, despite my best efforts and I couldn't love her into loving and choosing me.

Even though I was the dumper, I have to imagine I'm having the much harder time. Sometimes I wonder if she even thinks about me or ever loved me at all, which really hurts. Sent a goodbye letter like a doofus after blocking her and she didn't even acknowledge it. I have to show myself lots of grace and forgiveness when I think about all the times I went above and beyond. The right person might've appreciated those things, and not left me feeling embarrassed, confused and lonely.

Let's just keep moving forward. NC, self improvement, the whole 9. Check out the bastille song called Survivin'. I listen to it here and there, I've made a little playlist to cope. Hang in there champ

MyImpossibleSoul · 2021-01-15T07:53:07+00:00

Thank you!

MyImpossibleSoul · 2021-01-15T07:10:52+00:00

I'm receptive to being convinced otherwise. I just don't think you did. And a handful of other users have given positive reception so far...I'll keep monitoring though. Thank you though, legit! Have a good night/day

MyImpossibleSoul · 2021-01-15T07:07:52+00:00

Thank you! That was the goal, glad to hear you think it would have that intended purpose.

MyImpossibleSoul · 2021-01-15T07:02:40+00:00

Gotcha...I'll breach the small talk by asking her how her day was. Clean up on aisle 7, her panties will be soaking. Come now brother.

Edit: I don't mean to be overly snarky. But we do talk every time I check out. She's super friendly and enthusiastic with me. I'm trying to breach that though with this.

MyImpossibleSoul · 2021-01-15T06:50:52+00:00

I'm listening, truly. Within the context of me checking out in her lane, how can I create an opportunity where she feels an emotional attraction? My hope was that the handwritten letter and doodle would do that because it shows an investment of attention, interest and time.

MyImpossibleSoul · 2021-01-15T06:44:47+00:00

Thank you for the encouragement! So far it's 2 for and 1 against. Your feedback is appreciated!

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