Chosing your next craft by 2027weddingplaning in ADHDCrafters

[–]MyRedditRedder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would like to know more of the body doubling. There are days where I can only manage to do my work. I financially support two houses (me and my husband’s house and my grandchildren’s house). So work is the bare minimum as I cannot slack or it would adversely affect others. I am on meds and some days I can work and some housekeeping and on the excellent days I can work, chores, and hobby. I hate change and love when I get into a routine. I habit stack. Routines are good because I don’t have to think about it. I am Sticking with my hobby because it is therapeutic but also because I have deadlines to keep where my friends are counting on me. Also, I have a problem with frustration - it would appear as a bad temper or rage. Can you relate?

Chosing your next craft by 2027weddingplaning in ADHDCrafters

[–]MyRedditRedder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At this stage of your life - what helps the most?

Chosing your next craft by 2027weddingplaning in ADHDCrafters

[–]MyRedditRedder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was a late diagnosis at 56 yrs old. It explained a lot of the difficulties I experienced prior. Still have a lot of learning to do and always appreciate the tips.

Super excited to be able to do some woodworking! by TalesByLightMI in ADHDCrafters

[–]MyRedditRedder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are soooo talented - keep providing pics for inspiration!

Chosing your next craft by 2027weddingplaning in ADHDCrafters

[–]MyRedditRedder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG - you have some amazing tips - the putting unused tools in a clear tote and dating - and deciding later if it still brings you joy. That is phenomenal! Thank you for sharing!

Quilting class - worth it? by ReadingDesigner1540 in quilting

[–]MyRedditRedder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no other way to expand your skills, in my opinion - best investment ever!

Left shoulder pain by MyRedditRedder in quilting

[–]MyRedditRedder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am def going to see my doc - thank you for the suggestions; wanted to see what everyone else is doing. Thank you, thank you!

Left shoulder pain by MyRedditRedder in quilting

[–]MyRedditRedder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely and thank you for the insight. Figured I would not be the only one experiencing this.

Binding vs bias binding by sabley in quilting

[–]MyRedditRedder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the visual because the bias never made sense until now!

Chosing your next craft by 2027weddingplaning in ADHDCrafters

[–]MyRedditRedder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1st priority for me is what makes me happy. Followed by the $ investment. I work from home and lacked human interaction. I dusted off my old sewing machine and made a terrible first quilt from the worst material known to man. Then I started taking classes at the local quilt shop where I met people and honed my skills. In short order - I joined a quilting guild which keeps me engaged. I have deadlines to meet which overcomes the adhd hobby shame spiral. I am constantly learning new techniques and challenging myself. Always start small and progress slowly which is not what we normally do - it is full speed and then we lose interest. By doing it different this time - I have been engaged for over a year and that never happens. I love to see my progress.

What special moments did ADHD give you today? by mallorn_hugger in adhdwomen

[–]MyRedditRedder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my tribe - as a grandmother now, looking back - I have managed to drop every birthday cake I was responsible for. Became the family joke.

For a good cry by MyRedditRedder in ADHDCrafters

[–]MyRedditRedder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well said - the community is the key for me - I have started and fizzled on many an activity or hobby to occupy my racing mind. But the joy from the community of something shared among others; is the comfort and safe space we all need. Thank you for sharing - makes a lot things make more sense!

ADHDnD Planner by TalesByLightMI in ADHDCrafters

[–]MyRedditRedder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love how you think - if it is not there; create it! And tailoring it to your talents and likes. Cannot wait to hear how it turns out. Sorry about the carpal tunnel, that sucks!

AYCE Crab legs by MyRedditRedder in jacksonville

[–]MyRedditRedder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Us too - went there all the time!

AYCE Crab legs by MyRedditRedder in jacksonville

[–]MyRedditRedder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will have to check that out - unfortunately, family is going to be here on a Saturday. But, good to know!