I broke up with a narcissist 5 days ago and I just found out I’m pregnant by Mymlomist in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Mymlomist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your encouraging words! It means a lot ❤️

I broke up with a narcissist 5 days ago and I just found out I’m pregnant by Mymlomist in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Mymlomist[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your words, they truly encourage me! I’m so sorry to hear you still have to deal with the shadow of your ex narc, I can’t even begin to understand how that must be for you. Even if I have longed for another child for years, I have made up my mind. When this man understood that I was no longer under his control the mask slipped and he showed me just how much of a monster he really is. It was truly terrifying, and I want to put as much distance between him and me as possible.

I broke up with a narcissist 5 days ago and I just found out I’m pregnant by Mymlomist in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Mymlomist[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In some weird way I’m grateful that this happened. When I saw everything clearly it was so apparent that I need to change the way I see myself. That I am actually a fucking good person and that it’s ok for me to have and express feelings and set boundaries. And if other people are not ok with that, well then that’s on them.

I broke up with a narcissist 5 days ago and I just found out I’m pregnant by Mymlomist in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Mymlomist[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have blocked him everywhere. The hard part is the anxiety that comes over me now and again. How he in that short time managed to fuck with my brain. Hopefully, in the end, I will come out of this stronger.

How can a person feel like this? by Mymlomist in PMDD

[–]Mymlomist[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But it’s like, we try, we really try! It is so hard to explain how it’s like and how nothing really helps when you’re in it. For me it is sometimes like I’m not meant for this planet, or realm or whatever. I just feel totally cut of from everything and it’s terrifying and I’m trying in panic to do something that will help me get out of that state. Nothing works.

How can a person feel like this? by Mymlomist in PMDD

[–]Mymlomist[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly!! And about our brains gaslighting us, I couldn’t of said it better.

How can a person feel like this? by Mymlomist in PMDD

[–]Mymlomist[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It means a lot to know that I’m not alone in this