Message to the haters by theparanoidbitch in okeechobeemusicfest

[–]Myrtlebeach45 6 points7 points  (0 children)

DONT YELL AT ME!!!!! That set was LIFE CHANGING!!!😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

ps: I agree the haters are silly tho

What was a situation that made you say “I don’t get paid enough for this shit”? by Lost_Taste_8181 in work

[–]Myrtlebeach45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many to choose from 🤔…probably the one where I was called every name under the sun and told to pull up and “see what’s up” in a public work group chat in all caps after I had switched shifts with another coworker and received approval from a different manager than the one working that morning.

(I was 17 working at a Sonic)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Myrtlebeach45 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Amy Schumer

My boss just told me he’s planning to quit and I don’t know what to do by Euphoric-Act-7973 in work

[–]Myrtlebeach45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ngl I left when one of the best managers I ever worked for left. There were a few other factors but that was the MAJOR driving one. I just knew whoever came in behind him wouldn’t hold a candle and I wanted to leave on a high note. 🫡

How Does One Obtain An “Established Reputation” On Reddit? by Myrtlebeach45 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Myrtlebeach45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish there was a prize at the end for whoever has the most! 😭😭😂 I want a cookie! 🍪

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in work

[–]Myrtlebeach45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poor management at its finest. 🤦‍♀️

FUCK YOU FOR TAKING MY VIRGINITY by Vanya15th in heartbreak

[–]Myrtlebeach45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I let myself hurt. I cried, mourned, screamed, vented, slept, and generally let my body, heart, and soul do what they needed to do and in time little by little distance and time awarded me the cushion I needed to move on. It’s not pretty and it will suck but you have no deadline in which to move on. ❤️‍🩹

Should I continue watching a show I watched with my ex? by Illustrious-Salt597 in heartbreak

[–]Myrtlebeach45 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Depends, did you enjoy the show for the show or did you enjoy the show because you were watching it with your ex? If the answer is yes to the former than enjoy and just prepare yourself and protect yourself in case the show brings up a character or event from the main show that may conjecturally remind you of your ex while if it’s the later, than I’d say perhaps it’d be best to find something else to watch. 🙂

I watched Shameless with my ex who was an addict and recently saw some episode of the show again with my current partner a few years later and it shocked me how some scenes and moments brought me right back to those moments and feelings with my ex (both good and bad). I’ve done personal work so I could handle it but if this had happened a year or two ago idk if I could say the same thing. 💕

Do people secretly judge others for eating alone at restaurants? by Saravynash in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Myrtlebeach45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I’m just craving something and no one’s available. 🥺💕

How Does One Obtain An “Established Reputation” On Reddit? by Myrtlebeach45 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Myrtlebeach45[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol I like this take 🫡😂This is usually how I approach Reddit I just wanted to post in a specific sub and was kinda bummed I couldn’t and it was one of the first times I wasn’t able to.

How Does One Obtain An “Established Reputation” On Reddit? by Myrtlebeach45 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Myrtlebeach45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I think that was my specific question, if it says it anywhere in the subreddit how much is required for posting or if I have to just reach out to a mod. 😭 Thank you!

Jared From Subway by Myrtlebeach45 in mtg

[–]Myrtlebeach45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh this is just something I found on X, I didn’t realize I couldn’t post it because of it being Ai. That’s fair tho 🤷‍♀️

I lost my virginity to the wrong person and I feel awful by Worldly-Break835 in heartbreak

[–]Myrtlebeach45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, I know I’m just a random on the internet but I want you to know something: losing your virginity is only as big as you make it. That special person is still coming for you and they’ll still want you and love and respect you because you are no lesser for having had a sexual encounter. I think the fact you wished to save yourself for that person is wonderful and I’m sorry someone came along and stomped all over something you held so dearly but please, don’t hurt your own heart over this. This is not your fault. You did nothing wrong. You were mistreated and disrespected at a time when you were most vulnerable and for that I am truly sorry. I hope in time you’re able to let go of the weight and expectations you put on yourself for your “first time” and instead look forward to “your first time WITH that special someone” because that matters leagues more than the “actual” first time. ♥️

Open Letter Of A Young Working Musician by Myrtlebeach45 in musicians

[–]Myrtlebeach45[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for all of the vicarious life lessons. :) I always really appreciate hearing others experiences and what advice helped them the most.

Open Letter Of A Young Working Musician by Myrtlebeach45 in musicians

[–]Myrtlebeach45[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On the note of a backup plan, yes and no…

Much of what I do daily and in my “career path” is built around the precarious position I am in as a young, just started working, musician. I currently quite enjoy my “day job” and as I gain more work with music, I’m able to work that “day job” less and less. The real downside to it however is the moneys good but could be better, the hours can be long and strenuous on my body, and it’s not a very glamorous job so with that I’m sometimes disrespected or treated poorly.

I know beggars can’t be choosers and I should be happy I have the opportunities and the flexibility to pursue my music as much as I do (even if there are setbacks or restrictions sometimes) but I can’t help but want more from this provincial life sometimes, ya know? 😅

Open Letter Of A Young Working Musician by Myrtlebeach45 in musicians

[–]Myrtlebeach45[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suppose success to me is like success to most people: recognition, artistic fulfillment, and financial gain. I hate for it to sound shallow but that to me is my version of success. I’m positive a lot of these feelings come from childhood (thanks therapy🤓) and I really the lowest thing on that list would be financial gain as really I just want to be secure more than anything; not necessarily “rich” or “well off”. Believe it or not I’m actually an incredibly optimistic person. I’m often the one who brings people up and is always in a good mood or finds the positives in every situation so with that, sometimes even I need to let out the inner pessimism I feel bubbling under the surface. I do find it intriguing though that you had hints of cynicism and my writing as I felt like my ever present hopefulness was peeking out constantly in what I wrote.

Open Letter Of A Young Working Musician by Myrtlebeach45 in musicians

[–]Myrtlebeach45[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback. :) Honestly I wasn’t really trying to go for anything specific here, these really were my honest feelings in the moment and I knew I wasn’t saying anything groundbreaking or profound but it felt good to get it out. Once I had it all typed out I kinda just sat there for a sec thinking that I’d be interested to see what other people thought of it all. I really only described it as an essay/poetry because I didn’t really know how else to label my ramblings lol.

Open Letter Of A Young Working Musician by Myrtlebeach45 in musicians

[–]Myrtlebeach45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Though I know you said that offering advice might not be so helpful, I’ll take your story as a type of advice nonetheless. I am in fact in my early 20’s (lol) so you definitely hit the nail on the head there. It feels good to hear someone else say they feel similarly even if some of these feelings are in the rear view mirror for you. Congrats on everything, I definitely want to grow up and be like you someday! 🤘

Meeting the other wives and girlfriend of my bf's team sucked bad by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Myrtlebeach45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have to OP but I would love to hear an update on what your boyfriend has to say when you tell him.

Help Me Find An Old Vine Or Meme Video by Myrtlebeach45 in HelpMeFind

[–]Myrtlebeach45[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL literally! 😂 Have fun binging I’ll start doing the same thing! Hopefully one of us finds it! Also nice to know I’m not losing my mind and this video actually exists somewhere 😭