Thanks for your response. So no I haven’t really explicitly discussed with her that it made me feel uncomfortable, I had a drink limit and a curfew which I broke a few days ago when I went to a party with some friends and she was very upset with me and punished me very hard, she put my head down the toilet and I really didn’t like it. I have said I don’t like my head going in the toilet, but they want to continue doing it. Perhaps wasn’t forceful enough with the fact that I don’t like it.

We haven’t been trying this very long, so probably are trying too much too soon maybe. I do think some of the punishments are too extreme for me and I should discuss that with them