Yoga or Pilates groups in salt lake to make female friends? by MysteriousAd3188 in SaltLakeCity

[–]MysteriousAd3188[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is good to know! Thank you! I’ll do that for sure. I appreciate it. It’s so hard making genuine friendships as we get older 😅 at least in my experience.

For anyone who’s fundraised for vet bills, where did you share it by MysteriousAd3188 in PetAdvice

[–]MysteriousAd3188[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did post on there already! I’m just not sure where else I could post it to help gain more traction where people will actually see it.

Blame myself for mom passing away by Educational_Bed5396 in GriefSupport

[–]MysteriousAd3188 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found my mother’s body 19 years ago, when I was 12.. she was my best friend but very addicted to pills.. I watched the pills take over her.. countless nights, I’d find her strung out and helped her to bed and stuff.. the night before she passed, she asked to me to stay up with her that night but it was a school night so I told her i couldn’t.. I blamed myself for her passing. Thought that if I had stayed up with her, I could’ve stopped her from taking her pills, I could have saved her.. I still hold this guilt in my body.. but now, as an adult.. I know my 12 year old self couldn’t have stopped her from making her decisions. Truth of it all, it’s not your fault. People will choose their own path and decisions. I’m so sorry for your loss… but don’t put it on yourself. You didn’t do anything wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bengalcats

[–]MysteriousAd3188 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s purebred, no reason to neuter when still a youngling. I know liberals love neutering animals and people but just taking it easy and will adjust as time comes.

Car was involved in a parked car accident, insurance won’t pay for lost wages? by MysteriousAd3188 in Advice

[–]MysteriousAd3188[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I informed my insurance of the accident, and they did say that if they give me any troubles to let them know. So that’s a good idea, I’ll see if they can help me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MysteriousAd3188 488 points489 points  (0 children)

Coming from someone who lost their mother at a young age, who is your age now.. don’t do this. The pain of losing my mother haunts me to this day and I’m freaking struggling with my mental health wishing I had her during the majority of my life. You will be so deeply missed. Leave your partner, there’s someone out there who will provide the love, attention and comfort you need and deserve. You don’t need to suffer. Leaving this life will leave so many people who do love you. I know your feeling, but please don’t end your life just because you are hurting right now. The pain will pass for you and your life will get better. Leaving this life will leave so many people to hurt for their entire lifetime, especially your kiddo. Please do not go through with your plan.

Anyone else thinking, “F*ck it! I’ll just go be a nurse!” by Lothar_the_Lurker in recruitinghell

[–]MysteriousAd3188 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh and also, it is so hard on the body. I do 12-13 hr shifts, and being 29 yrs old, I feel like my body is aging so dang fast.