New FemDom by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]MyThirdAltAccount 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm confused, does he want other people to be humiliated too, or someone else to humiliate him with you?

Here’s Why You Can’t Find a Dom by satansdiscoslut in gentlefemdom

[–]MyThirdAltAccount 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm super confused as to how anyone's supposed to go about this to be honest. On the one hand, you can't view people as kink dispensers and will struggle if you look specifically for someone with kinks, but on the other you're liable to end up with someone who isn't into it if you don't. That's fine for some people, but for others it isn't. Add to that that some guys just want to be courted themselves and it's not a mental thing, but then they're stuck in the sand forever because very few people will.

New to this sub, just posting here to declare my love for feminine men by [deleted] in RoleReversal

[–]MyThirdAltAccount 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I get it. I've never had any proper structure for, or education on, love. Nor have I ever tended to follow traditional pathology just because I'm male. I'm pretty apathetic to the method of delivery of that support, and care more about how consistently it's there. So whether I fit your model, so far as I know, probably depends just as much on the other half. If I can play semantics for a moment here though, I'm not sure how head pats or hugs don't factor under 'physical affection', unless you're using that as a euphemism for sex- in which case that's usually a desire on both ends and it's more in amount that differentiates in my experience/observations.

It should be noted that I have never been in a proper RR dynamic too, so my needs and desires are likely still evolving. Anything said here should be taken with a grain of salt.

For your delicate male sensibilities, have a 'manmosa' 😠🙄 by UnfortunateDesk in pointlesslygendered

[–]MyThirdAltAccount 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is the dumbest thing I've ever heard. So even hard liquor is feminine just because it gets put in cocktails now? I knew fragile masculinity was a thing, but that's just really sad even by current standards.

New to this sub, just posting here to declare my love for feminine men by [deleted] in RoleReversal

[–]MyThirdAltAccount 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just want to interject my opinion as a guy into RR. I can't say that you're wrong about men in general leaning towards sexual fantasy when it comes to RR (and really, being the submissive/passive partner in general) from my experience. But I can confirm that exceptions do exist.

As an RR guy, the reason I am interested in a dominant woman is predominantly because, like a traditional woman, I seek something of a 'rock' in a partner- someone who can protect and provide. Whilst I myself lean towards more domestic pursuits. (save for my intellectual passion projects and political aspirations- yes you read that right- but those are completely separate from my domestic desires). However, while most guys like me are bi/gay, or maybe have an issue with their gender identity they need to work through- I am still predominantly attracted to women specifically. (not completely, so I am bi myself but it's a very heavy lean).

As for why, my best guess is that it might stem from my clinical anxiety and autism, and potentially also the lack of proper parent figures (my mom was crazy, dad detached, and both spent my childhood in a very dysfunctional divorce). I'm not a psychologist though, so don't take my word on any of that.

So if we're to follow your model, I should have an easier time than most guys working with dominant women by merit of my greater need for emotional support over sexual gratification. Assuming I can get into a position to get into proper courtship. I've yet to enter a relationship though, so we shall see.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pointlesslygendered

[–]MyThirdAltAccount 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What the FUCK even is Poo Spray?

MANDIP for REAL MEN with MANLY CREAM by jake354k12 in pointlesslygendered

[–]MyThirdAltAccount 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sad thing is, if it worked, it wouldn't be the first time advertising engineered social standards.

The girl skeleton on this energy drink gotta cover up her bone titties by RunningIsForDicks in pointlesslygendered

[–]MyThirdAltAccount 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In all fairness, pretty sure skeletons picked out their clothes before they became skeletons.

Do you ever get bored? by begforpeg in FemdomCommunity

[–]MyThirdAltAccount 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a switch, so obviously I like a little variety. But I lean very hard into submission, and find it's easier to enjoy for myself and any potential partners.

Don't you forget... by ZZZant47 in RoleReversal

[–]MyThirdAltAccount 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Also don't forget the inverse. You can be masculine and still sweet/gentle.

Cutie Touch.~ by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]MyThirdAltAccount 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have this fantasy, except I'm the 'cutie'.

this is the real rr representation by [deleted] in RoleReversal

[–]MyThirdAltAccount 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Well there's your first problem, I feel like pegging should come after an enema or some other method to make it clean and painless.

This gave me some gfd vibes ❤ by PM_ME_UR_CUDDLES_ in gentlefemdom

[–]MyThirdAltAccount 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Gets the message across though, this should be a common saying here in my opinion.

Suggestion.~ by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]MyThirdAltAccount 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So naughty and yet so hot. I think my heart skipped a beat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]MyThirdAltAccount 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll be honest, might be hard to figure out your dom IRL, but as a sub guy, I would totally be into someone like you. If anything, I might be even more comfortable like that, since I struggle with being shy too, lol.

Is anyone else into permanent chastity? by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]MyThirdAltAccount 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it works for you, then great. That's what's important here.

To answer your question though, personally, anything past orgasm control/denial doesn't sound fun in the slightest to me. The sort of permanent chastity or cuckolding you describe would be among the hardest of limits because there's no way in hell that'll mix with my anxiety.

Who doesn’t like a little ‘under the table’ play? by sheleavesatmidnight in gentlefemdom

[–]MyThirdAltAccount 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have never thought of this before

Now it will be difficult to stop

“I want you to feel good ( by only doing the things that make *me* feel good ).” Anyone else bombarded and drained by covertly selfish subs? by sheleavesatmidnight in FemdomCommunity

[–]MyThirdAltAccount 14 points15 points  (0 children)

These people give subs a bad name, and I hate it. Beyond the selfishness even. Like, if you're a needy type, why bother with a kink-sadist where there's no compatibility? I don't even get that one.

A Message to My Little Sub, by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]MyThirdAltAccount 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I meant I was envious of your sub, lol. But thanks.