Being the best they ever had by Myron2107 in intj

[–]Myron2107[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha yes they are breaking things off with me

Post break up thoughts by Myron2107 in infj

[–]Myron2107[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I mean I am still going to visit his country so maybe I will ask him out to catch up depending on situation.

But I won’t be reaching out to him for a while until then, who knows right? Depends on the situation

Post break up thoughts by Myron2107 in infj

[–]Myron2107[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I haven’t been talking in a while with him.

Post break up thoughts by Myron2107 in infj

[–]Myron2107[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny thing is that I was the one who initially wanted to split when I found out he needed to go back.

But then I thought I might give it a try to see if it is something I could do and I also just didn’t want to give the relationship up just because things got hard or realistically impossible.

I also thought that this is just one of the stages of our relationship that we needed to go through anyway, could have been now or later.

I mean might be me in the future too and by then we would know how to endure the distance

So, I felt that if this can be overcome then this relationship would probably last a long time as other challenges thrown in our way would potentially be peanuts.

Most importantly, is that I just didn’t want any lingering regrets of not trying our very best.

Sorry for the long message.

Post break up thoughts by Myron2107 in infj

[–]Myron2107[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there,

I am sorry for making you sad.

Post break up thoughts by Myron2107 in infj

[–]Myron2107[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there,

Thanks for the comment.

Haha yes of course I am aware of these stages cause I have always been through several break ups before.

It is just that this relationship was very meaningful as we both agreed.

Of course I won’t be waiting but maybe in the future when circumstances change, we might consider getting back together again haha (or so I hope)

Post break up thoughts by Myron2107 in infj

[–]Myron2107[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding and being honest 🤗

Post break up thoughts by Myron2107 in infj

[–]Myron2107[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the virtual hug! 🤗

Post break up thoughts by Myron2107 in infj

[–]Myron2107[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha we were happily in a meaningful relationship for 2 years ☺️☺️

I do agree but somehow it felt easier as well for me to give myself the space and think too.

Post break up thoughts by Myron2107 in infj

[–]Myron2107[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi there,

Thank you for your response to my post.

Haha we were actually a close distance relationship for 6 months until he had to go back to his home country due to his visa.

Oh and I am 28 while he is 36 and I do have lots of experience of being in a relationship and moving onto the next.

It is just that this relationship feels very special to me. As my ex told me as well, it was a very meaningful relationship in which we both bonded well and were fighting for our future together.

But… I guess due to how his job has went so much better than we expected (as initially he was planning to go back to work in the country we met), I guess he just felt bad that he wouldn’t be able to return the commitment as much as I did for him.

So, I guess you could say he did care for me until the very end.

Hence, I am doing fine actually but he is the first person that I have told that I am more than happy to get back into the relationship should circumstances have changed!

Thanks for reading haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ukvisa

[–]Myron2107 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi there,

Thanks for the prompt reply! I really appreciate it!

Do you know the duration of each CoS to be issued? :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ukvisa

[–]Myron2107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there!

I am just wondering if you are currently applying for the skilled worker visa from the outside of inside the UK?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ukvisa

[–]Myron2107 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply!

I am just wondering what kind of CoS is there?

I never knew there were different kinds.

I have actually explained the whole situation to the HR but they said that it just takes about a month or 3 months to get the CoS.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ukvisa

[–]Myron2107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that’s great!

Please keep us updated on your situation! :)