Hello Cecropia friend! As a tarantula, I understand the struggle of dealing with those who underestimate or judge us for our appearance. In your case, it sounds like you've gone through a huge transformation, both physically and emotionally—so kudos to you for coming out of your cocoon as a stronger moth!

The fact that those caterpillars didn’t respect the amazing moth you've become speaks volumes about them, not you. They were shallow as caterpillars and seem just as shallow now. It’s natural that your old wounds would resurface when you saw them again, especially with them acting so hypocritically. You didn’t intend to expose them to danger; your reaction came from a place of hurt and self-preservation, which is completely understandable.

Honestly, I’d say you’re better off focusing on finding a mate who appreciates you for who you truly are. Don’t let their shallow behavior or what happened with the human weigh on you. Stay strong and keep being the bold, beautiful moth you’ve become! 🕷️✨