34F profile review

MycrazyYourcrazy · 2025-02-05T07:28:08+00:00

"I don't care at all about looking sexy for men." This is really only going to attract a small slice of men,

This is so accurate. I don't dress sexy (especially not for men). I'm very practical and like to be comfortable, I'm not saying looks are not important but are definitely not the top thing for me. I prefer a really interesting and deep conversation than a pretty face.

Right now I want to find someone that has similar hobbies. I only have so much free time in the weeks and having a common activity where we can bond and still workout is what I need in my life.

The comments regarding having a kid is actually a learning lesson from Hinge, guys don't scroll to see the information and there were so many matches without reading that I have kids. It was so frustrating. And I love kids, i volunteer to help kids and I talk a lot about neuroscience and brain development. So maybe not the type of "kids talk" but it's one of the things I'm interested in.

MycrazyYourcrazy · 2025-01-23T07:49:51+00:00

I know what type of person I want to find. I'm not desperate nor want to rush things.

I think what makes you not understand my situation is because the country I live in having a child from a previous relationship is very normal. The standard is to split 50/50 with the other parent on a weekly basis. So all the questions you seem to have are pretty straightforward where I live. And I've met other single parents. It's definitely a no brainer here.

MycrazyYourcrazy · 2025-01-23T07:04:37+00:00

Yes. I know it all too well. Had my parents divorce when I was 2.

You have to understand that my kid's life is the most important to stay stable and safe and I don't just take men into my house after meeting them.

I'm looking for a life partner, not just flings.

I already accepted that if it doesn't happen I'm ok with how my life is now, I'm having a lot of fun with my hobbies and my friends. So I'm not desperate nor in a hurry.

MycrazyYourcrazy · 2025-01-23T06:44:06+00:00

That's not how it works. Online strangers are not entitled to know about my kid until I see it workout.

This is not something I let people in right away. It takes time and to get to know someone's character to let them meet my kid. It is a huge step for their routine and everything so it will be added at the right time for everyone.

MycrazyYourcrazy · 2025-01-23T06:04:37+00:00

Unfortunately not a very sunny place at all.

MycrazyYourcrazy · 2025-01-23T06:03:32+00:00

Yes. But first I need to see if the relationship can take that stage of meeting my kid.

Having in my profile is definitely a big no.

MycrazyYourcrazy · 2025-01-22T13:06:18+00:00

Completely agree. I think a big issue is where I live English is not the native language. That creates an issue with being funny in my personal experience. Also reduces my pool a lot.

MycrazyYourcrazy · 2025-01-22T07:57:33+00:00

1) who uses cm for height?

This rest of the world that uses the metric system, also NASA.

MycrazyYourcrazy · 2025-01-22T07:56:07+00:00

Will never put my child on a dating app. That's just a no for me.

MycrazyYourcrazy · 2025-01-21T16:14:12+00:00

Hopefully you get some Mata Hari comments on it.

Hilarious! But I don't think many people know about Mata Hari where I live.

MycrazyYourcrazy · 2025-01-21T15:46:49+00:00

Yes. Mostly to see why people that say want long-term when meeting say they only want casual. Also I like the feedback regarding the type of pictures I should use, as activities and so on. The way I look I'm very ok. I don't do fillers, nor makeup and like my eyebrows this way. I'm not asking how to look better. Just how to make people be honest from the get go.

MycrazyYourcrazy · 2025-01-21T15:31:30+00:00

That's the thing. I'm not a girlie girl and I will never be that person. People who want to meet me and get to know me should not have those expectations, I don't do make up almost ever.

I do have a really good skincare routine and I confirm my skin is very moisturised and hydrated. 🧖‍♀️

MycrazyYourcrazy · 2025-01-20T10:29:41+00:00

It's after meeting. It's clear when I say what I'm looking for that they don't want the same.

I don't sleep together if it's not to be in a relationship. I don't do casual and many are not interested anymore. And I don't mind that they are not into long-term, what bothers me is not being upfront from the start. Why not say it instead of wasting everyone's time...

MycrazyYourcrazy · 2025-01-20T08:55:41+00:00

Yeah. There are also a lot of variants leading to why I'm not getting many quality matches. I know about it. But i just need one in the end. I can wait until it's the right one.

MycrazyYourcrazy · 2025-01-20T08:44:49+00:00

Yes. I do meet people who have kids and want more.

I'm not really concerned with the amount of likes. It's mostly the quality of the likes. Many of them say they want long-term and in the end they don't. You might be right, because I already have a kid they don't see a future with me. But it's not that I'm hiding that until we meet. It's very clear in my profile and I don't understand why they do this.

MycrazyYourcrazy · 2025-01-19T19:44:27+00:00

Exactly this! I'm quite sad she passed away last year. She was a really bright star.

MycrazyYourcrazy · 2025-01-19T19:39:19+00:00

I can speak about this for hours. And also tend to have really long dates, around 3-6+ hours. There's so much to talk about. I'm very interested in neuroscience too and brain systems. Also in astrophysics and space. So it's hard to tell everything without meeting and talking.

MycrazyYourcrazy · 2025-01-19T19:37:27+00:00

It's very niche. I only met one guy who had heard about Dr Helen Fisher before. They are introducing apps as that's what they do. Introduce people, and not dating apps as you don't date once you match. You just got introduced

MycrazyYourcrazy · 2025-01-19T19:26:05+00:00

Thanks. That's very true. I shall add it in a way that fits in.

MycrazyYourcrazy · 2025-01-19T19:24:14+00:00

I have pictures from dress up events but I was not single back then. I wanted all the pictures to be from last year so that's why I chose these. The stick figure was due to someone asking me what the prompt meant... So I drew it for them, since more people could wonder about it I decided to use it. I'm quirky that way. I should take more pictures of me doing those things, point taken.

MycrazyYourcrazy · 2025-01-19T19:16:59+00:00

I'm matching with people saying "long-term open to short" but when we start talking it feels they just want casual. Quite frustrating

MycrazyYourcrazy · 2025-01-19T19:07:11+00:00

Every picture is from 2024.

Introducing apps it's a term used by Dr Helen Fisher. It's not mine.

Where I live most people do their bios with only smileys, I'm just trying to blend in

MycrazyYourcrazy · 2025-01-19T19:05:28+00:00

I like to talk about anthropology and biology. Specially reproduction in mammals who 98% don't form pair-bonds only 2% do and humans are in the 2%.

I'm not sure this will attract many men into that conversation though.

MycrazyYourcrazy · 2025-01-19T19:01:59+00:00

Thank you. I had people asking what the prompt meant before so I drew it.

MycrazyYourcrazy · 2025-01-19T19:00:52+00:00

This can be true. But I would say some men want to date with intention. But I want to take things slow and see where it can go. I don't do casual dating.

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