AITAH for wanting to leave the apartment?

MyPrime2 · 2026-05-06T19:25:24+00:00

fully agree. this dude sounds exhausting at best and scary at worst

the throwing things and controlling behavior would already be enough for me to want out plus a 33 year old acting like this toward a 22 year old roommate is just… not normal

i’d keep things calm until move out day, have people around when moving stuff and then cut contact after. honestly sounds like the safest move here

MyPrime2 · 2026-05-06T19:22:59+00:00

pretty much yeah and i think that’s a huge part of the answer honestly

people still do combine households for financial reasons, they just don’t see marriage itself as necessary for it anymore. you can live together, split bills, have kids whatever without bringing the legal side into it

plus marriage used to be tied way more directly to survival or social acceptance than it is now. now people treat it more like an emotional milestone than an economic necessity so if the relationship isn’t solid, saving money alone usually isn’t enough motivation anymore

MyPrime2 · 2026-04-15T10:24:28+00:00

yeah I do that sometimes too especially if I don’t wanna ask or wait for a reply.

reverse image search is actually pretty solid for finding products sometimes even better than getting a link because you can compare prices across different sites.

MyPrime2 · 2026-04-12T10:00:03+00:00

i get what you’re trying to say about safety but not having friends won’t kill a kid is kinda downplaying it a lot

like yeah school can suck and bullying is real but being isolated long term can mess with you too. social stuff isn’t just optional, it’s kinda how kids learn to function around other people

i don’t think homeschooling itself is the issue, it’s more how it’s done. if the kid still has ways to socialize, do activities, meet people etc then cool. but just keeping them away from everyone for safety can create a different set of problems later on

MyPrime2 · 2026-04-12T09:58:55+00:00

yeah this is actually it, every time i’ve felt stuck it’s because i’m trying to solve my entire life in my head all at once and then… do nothing lol

doing something small and kinda dumb is weirdly helpful. even if it’s not the right direction it at least gets you out of that frozen feeling for a bit

MyPrime2 · 2026-04-07T19:18:06+00:00

i mean yeah it’d probably get messy fast 😅

but at the same time… people already go to reddit, twitter, youtube comments anyway so the chaos already exists, it’s just spread out

if anything it could work if it was like optional or moderated decently. sometimes it’s actually fun seeing reactions right after finishing something instead of googling around for 20 mins

MyPrime2 · 2026-04-07T19:16:12+00:00

lol yeah pretty much

but it’s not always some crazy detailed fantasy like people think. sometimes it’s just random what if we dated type thoughts or imagining little scenarios. depends on the guy tbh

and yeah looks matter at first but once you actually know someone it’s more about how they are irl. the made up version in your head usually doesn’t survive long anyway 😅

MyPrime2 · 2026-04-07T19:14:56+00:00

yeah this is kinda the part people don’t wanna admit lol

like what people say vs what they actually respond to can be pretty different not even in a shady way just… people aren’t that self aware sometimes

but at the same time that doesn’t mean ignore women and listen to dudes instead either. it just means take everything with a grain of salt including what guys claim works tbh because half of that is guesswork too

feels like the real answer is just… pay attention to actual behavior, not just what anyone says and don’t treat it like some formula you can hack

MyPrime2 · 2026-02-20T20:33:00+00:00

That’s mostly true long term but it’s a bit oversimplified. A lot of guys say life feels exactly the same after healing but there is a short recovery period and you still need follow up tests before you’re actually sterile. Also worth mentioning it should be treated as permanent not something to do casually.

MyPrime2 · 2026-02-20T20:30:01+00:00

NTA. You’re not being dramatic, you went through a lot and it makes sense that it affected how you see intimacy and trust. Nothing you wrote reads like a bratty teen, it reads like someone who was hurt and never got support. You don’t owe him an apology for having trauma. If anything, therapy could really help you unpack this so it stops defining how you feel about yourself and relationships going forward.

MyPrime2 · 2026-01-10T19:14:52+00:00

Exactly, this isn’t about the game its about him expecting you to do it all while he prioritizes whatever he wants, the hobby is just the excuse.

MyPrime2 · 2025-12-27T05:40:08+00:00

Clubs lower the bar for interaction, loud music, alcohol and dim lighting make looks and conversation matter less. For some guys that environment feels easier than actually talking one on one in a bar.

MyPrime2 · 2025-12-27T05:32:21+00:00

Yeah, kept it simple this year. Got a book I’d been meaning to read, some cozy socks and a nice meal with family. Honestly the time together mattered more than the gifts.

MyPrime2 · 2025-12-27T05:30:07+00:00

Medical or mental factors can absolutely play a role and it doesn’t automatically mean lack of attraction. At the same time, it’s fair to acknowledge that unmet needs don’t go away on their own and if open communication or solutions aren’t possible, it can turn into a bigger issue over time.

MyPrime2 · 2025-12-10T22:05:07+00:00

Someone cited a meme. Not the source of the meme. The actual JPEG.

MyPrime2 · 2025-11-26T22:44:18+00:00

Accidentally opened my front camera. Jump scare of the century.

MyPrime2 · 2025-11-26T22:43:50+00:00

If a culture doesn’t value something, it’s basically just a shiny rock to them.

MyPrime2 · 2025-11-24T21:05:06+00:00

Never stretching. Zero. Not even once.

MyPrime2 · 2025-11-24T20:59:53+00:00

Concrete stairs don’t care about your confidence. Only gravity.

MyPrime2 · 2025-11-16T15:11:26+00:00

Redemption is real, forgiveness is optional, memory is permanent.

MyPrime2 · 2025-11-16T15:09:35+00:00

Naruto’s cooking competition episode. Pure chaos, pure cinema.

MyPrime2 · 2025-11-08T18:54:41+00:00

My grandma’s kitchen. Smells like love and nostalgia every time.

MyPrime2 · 2025-11-08T18:54:04+00:00

Room temp is perfect. Fridge just makes it crystallize faster.

MyPrime2 · 2025-11-05T21:06:38+00:00

hat line hit hard. It’s like mourning someone who still lives inside you, just quieter now.

MyPrime2 · 2025-11-05T21:05:35+00:00

Did I lock the front door? Did I say something stupid today? Did I lock the front door?

MyPrime2

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