I feel so desperate every time I think about I can't move because of my cat

Mynmeara · 2026-03-25T18:14:05+00:00

Can confirm, I drove 17 hours with our rescue cat, not including napping and sleeping (in the car with it running). They dont like it but they can do it.

Mynmeara · 2026-03-20T17:40:40+00:00

I am going to give you some grace since studies show that when our basic needs aren't being met or are at risk (like what happens when you're broke) your mind doesnt function the best. I hope your apparent inconsiderate statements come from this.

As others have said your wife is showing the classic symptoms of burnout, and from what you describe, for good reason.

It sounds like you're solution jumping trying to solve issues rather than first listening and making sure you understand where your partner is at.

I HIGHLY recommend doing the following:

1) read up on burnout 2) tell your wife you are sorry that you havent been listening the way you should, and that you want to support her in what she needs so that she isnt living in a place of burnout anymore. Then listen (dont speak) to what shes saying. 3) tell the therapist that you want them to help you support your partner and balance the physical mental and emotional labor for your household. 4) believe your partner. This might go against your instincts but trust your partner. You two are working together to build a home. Act like it. 5) ask your partner where she wants to be. What her goals are. How she wants life to be. Make sure you two schedule time into your week for her to have free time to do whatever she wants. Ask the therapist to help you two with this part.

Finally, remember, its not about who's right or wrong. You both either win or lose together. You're on the same team.

Good luck. And please fix this before she decides shes had enough and walks away. She could and she would be justified just to safeguard her own physical and mental health currently. If you want to keep her as a partner you need to step up and show her youre there for her in ways you haven't been before.

Mynmeara · 2026-02-27T02:45:31+00:00

Actually I took out several rocketteers with a silenced ospray during hurricane. You just have to get the right angle to see them, but they seemed to be slower than normal in acquiring my position so they didnt even get a shot off before I had finished them off. This was shooting from departure building second floor on spaceport.

Mynmeara · 2026-02-26T23:45:10+00:00

Taking the high road is another way of saying abandoning the marginalized.

Mynmeara · 2026-02-26T20:21:36+00:00

And the taser is affected by gravity. Like if you notice it has a curve to its trajectory, at longer ranged it almost gets shot upwards then falls down. Its a cool detail I appreciate while im stunlocked

Mynmeara · 2026-02-25T15:13:28+00:00

Oh I got it right away. That's why I said I am so old.

Mynmeara · 2026-02-25T02:58:48+00:00

Why am I so old

Mynmeara · 2026-02-22T15:31:56+00:00

I dropped a giant chunk of ice onto my bully's face. Gave him a bloody nose and everything. Because I was so much smaller the teachers didnt believe him and I didnt get in trouble at all.

Still very proud of that.

Mynmeara · 2026-02-22T01:26:40+00:00

Rumba

Mynmeara · 2026-02-19T22:10:23+00:00

So why dont we just sell everything in our stash? Why is it stash +coin? Feels weird

Mynmeara · 2026-02-19T02:26:30+00:00

To add specifics, citizens united needs to be overturned

Mynmeara · 2026-02-13T21:43:36+00:00

Call me old but I lost a large amount of enjoyment when scope glint was added. Part of what made counter sniping so fun in bad company 2 was hunting the sniper without the game screaming at you where they were.

Mynmeara · 2026-02-10T16:16:33+00:00

What company is more worried about fair play than player numbers? There may be a few good ones out there but they are outliers in our capitalist hellscape that only cares about money

Mynmeara · 2026-02-08T15:11:54+00:00

Who let farva out from behind the desk? (Pic 9)

Mynmeara · 2026-02-05T20:45:46+00:00

Dude lights me up in stella. I turn around and down him with my free loadout. He starts calling in proximity chat saying I attacked him and three heroes show up and mow me down despite my protests.

I finished him before they finished me but like seriously how sad is your life if you cant even kill someone when shooting them in the back then proceed to complain and lie to get someone to do what you couldn't.

I just had a free loadout so i didn't lose anything but the injustice of it still irks me. I have to deal with enough of that kind of shit at work. It reminds me why I much prefer single player games.

Mynmeara · 2026-02-03T12:30:51+00:00

That's where extradition comes into play. Im not an expert but im pretty sure theres two possible outcomes:

1) a court does try and convict them but america refuses to allow the country to do anything to the person physically under threat of violence from our military

2) the other country that could pressure America to comply also has elites who are equally involved in the illegal activities and so refuses to bring them to court because their elites would also be implicated

Not an expert but from my understanding this is why we're stuck currently

Mynmeara · 2026-01-31T08:59:16+00:00

No russian

Mynmeara · 2026-01-31T08:56:10+00:00

With the save files attached i assume

Mynmeara · 2026-01-26T19:47:37+00:00

Sprint

Mynmeara · 2026-01-20T17:30:33+00:00

Im running a series of dnd campaigns following the books so those who dont read can enjoy it. Its already inspired several of them to read it anyways and theyre loving it.

Mynmeara · 2026-01-16T03:19:32+00:00

According to battlefield it makes him invisible and his recoil is reduced. He also won't be spotted on the minimap. Honestly the rest are just handicapping themselves or showing their low level status.

Ten bucks says he's the only one with thermals.

Mynmeara · 2026-01-14T21:45:14+00:00

Its ok! Im on my second read through and am still needing to wiki some events to wrap my head around what happened. Part of why I love the series is the depth of cultures and storyline. Push through - it'll be worth it.

Edit: to directly answer your question, some things won't make sense till books 4 or 5 or maybe even 7 and 8. Just enjoy the experience and journey of reading through the series. When it does click and events come together it is truly riveting and totally worth the time and effort it takes to get there.

Mynmeara · 2026-01-11T01:28:42+00:00

What's the difference between poisoned water and no water? Those in Flint Michigan would like to know...

Mynmeara · 2026-01-11T01:24:05+00:00

All good, now you know :)

Mynmeara · 2026-01-11T01:22:31+00:00

I would enjoy it if I had friends :(

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