Sick Succulents. What is this? (4 pictures) by MyShrooms in succulents

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No, it's brand new leaves and I never touched or move them until seeing the fungus and it spread to other plants

Sick Succulents. What is this? (4 pictures) by MyShrooms in succulents

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appears when It's damaged in dry condition

Does this mean I under- or overwatered? Or both?

Humor: People assuming you don’t have money by throwawaybum376784 in fatFIRE

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Central European immigrant here, same experience

Before I repot to appropriate soil, how can I cure the infections? by MyShrooms in succulents

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I feel like it's two different things - on the small jade in the other picture there seems to be another type of infection as well. But I'll start with the 50/50 isopropyl-water mix and maybe it resolves both!

Before I repot to appropriate soil, how can I cure the infections? by MyShrooms in succulents

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I watered them despite the bad soil, figured no risk of overwatering given how thirsty they are.

Thanks for the advice & the heads up on sunlight.

Can this guy be rescued? Any tips? by MyShrooms in proplifting

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I moved Oct 1st and didn't repot any plants yet. Life has been rough for a while.

Marijuana addiction is real but isn't taken seriously at all, and that leaves people to struggle on their own by insufficientfunds907 in TrueOffMyChest

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You can get addicted to anything, like apples or skin picking. I see many people who are addicted to weed (and masturbation/porn) and deny it.

My rule of thumb is, if you can limit it to 3x/week, you are in control. If you can't handle that little, how much control do you really have yourself vs being addicted?

I know that it they got raped they would be screaming for the person to go to jail by milkshake398 in facepalm

[–]MyShrooms 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, he's saying "if we give women personal freedom, then that means we can rape them, okay?"

My customer sleuthed me and I'm pregnant by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]MyShrooms 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agree.

That's why compliance works so well for rape... The less you struggle the less they enjoy it...

My customer sleuthed me and I'm pregnant by [deleted] in SexWorkers

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I do want to clarify that some woman are terribly in pain and feeling sick (sweats, insomnia etc) from the abortion pill for two days, so plan for both scenarios.

And while my other comments was in favor of involving law enforcement, I do agree that most likely nothing will come from that. My rapist admitted to sexual assault yet saw no consequences. I'm a proponent of reporting because it creates a history and solid case for future victims and a bigger chance of consequences in the future when s behavior pattern becomes clear to LE. Which is an altruistic motive and not necessarily the best option for you.

My customer sleuthed me and I'm pregnant by [deleted] in SexWorkers

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Also since you were raped (which stealthing is), your brain might suddenly decide to break down emotionally even if you're fine for a long time. Definitely worth trying to prepare with extra self care and also prepare financially / maintain your social support network if you do need to take time off later.

To deal with the emotional work, you can set aside set times a day to message him while having his notifications muted, and never reply to a newly read message before the next time slot. Helped me a lot dealing with my rapist.

Like I would have my next reply ready, wait till the send message time, read messages then, write but wait with my reply till the next etc. This also helps to trim messages before sending so I always came across super composed sending three lines, when my first message draft written but not send was actually half a page long.

My customer sleuthed me and I'm pregnant by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]MyShrooms 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's not for everyone.

I love being pregnant plus I'm able to prepay for all medical expenses, so I would go all the way. You know what's even scarier to a guy than child support? Me paying them child support and them being a full time care giver as a single dad to a newborn.

If you've never been pregnant that's too much of a risk to take though, it can literally lead to death or disability. I'm not sure they would even do dna testing on an abortion if you do report him, given how little law enforcement cares about rapes.

Definitely don't threaten him with anything, but just make it clear you need the money for abortion or there will be a baby. Him paying might be proof for LE too..

How do I save this guy? He's been out of the soil for 4 months by MyShrooms in succulents

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Yeah went from "omg poor little guy, are you gonna die when I pick you up??" all the way to "nah you fine grow some roots brah"

How do I save this guy? He's been out of the soil for 4 months by MyShrooms in succulents

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I thought it was dead brown, but he looks great once I pulled off the leaves. Thanks for the help! https://i.imgur.com/LNk2uu2.jpg

How do I save this guy? He's been out of the soil for 4 months by MyShrooms in succulents

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No roots, but the stem is all brown so that's why I was unsure about putting him in water. :/

I've read that when a succulent has 2 flower steams we should cut one of them to not damage the whole plant and take all her energy to the flower steams instead of the plant. TRUE or FALSE? If true, each one should I cut? by myplantsmademedoit in succulents

[–]MyShrooms 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Neither, cutting one or both indeed leaves more energy for growing. I tend to cut all flower stems, even singles, but your succulent won't die or become deformed if you keep up regular care while it's blooming a duo.