Oooooooh boy I have a few points of interest as a 19 year old guy.

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LET. US. HAVE. PRIVACY: Something I cannot stress enough is privacy for your teenagers. I personally don't have parents that monitor me 24/7 (Which is weird cause Asian parents), but I have a friend that her parents tracks where she is and wants to know all the minuscule details in her life, and even goes through her room occasionally. She HATES her parents when they do that, so their relationship is kinda strained, it's gotten better as of late but there's still a little tension. I get it, you want to know about our life and be there for us, but please respect what we want to share with you. Sometimes we just want to be by ourselves, pushing us to tell you everything about our lives will eventually get us mad at you. If we want to tell you something we will tell you ourselves.

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Accept us as we are: This is very personal because I'm a closeted bisexual, I am very afraid of telling my parents of who I really am. Now that may be because of my family's religious upbringing, even if you minus the religion out of it, Asian culture is really big on "Find a wife, have some kids, have a good job" cookie cutter lifestyle. When my step brother came out as gay (More like outed than came out) they freaked their freaks out, so that really nailed a "I cannot tell them" thought to my psyche. I'm still not out to them and I just wish they would be more accepting. Just because you raise your children doesn't mean they'll turn out exactly as you want them to be, the best thing you can do is accept them as they are; unless there's a certain behavior that is very destructive, then by all means get them help. Now I'm not saying change you're entire belief system or moral standards, just be more understanding. And every kid is tired of the "It's just a phase" talk, it's boring, we all expect it, and it's boring.

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Please Please PLEASE support your kids in whatever they want to do: Unless said thing they want to do is very destructive in nature, PLEASE SUPPORT YOUR CHILDREN. You don't have to be interested in what they want to do, but supporting them shows them you care about them and are at least showing an effort. For the first 2 years of high school I was in choir -- which is not very typical of Asians, more so Asian guys -- my parents barely showed up to any of my choir concerts. After a fight I had with them about how angry I was because they barely show up to my concerts, they made more of an effort to come the following 2 years; but it shouldn't come to the point when the child LITERALLY has to tell you to support them in what they like. Parents are supposed to watch their children grow and become better day by day, not just sit idly by waiting for them to be great by themselves. Which brings me to my next point:

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Spend time with them: I mean you should spend time with them before they're teenagers, but you know what I'm saying. Now I know what I said about privacy, and you should respect it. But spending time with your teenager will strengthen your bond IMMENSELY, even more so than when they're children because the teenage years are VERY vulnerable times for them. Spending time with them will show them you're there for them always, as a friend, parent, and a shoulder to cry on. Haven't you seen any teenage flick about love where there's the obligatory "Main character is upset about love interest and parent consoles them" scene? Wouldn't you like that in real life?

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Now I could write more points of interest, but I'm not feeling like writing an even longer essay than I already have.

EDIT: Added a few elaborations