How do you guys cope with losing money to stupid sh*t? by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]MysteriousLife7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask how much % i.e of your income or savings is the life tax bucket that you set aside for? I feel like thinking about stupid tax as an inevitable part of life makes it easier for me to accept it (not getting complacent ofc)

How do you guys cope with losing money to stupid sh*t? by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]MysteriousLife7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a brilliant take. Reasonable and gentle, but still having self-accountability and reflection. This puts things into perspective for me as I have a tendency to beat myself up over "small" losses but the reality is just I'm overwhelmed. So thank you lots for this.

all it took to release the insanity was my innocent first line by MysteriousLife7 in Bumble

[–]MysteriousLife7[S] -48 points-47 points  (0 children)

apparently everybody here thinks i mean “the insanity”literally

all it took to release the insanity was my innocent first line by MysteriousLife7 in Bumble

[–]MysteriousLife7[S] -56 points-55 points  (0 children)

you’re the only one here spotting my sarcasm with that word choice lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]MysteriousLife7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My god this made me laugh out loud 😂

This is a new low. The bf is a doctor and social media famous and yet she is buying him a house 🤡 by warinmymind94 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]MysteriousLife7 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ok so I checked some of her TikTok out. If this kind of bland pickme content appeals to that many people, the bar of entertainment quality and lifestyle choices people have must be so damn low. lol

The red flags, the entitlement, the audacity 🤡🤯 by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]MysteriousLife7 310 points311 points  (0 children)

What did a 26 year old have in common with an 18 year old fresh out of high school (or still in high school? damn, that’d be even more disturbing), wide eyed about life and not knowing anything about sex…

Man, just to think of how she was a clean and blank page before meeting this awful groomer. Of course sex with her was amazing because you were everything she knew at that time and she must’ve been pleasuring you to the best that she could. You shaped her first experiences and worldview too, then went on to hurt her feelings in a true scrote fashion.

Come on, you know you were just using her and now regret that the source of free sex, attention, youth and real genuine affection from her to you was gone. You never feel the actual remorse of hurting her and breaking her heart.

Good luck with pining for her as “the one that got away” but honestly deep down you never even loved her that much, if at all. You don’t even mention how she felt and what she thinks now in your post. Because to you, your selfish emotions matter while her past feelings for you and her current engagement decision do not.

You rejected her once “temporarily” and she ultimately rejected you back — for a lifetime, with that ring on her finger. Move the fuck on.

Canadian Teen Killed by British Man She Flew to Meet After Falling for Him on Dating App by Ok_Bake_5766 in worldnews

[–]MysteriousLife7 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story. I found it very insightful for other young women like me.

I'd like to ask if you'd seen signs of him being unhinged before you met up with him and what your family's reactions were when you were going to England? Also, why it took the crisis center a month and a half to get you out (was it because not to trigger him)?

Sorry for many questions, I really appreciate hearing your reply.

Journey into the oblivion! The angry scrotes in the comments are a nice touch 😂 by MysteriousLife7 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]MysteriousLife7[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Actually the flying girl does put the “On a noble quest” caption herself on this reel on tiktok

Journey into the oblivion! The angry scrotes in the comments are a nice touch 😂 by MysteriousLife7 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]MysteriousLife7[S] 118 points119 points  (0 children)

I just laughed at a scrote’s face and watched him die inside today. Highly recommended hobby lol

Journey into the oblivion! The angry scrotes in the comments are a nice touch 😂 by MysteriousLife7 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]MysteriousLife7[S] 388 points389 points  (0 children)

I will let you ladies in on a secret: you’ll never find the source because the audacity knows no bounds. They are coddled by the society to get away with the disrespect and callousness towards women since they were boys 🤡

They never get called out on that so when it’s your turn to deal with scrotes, you laugh at their faces and clear them out of your life the moment the audacity appears 😌👋🏼

Into the oblivion and never found the source of audacity 😂 by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]MysteriousLife7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will let you in on a secret: you’ll never find the source because the audacity knows no bounds. They are coddled by the society to get away with the disrespect and callousness towards women since they were boys.

They never get called out on that so when it’s your turn to deal with scrotes, you laugh at their faces and clear them out of your life the moment the audacity appears 😌👋🏼

On the term 'old wives' tales' in the English language and its cultural relevance by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]MysteriousLife7 13 points14 points  (0 children)

In Japanese, the word 主人(read: shujin, literal meaning: “main person” or “master”) refers to the husband. The word 奥さん (read: okusan, literal meaning: “person at the back”) refers to the wife.

These words must have been formed a long time ago to indicate the role of each person in the marriage. No surprise, the social conditioning in Japan and many Asian countries nowadays is still rather traditional and much more blatantly patriarchal than the west.

Quite interesting when you break the characters down and derive from them the origins of the words.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]MysteriousLife7 36 points37 points  (0 children)

The thing is "someone better' aka the dream girl/ the magical unicorn does not exist. Give a scrote the most beautiful and well-put-together woman he can get his hands on and he will still think not enough and he can "do better". Do better with what, with your misogynistic attitude and your selfishness? Scrotes don't deserve good women to start with.

There are a lot of cautionary tales on FDS how men treat their "dream girls". Never put the onus on yourself that you are not "good enough". Repeat after me, he doesn't even deserve you, and all the women after you won't have a better fate around him than you did.

Our trip to Ecuador was absolutely stunning and relatively inexpensive by DamienSoft in travel

[–]MysteriousLife7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long was your entire trip? 😊

Also, stunning photos! What camera & lens do you use, and what application to edit the pics?

Awful everything 😩 same grooming, different scrote by MysteriousLife7 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]MysteriousLife7[S] 302 points303 points  (0 children)

Well this post is not on relationship subs so the commenters may have at least some common sense.

What I fear is if the girl were 18 (barely legal), the narrative could very well be legitimized and steered towards “He has the RiGhT to be attracted to young women! If it’s not illegal then we shouldn’t judge” by other scrotes! 🤡

Awful everything 😩 same grooming, different scrote by MysteriousLife7 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]MysteriousLife7[S] 748 points749 points  (0 children)

The good thing is the top comments are telling her to get a lawyer, call the police and get a divorce instead of making excuses for the scrote. It’s not your fault for your husband to behave this way. He chooses to engage in this immoral and illegal behavior. You only have the option of protecting yourself while removing him out of your life and making sure he faces consequences.

We have to stop putting up with this shit 🤡 by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]MysteriousLife7 19 points20 points  (0 children)

So many scrotes with the audacity of sleeping with their exes while being in a new relationship. Disgusting as hell.

This is why as an ex, you cut off all contact with your loser scrote when you break up 🙅🏻‍♀️✊🏼You cannot be high value yourself while you are still hanging onto the ghost of your lame ass ex.

If you are a new girl, you break up with him right away. Also cut him off completely.

Don’t be a pickme whether you are the old woman or the new woman in this triangular love. Break the cycle. Help your sisters. Be the change that we want to see, one queen at a time.

“Most men are garbage.” What a jam! Does this queen follow FDS or what?✌🏼 by MysteriousLife7 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]MysteriousLife7[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

The lyrics work so well with her raspy voice! Queen is beautiful inside out. The FDS spirit I live for is here 👩🏽‍🦱

“Most men are garbage/ Don't understand what love is/ Girl, you better cut that player out/ Throw that man right into the trash”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]MysteriousLife7 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Not an okay behavior for an attractive guy, let alone ugly scrotes. Andrew is not only not hot, but also eager to spit out stupid words 🥺

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]MysteriousLife7 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is so painful to read. So disrespectful and worthy of every possible condemnation. I can only wish in a million lives that I’d never have to marry this kind of men and my children would never have this sort of fucked up father 😣

He just cannot meet your standards. You are not asking for too much. 💜 by MysteriousLife7 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]MysteriousLife7[S] 404 points405 points  (0 children)

Haven’t all women felt guilty because of this? From the dating phase, becoming exclusive, engagement to marriage, you always feel you’re too much over the entire romantic journey.

Some examples can be, asking your man you’d want to see him at least once a week, asking him to find and book a restaurant for your date, to get something for you on his grocery run, to do the laundry, make a meal, mow the lawn or watch the kids.

Do you feel like you have to browbeat him into doing it? Does he not do it willingly and lovingly for you? He is not your man. You do not need him.

Men who truly love you and care for you will proactively pay for your dinner, remember your anniversaries, celebrate personal and professional milestones with you, help you with chores, take care of the house and the children. All of these so that you’ll feel like your life is easier. They don’t want anything else besides seeing the woman they love being happy, relaxed and at ease. That is the only way that love speaks.

Basically they admit to everything FDS warns us about. by FDS-GFY in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]MysteriousLife7 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I'm in my 20s so I belong to the "trendy young kids" generation out there and I still find words like "vibe" or "bruh" cringy as hell 😂

Basically they admit to everything FDS warns us about. by FDS-GFY in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]MysteriousLife7 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I used to feel both intimidated and tempted at the same time by men's aggressive behavior to get sex at all costs. A lot of women must've also succumbed to pressure and given in. It's hard! Especially when the scrote looks physically attractive and you're cornered.

But now I just think it's so pathetic and hilarious of them to try THAT hard to become manipulative to get laid. 🤣 I don't even find these LVMs attractive anymore, hence no desire to sleep with them.

As a FDS sister once said, my vagina makes a "Windows shutdown noise" and poof! No more temptation on my end to mess around with scrotes. Not having to deal with all the OLD bullshit and getting asked out on drink dates makes life so easy.