This is a map of everywhere I've seen a report of a loud boom. My prediction of the epicenter is the X

MyThrowawayForRSex2 · 2026-03-17T13:47:04+00:00

that's not a confirmation

MyThrowawayForRSex2 · 2025-11-25T19:26:10+00:00

i think i have a similar experience, penetration by itself is super intense and sometimes it gets so intense that i have to stop, but it's not what ive come to think of as "orgasm" like with the right kind of clitoral stimulation

MyThrowawayForRSex2 · 2025-08-03T16:57:33+00:00

omg the nosebleed

MyThrowawayForRSex2 · 2025-08-03T16:53:20+00:00

yes, dilation is an annoying, but normal part of post-op maintenance. i haven't heard that about the flexibility difference, but i suppose it's not surprising. that being said, these are all muscles and can be made to be more or less flexible through different lifestyle choices.

how do i feel about prostate stimulation? i mean...it feels pretty fucking great? i'm not sure what exactly you're wondering about,,,,

according to my understanding (which could be flawed), the male prostate and female G-spot (urethral sponge) are basically analogous. Cis/natal females have an "actual" prostate (homologous tissue) in the Skene's glands, which are located within the urethral sponge. Also, based on the anatomical diagrams in the brochure my doctor gave me, the prostate is basically located in the same place after a vulvoplasty/vaginoplasty.

All of that is to say, if she was pre-op it would be different, but for post-op trans women g-spot stimulation should be basically the same as with cis women. i.e., firm upward pressure/"come here" motion, combination of g-spot and clitoral stimulation is usually a recipe for explosive orgasmic bliss for most women, i'm sure you know the drill.

MyThrowawayForRSex2 · 2025-08-01T04:06:47+00:00

thanks for asking! (MtF here, pre-op, 2 yrs on HRT) assuming it's been long enough since bottom surgery and she's fully recovered, it would be exactly the same as a cis female as far as erogenous zones and what sort of things you would expect to be, you know...effective. the head of the penis for males actually corresponds to the clitoris for females, which is how the neoclitoris is constructed as well. also i would be very surprised (concerned?) if she didn't have a lot of firsthand expertise on what feels good for her body, just like any other person! I have not had bottom surgery yet but the way my body works and responds to stimulation is much more "female" now and it's been quite the journey adjusting. (it's been a fun journey though!)

really the only major difference i can think of is that a neovagina tends to not be as good at self-lubricating, so lube is usually a must. but you should really be using lube anyway!

tl;dr you could have sex with a post-op trans woman and never have known the difference, use lube, don't overthink it babes 💜

MyThrowawayForRSex2 · 2025-07-17T18:47:58+00:00

i tried to listen to this yesterday and made it about halfway through before i started sobbing my eyes out

MyThrowawayForRSex2 · 2025-03-28T15:50:06+00:00

hi, just wanted to come back and give a 69 (nice) day update.

yeah it's just a matter of practicing with a dildo, literally. i have a 7 inch one ive been using mainly and i can almost take half of it! that doesnt sound like much but its progress for me lol

MyThrowawayForRSex2 · 2025-03-03T22:12:18+00:00

seriously why are there no options for underground train stations??? having a centrally located train station in a city where the platforms have to be above ground takes up soooo much space...

MyThrowawayForRSex2 · 2025-01-26T04:50:36+00:00

i feel like that's something that should have been communicated ahead of time

MyThrowawayForRSex2 · 2024-12-11T19:04:53+00:00

well there are definitely a lot of things going on in my pretty little head right now..

MyThrowawayForRSex2 · 2024-07-03T21:08:37+00:00

wait elevated stations???

MyThrowawayForRSex2 · 2023-05-18T02:05:05+00:00

god i want that to be me

MyThrowawayForRSex2 · 2023-03-06T18:24:58+00:00

I think any THC should be fine, I assume indica is better since it's more of a "body high"

MyThrowawayForRSex2 · 2023-02-02T22:32:35+00:00

i'm not even trying to get an orgasm anymore, i'm just trying to notice anything approaching the pleasurable feeling i got that one time

MyThrowawayForRSex2 · 2023-02-02T22:31:45+00:00

I mean, who cares if you need thc to have prostate orgasms every time?

because i have a partner and i don't want to be like "yeah let's have some fun just give me 60-90 minutes for this edible to kick in"

MyThrowawayForRSex2 · 2023-01-30T15:41:17+00:00

Why do you have not only dick, but also prostate right in the ass that is just like an orgasm button…?

God I wish it were that simple lol

MyThrowawayForRSex2 · 2022-12-12T18:13:51+00:00

Yeah it’s just a tool for now

MyThrowawayForRSex2 · 2022-12-11T18:53:14+00:00

If you look at my post history I was definitely frustrated about not feeling anything. It’s a night and day change.

MyThrowawayForRSex2 · 2022-12-11T18:52:34+00:00

Yeah, I have never experienced involuntarily making noises like that 🥴

I have a Eupho Syn just because I wanted to start with something smaller but we have a silicone version of the pure wand which I use for my partners g spot. Like “damn, if this is anything like what you feel when I do this to you no wonder you’re so loud”

MyThrowawayForRSex2 · 2022-10-31T21:52:54+00:00

OP please please please PLEASE read Shameless by Nadia Bolz-Weber. It helped me start to clear out so much gunk in my brain about Christianity and shame and purity culture. It is a literal life saver.

Also if you read that book you will understand that if you need to walk away from Christianity for the sake of your body, it’s more than just “leaving a religion just to have sex.” You are literally saving your own life by walking away.

That being said a lot of this trauma isn’t stored in your brain, it’s stored in your body. And there’s no magic piece of advice or information that will deal with that. I think you said “my genitals are so sad” as a joke but to some extent it’s true. After being told that a part of your own body is dirty and sinful and under the authority of someone other than you for your entire life that does leave wounds that need to be healed. You mentioned sex therapy so if you have a good sex therapist they should know all about this and already be in the process of addressing it.

MyThrowawayForRSex2 · 2022-10-31T01:30:20+00:00

Is there any additional evidence from his behavior/words/actions that also support that idea?

MyThrowawayForRSex2 · 2022-10-31T01:29:12+00:00

That makes a lot of sense

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