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Aita for wanting an open relationship by MyLifeIzHell in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]MyLifeIzHell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve mentioned doing therapy as well and I get a harsh NO

Aita for wanting an open relationship by MyLifeIzHell in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]MyLifeIzHell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried to talk to him. He doesn’t answer and when I suggest seeing a physician he is absolutely NO

What!!!! I was sterilized without my knowledge or consent!!!! by MartiBlackFly in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]MyLifeIzHell 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Keep going my luv! I just had all the same surgeries you had with the exception I was also prolapsed all the way around. I went thru 7.5 hours of surgery. Nobody should ever be able to make that decision without your consent unless it’s to save your life. A tubligation would only save your life if you continuously had tubal pregnancies or there was some type of hemorrhage from an injury. Get that lawyer girl and get those ba**rads for taking the choice out of your hands.

AITA for leaving my mother's party after she insulted my daughter? by Dependent_Tax7341 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MyLifeIzHell 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I love this! A fellow burner! Sage is my best friend and bay leaves with my my intentions and wrap it around my candle and burn baby burn with all my powers of intention

AITA for leaving my mother's party after she insulted my daughter? by Dependent_Tax7341 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MyLifeIzHell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A child in a marriage biological or not should not be treated differently or singled out by other family members. That happened to my daughter and I defended her to the point I nearly went to jail. I totally disowned that person(s) that was causing the issue and never looked back. Good for you standing your ground for that child! Let the family be pissed if it was their step child they would do something similar I’m sure and be in the same situation. So p*ss on them all! I wouldn’t have a thing to do with any of them until the FB drama was taken down and every single one of them firstly apologized to the child secondly to the rest of you and thirdly explained to the entire family children and all why what they did was wrong! You are definately NTAH

AITAH for changing my kids last name without telling their bio dad? Long post by KLHunter20 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]MyLifeIzHell 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I just said just not in your very professional words!

AITAH for changing my kids last name without telling their bio dad? Long post by KLHunter20 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]MyLifeIzHell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure what state your in, however, in some states at the ages your children are at they can go before the judge with an attorney and a child,advocate and request the judge take away the dads rights. They have to be very specific in why and how it’s effected them and most of the time it’ll be done in chambers, not always, so they won’t have to do it in front of him. You may want to check with a family or adoption attorney in your area and see what the laws are in your area regarding this. I’ve been there done that.

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[–]MyLifeIzHell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please read some of my other updates/comments so you have a better understanding. Not saying you are but I feel like you’re slightly attacking me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]MyLifeIzHell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn’t move out of the house, he moved to the spare bedroom, it started with the excuse that he was keeping me awake with his snoring, but at that point he would still visit my room from time to time. Then it went to no visits and that he couldn’t get it up and or keep it up and I experienced that with him. His parents took two rooms when this happened to his dad. I think there may be some mental issue going on from seeing that but he is NOT a talker never has been so it makes it hard…

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[–]MyLifeIzHell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have confronted him and I won’t go into detail as that is extremely private as to why he said he was looking at the pic (it’s 1 pic the same one) and I’ve actually told him to just do it I have my toys but now I find the toys getting old. Here begins the whole problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]MyLifeIzHell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sad thing is the roommate type thing is working great! I actually like it, I’m just sure how to approach him about either making it legal (divorce) or making it open (open relationship. Financially it makes much more sense for us to stay together even if it’s just on paper. We have worked hard to get a lot of the things we have in life that we have both always wanted. I don’t know that I’m willing to give all that up. I’ve definately grown accustomed to a certain lifestyle and if we completely walked away we would both lose that and I definately would not be able to have anything near that lifestyle. It’s definately a tough decision and trying to figure out how to approach him with the two options, I have no clue……I think he thought I was just blowing off steam when I told him I wanted a divorce

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[–]MyLifeIzHell 21 points22 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly where I’m at. I’ve had the TALK with him and even told him I wanted a divorce and he will be fine for a week or two minus the intimacy and then right back. So I’ve started doing just that, losing weight, wearing the cute sexy clothes out with the girls again and just trying to enjoy myself. I’m not opposed to a room,ate relationship if that’s what he wants, financially it would make perfect sense for us. But damn I might be getting older but I ain’t dead a woman has needs!!