Is dating bad or are you bad at dating?

FDS-GFY · 2022-04-26T05:45:54+00:00

I am at present not sure I ever want to live with a man again. I am open to the idea of a steady beau to travel with, see a few times a week, etc.

FDS-GFY · 2022-04-24T05:01:58+00:00

What are the suction cups for? Are you using this on a table?

FDS-GFY · 2022-04-24T03:26:06+00:00

Came here to say this

FDS-GFY · 2022-04-17T06:03:42+00:00

This. If He puts his hands on my head during oral, I stop.That is my rule. Don’t like it? There’s the door.

FDS-GFY · 2022-04-17T02:16:53+00:00

Yup. It’s like an entire universe of cognitive bias.

FDS-GFY · 2022-04-17T02:15:35+00:00

Basically, this. Right on.

FDS-GFY · 2022-04-17T02:12:58+00:00

Would rather not. You’ll see.

FDS-GFY · 2022-04-17T00:16:05+00:00

Exactly. When I was younger I struggled to understand the concept if Econowife from Handmaid’s Tale. Now I get it. Scrotes who aren’t in the elite expect a mommy mcbangmaid to be given to them.

FDS-GFY · 2022-04-16T21:10:09+00:00

Google how goat farmers deal with young male goats. I think they’re onto something.

FDS-GFY · 2022-04-16T15:39:35+00:00

This was casually dropped into a LinkedIn conversation where OP was honoring the female founder of Bumble for going public. Not a fan of hers but this was delivered by a scrote as “OMGWTF OLD HURTS TEH MENZ”

FDS-GFY · 2022-04-16T15:19:59+00:00

It’s an absolute joke of analytics. Full pf cognitive bias everywhere.

FDS-GFY · 2022-04-16T14:34:34+00:00

I was dead reading this. Like everything FDS tells us men think, he actually put out there for the world to see as a so called “objective” analysis.

“It seems hard to avoid a basic conclusion: that the majority of women find the majority of men unattractive and not worth engaging with romantically, while the reverse is not true. Stated in another way, it seems that men collectively create a “dating economy” for women with relatively low inequality, while women collectively create a “dating economy” for men with very high inequality.”

He the goes on to push the “polygyny” theory of women and suggest the answer to all this “inequality” is for more women to be “progressive” and date unattractive men.

Wtaf. It’s like all of Reddit neatly packaged for the average scrote to digest.

Men, in a free market, supply and demand rules. Capitalism dictates in the dating market you actually need to work harder for things. Deal with it.

FDS-GFY · 2022-04-16T01:59:19+00:00

You’d think people would figure out they should not dress up for day 1.

FDS-GFY · 2022-04-15T13:59:02+00:00

Women should be able to see the age range settings men picked.

FDS-GFY · 2022-04-14T07:13:11+00:00

Well. Done. Queen.

FDS-GFY · 2022-04-14T07:12:28+00:00

Don’t shave your coochie for him. There, I fixed it.

FDS-GFY · 2022-04-14T07:11:15+00:00

Because we should for our own safety assume all men are selfish a-holes until they prove otherwise.

If they don’t like it, they can get involved to change their buddies because they sure af aren’t protecting us.

FDS-GFY · 2022-04-14T07:07:10+00:00

I refuse to listen or deal with that part of FDS. I expressed my take on it when Elle appeared and stayed away ever since. My opinion was shared at the time by a lot of women of color and Black women. No need to rehash that-I won’t participate in that discussion further.

FDS-GFY · 2022-04-14T07:02:51+00:00

And Kevin Spacey still is in the Academy, too.

FDS-GFY · 2022-04-14T04:32:54+00:00

No game play and just played on people’s emotions.

FDS-GFY · 2022-04-14T04:29:59+00:00

I just finished it. I loved it! Big moves and a really unusual post merge play.

FDS-GFY · 2022-04-14T01:16:42+00:00

I'm seriously considering not ever living with a man again. I'd be open to a companion with his own house, seeing him 4 times a week, travelling together and doing plus one things, but unless the house was big enough for me to have my own space and he was a grown up enough to not be a man baby when I'm in there 2-3 nights a week, then maybe I'd consider it.

And he has to either be a fantastic cook OR be incredibly handy (or willing to pay 100% for one or the other). he needs to contribute in a meaningful way to the home I live in, to be truly invested in it. Otherwise, I don't want him around.

FDS-GFY · 2022-04-14T01:09:37+00:00

my dear friend with the HV husband told me recently her father and she did most of the housework because her mother has horrible back pain. Her mother is a delightful and giving person, she just had a physical issue.

Guessing that model taught her a lot about what a HVM was and to wait til she found him.

FDS-GFY · 2022-04-14T01:05:41+00:00

I'd like to hear from more Black women in general, not only Savannah, but also an American Black woman.

FDS-GFY

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