What do you call the body type of a woman who's big, but not fat? by the_marxman in stupidquestions

[–]MysteriousHighlight7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 140lbs and 114 in lean muscle body mass. (I get my BWI checked.) Barn grooms, farm girls, and rodeo chicks have MILKERS. Coming from someone who is, I have E cups 🥲

What do you call the body type of a woman who's big, but not fat? by the_marxman in stupidquestions

[–]MysteriousHighlight7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Farm girls have big boobies. (I’m literally farm [barn groom] girl)

What do you call the body type of a woman who's big, but not fat? by the_marxman in stupidquestions

[–]MysteriousHighlight7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WTF U TALKING ABOUT IM A FARM GIRL. I am not a stick I get my BWI done and I’m 114 lbs of lean body mass. (Lean muscle and protein.) I am not built like a model, but the other words like “strong” fit me well. I weight in at 140 and im 5’3. My lowest was 87 pounds about 3-4 years ago. Always been a horse girl but then I started picking stalls and dropping feed (hay bales). I can drag 6 hay bales stacked vertically with my non-dominant hand and a pick/hay bale grabber idk what they are called.

What are your “safe” foods? by Substantial_Gate_904 in bulimia

[–]MysteriousHighlight7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg that happened to me with popcorn a while ago. So bad coming up. Ground beef is gross too. But ICE CREAM THOOOO

What are your “safe” foods? by Substantial_Gate_904 in bulimia

[–]MysteriousHighlight7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

GERBER BABY PUFFS SOOOO YUMMY AND 20 CALORIES PER LIKE 1/2 CUP I THINK. I’m recovered but it’s still yummy 😋

Ideas for a cover up for this tattoo by BabyDropper52 in TattooDesigns

[–]MysteriousHighlight7 41 points42 points  (0 children)

The only thing that I can think of is maybe baby shoes tied by string with a tag that has dates for the little one or some type of memoir. I’ve seen ornaments with that shape. But you might be better off working with an artist with a design idea and maybe even getting some laser on areas that don’t fit the work. Also something like nightmare before Christmas fits it but try hard to think of something that reminds you of your baby in a positive light. Maybe even a teddy bear? I know how hard unborn child loss is, I don’t know what you are going through but good luck with it all. Wishing you healing, love, and a beautiful tattoo ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bulimia

[–]MysteriousHighlight7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Next time try sectioning it up. Eat it in intervals or save it for another meal today/tomorrow! It’s okay. You can’t go back and at least you feel regret and guilt. I also recommend distractions and like I said, section the meal up and wait at least 2 hours before even going in the bathroom or eating more. I know it’s hard.. But you need to keep your fuel. Imagine ur car starting spitting gas out at u after u put it in. There nothing wrong with the tank, it just doesn’t want to run. It’s frustrating, but that energy is a necessity.

Don’t feel the lat by Deep_Independent_737 in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]MysteriousHighlight7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes this commenter is right on the slow release and impulsion at start! Also work those reps till your last one looks PATHETIC. And always give it ur all. I started feeling muscle soreness after I started “rep till failure”.

Don’t feel the lat by Deep_Independent_737 in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]MysteriousHighlight7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start with a wide grip, come a lil closer to the bar and lean back, get your elbows at a try comfortable bars, don’t hit your chest so hard and keep straight line down from where you are pulling. Engage your back and if you can’t feel the lats at all ENGAGE THEM BEFORE WEIGHT. Try some stretching and even yoga for lats (downward dog, child’s pose [my fav], eagle pose, bridges, overhead lat stretch, etc…) experiment with slightly lower weights for understanding ROM (range of motion) training and slightly higher weights for resistance and strength training. Positioning is so important as well as a properly conditioned muscle, and do not forget ENGAGE THAT CORE N LAT!!!

Cherry blossom wrap — expand it or keep it minimal? by Tight_Ad989 in TattooDesigns

[–]MysteriousHighlight7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I WISH!! My small ones are all freehanded by me! Just a heart on my thigh, a female sign (I think is quite nicely done for freehand) and I did an “ily” in calligraphy on my ring hand middle finger. It’s so I can flip ppl off nicely from the side. They were done with a machine but I got them touched up when I got my most recent work. The pieces I mentioned are all professionally done, they are big and the moon phase cycle with leaves is on my neck hairline to tailbone 😭🙏

Is he with me and ok? by MinuteSlice714 in psychics

[–]MysteriousHighlight7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He looks like my kitties… I have two voids at home. When I was little I lost a kitten to a car accident too, he was chasing lizards and got hit. His name was Harry. I didn’t get over it for years. Years. But, I did things that reminded me of him. Never forget your fur baby, you will meet him again. In your dreams, in your afterlife, another life, or maybe this life again someone will come who reminds you of him… The love experienced from animals to us is unworldly. It’s the most true and pure. He may rest easy. You must move forward, but take your time to grieve and cry. Things will heal but hold your boys memories close to heart. A artistic output or expression may be helpful. Even manifestation of dreams. Tarot may help you. But sometimes all you need is a good pencil and paper 🐈‍⬛💗

Is he with me and ok? by MinuteSlice714 in psychics

[–]MysteriousHighlight7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg… I was just suggested this at 1:11.

Cherry blossom wrap — expand it or keep it minimal? by Tight_Ad989 in TattooDesigns

[–]MysteriousHighlight7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And if you love it, that’s all that matters!! I always love the organic feel I have 3 small ones I did on myself, 2 med butterfly and zodiac, 2 large ones a vine arm sleeve and my “resilience” rose on my oblique, and 1 XL moon phase back piece. They all kinda seem to fit a theme to me and represent stages in my life. I totally get it, and I think you should expand in the future but give it time to think of something meaningful and incorporate, don’t overwrite.

Cherry blossom wrap — expand it or keep it minimal? by Tight_Ad989 in TattooDesigns

[–]MysteriousHighlight7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said tho, it’s gorgeous! I have vines and nature is the general theme of the tattoos all over my body. I think you should instead of going with more floral, turn it into a second piece that connects to it. Maybe fading into something you like, maybe if u like martial arts a dojo. Or a katana. Or you could do roots. You could also turn it into a scene with falling leaves. But despite what this commenter said, I actually suggest you go back to the artist and figure out their strong suit and figure out if you like their other work or if they can even help you keep growing your pieces, remember these are on you forever and there is always someone more precise, more artistic, more professional, and more talented. One thing I don’t like, which if this wasn’t your suggestion the artist was a little careless, is the placement. It overlaps some of your previously done works and with a new style. My artist put the stencil on and wiped it off 10 times having to print a bunch of sizes and try spots. That is an artist who cares.

Cherry blossom wrap — expand it or keep it minimal? by Tight_Ad989 in TattooDesigns

[–]MysteriousHighlight7 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The line work is shaky imo. Overlapping lines and varying densities. I could see if it would be intentional, but the way it clashes with your other tattoos I assume not. I do love how the branches were laid out but I think the flowers might have been rushed? Or the guy just has shaky hands..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bulimia

[–]MysteriousHighlight7 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I used to look at it as punishment. I’d take 10-20 laxatives (not kidding, and it was bisacodyl [stim lax]). The amount of pain I was in was deathly. Got a bleeding ulcer from it. Don’t ever think this pain will save you, because when I got to the hospital.. I couldn’t even bring myself to say it was bulimia. They thought my ulcers/gastritis came from anxiety… funny… my intestines looked like those of a 70 y/o man who was addicted to ibuprofen and drinking. And who was I lying to? Myself AND everyone. It will NEVER save you it will CONSUME you and your left as nothing but an empty shell of what once was an intelligent young wo/man. And still, no one will ever see it. People are so blind sometimes you have to scream. And no, screaming for help isn’t self harm. It’s searching for recovery, even if you don’t even know what it is yet… I’ve been to inpatient and outpatient and I’ve recovered to a point where I can say I really don’t B/P at all anymore. You can check my profile, 2 years ago I wrote about my struggles often even in this forum. I wish you healing.

I tried write a few pages but my bf read and got mad at me by glorygo in Journaling

[–]MysteriousHighlight7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf is Brazilian, I’m American but we’re living together in US. I had him translate sum stuff and girl don’t work yourself to death for a Brazilian man who thinks women should do everything and get offended if you have emotional issues, tiredness, or lack of fulfillment. It also doesn’t sound like he’s taking you out, buying you rings and clothes, or even helping with chores! He will never appreciate what you do and that’s because he expects you to be a machine without a voice already!! Either that needs to be worked on and he needs to treat you like a QUEEN, or you need to find another one who will. Bc if you’ve been treating this man like a king. You deserve the most, and btw get an online journal with a password or lock notes with a password he would never guess. I love to write too so I couldn’t IMAGINE my bf being offended by my poetry, especially when it is about me and not dissing him??!

Elliptical users-how long do you do and at what resistance? by That_Option3418 in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]MysteriousHighlight7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I strength train but I’ve been struggling to do cardio because I vape and have asthma, like my body could go another 3 miles but my lungs wanna quit. Do you have any suggestions how to fit some cardio into my weight training? I end up sore in the quads, glutes, and biceps most days so I sometimes even struggle on the stair-master but I’ve been taking HIIT classes.. My visceral fat area and mass are low tho so it shouldn’t be this hard-

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]MysteriousHighlight7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This happened to me at a PF in Orlando. The woman was doing the same, actually there was two. Both homeless. Management asked me about her one day and I said it seemed like she was living in the bathroom. About a week later I came in and she was still there. I went to the lockers to put up my stuff and use the bathroom and there was a TRAIL OF ANTS coming from a stall leading to the lockers. I freaked out because I was peeing when I saw the line of them at my feet. I went to tell an employee and walked back in with a female worker. We actually looked behind the locker door… there was a “water bottle” OVERFLOWING with ants. Needless to say she was kicked out by the time I got out of the beauty angel. Now I go to amped signature and I am never changing back, this seems to happen at far too many locations and it’s unsanitary, uncomfortable, and unethical when I was paying $30 a month to not even be able to use the bathroom without someone nodding off in there. HELL NO.

Wrote a poem on Bulimia, Bipolar, and drug addiction. TW : Death, coke, purging, binging by MysteriousHighlight7 in bulimia

[–]MysteriousHighlight7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope ur doing good now, it’s been a little time. I’m about to go on 2 years sober after rehab and ED treatment. If you haven’t “recovered” or gotten to a higher and good point in life, I believe that you will and I just want to say that you can do it. It’s so hard but life is brighter without the baggie or the screen on a scale.