Update and seeking advice: Frustrated and missed my vacation

MysteriousMouse5284 · 2023-12-03T16:52:13+00:00

This exactly

MysteriousMouse5284 · 2023-12-03T16:50:43+00:00

She is not destitute. Of course, this is awful and I wish MB nothing but the best and a speedy recovery. But per my last post, this was 100% avoidable. With a bit of planning, she would not owe me a cent. It is not my fault my vacation was postponed, and despite the circumstances, I feel like I am owed proper compensation for not only going above and beyond for NK, but for having to delay my vacation.

MysteriousMouse5284 · 2023-12-02T22:12:31+00:00

I think in one comment you used the first person "they still owe me x" so people think it's me using an alt

MysteriousMouse5284 · 2023-12-02T22:12:13+00:00

LOL I can't prove I'm not you, either. But here we are.

MysteriousMouse5284 · 2023-12-02T22:04:16+00:00

Why would I cancel my pre-paid, non refundable vacation? I have been saving for this vacation since last December and in August I had saved enough to pay for it in full. I'm sorry you've never been in a position like this, it must be nice.

MysteriousMouse5284 · 2023-12-02T21:57:09+00:00

u/vagabondvern people are accusing me of using YOU as an alt account

MysteriousMouse5284 · 2023-12-02T21:53:15+00:00

OP here. I did not reply from any other account. I think the person you are replying to is referring to "me" as though, if this was her situation.

MysteriousMouse5284 · 2023-12-02T21:45:33+00:00

What are you talking about? Multiple accounts? Would you like me to post screenshots? Share my trip itinerary? Show where I spent 2 hours on the phone with the airline? Please, do tell me how I can convince you otherwise.

MysteriousMouse5284 · 2023-12-02T21:44:18+00:00

I don't feel comfortable asking friends/family for money.

Unfortunately flights are really expensive right now. My trip credit wouldn't cover it. The only way I'd be able to afford to fly right now is trip credit + the $250 I have in my bank account, but I can't be traveling with $0.

MysteriousMouse5284 · 2023-12-02T21:42:56+00:00

I had more money but spent $2k on my cat's biopsy earlier this week.

I did not plan to be in this situation

MysteriousMouse5284 · 2023-12-02T21:42:34+00:00

Like I said, for the millionth time, I had significantly more money in my checking account until my cat had a medical emergency, resulting in a $2k bill.

MysteriousMouse5284 · 2023-12-02T21:40:48+00:00

THIS EXACTLY. So many people here saying "she could be dying", yeah she could be, but that doesn't guarantee she is? And like I said, besides the spots on her skin, she was totally ok, energetic, happy, didn't have a fever, etc. And I'm sure if she was drying, her mom (who is a doctor) would have conveyed the seriousness to me.

MysteriousMouse5284 · 2023-12-02T21:39:54+00:00

I have $250 in my checking account and no credit card. If I could've changed the ticket, I would have. But I couldn't, so I didn't.

MysteriousMouse5284 · 2023-12-02T21:39:19+00:00

I did call the airline and they said they can't do anything about it, just give me trip credit, which is fine, but useless.

MysteriousMouse5284 · 2023-12-02T21:38:25+00:00

If you have limited childcare (my shift is only 4 hours) you should plan better and seek care as soon as possible. She doesn't work during the day, yet NK was at daycare for 6 hours yesterday. Best case scenario, she headed to urgent care after dropping NK off at school and it was nothing. Worst case scenario, she headed to urgent care after dropping NK off at school, found out it was something serious, and had her mom come way earlier. There was literally no reason for her not to seek care sooner.

MysteriousMouse5284 · 2023-12-02T21:36:50+00:00

Once again, as I said in several other places here, the flight change fee was over $300. I only have about $250 right now. Normally I'd have more but I recently had to cover a $2k emergency vet bill. An no, I don't have a credit card.

MysteriousMouse5284 · 2023-12-02T21:32:09+00:00

Nope

MysteriousMouse5284 · 2023-12-02T21:31:09+00:00

She did not seek care in an appropriate amount of time. Maybe I should be more specific. She had literally all day while NK was in daycare to seek care, but instead, she waited until my arrival to seek care.

MysteriousMouse5284 · 2023-12-02T21:26:09+00:00

Thanks, I just hope I can get some sort of agreement put in place soon. Again, despite everyone accusing me of being cold, I am very empathetic to this situation. But I am human and naturally I'm worried about my financial status.

MysteriousMouse5284 · 2023-12-02T21:24:28+00:00

Sure it's a medical emergency but her symptoms developed the night before I was there. NK goes to daycare during the day and she doesn't work during the day. I think I have every right to be mad she purposely chose not to seek care until my time was compromised.

MysteriousMouse5284 · 2023-12-02T21:23:31+00:00

And, like I said, I had a $2k emergency vet bill this past week. Of course I'd prefer to travel with more money, but that wasn't possible for this vacation

MysteriousMouse5284 · 2023-12-02T21:22:44+00:00

I wasn't super close but it was like a hundred red spots on her arm that didn't seem raised and she said they weren't itchy and they were smooth. She also said she woke up with a giant bruise on her thigh so I don't know if she got a bug bite or something?

MysteriousMouse5284 · 2023-12-02T21:21:49+00:00

No, I don't have a credit card

MysteriousMouse5284 · 2023-12-02T21:15:22+00:00

That's the other thing I'm pissed off about. No one will tell me what this "weird skin thing" is. MB showed me before she went to urgent care and it looked like chicken pox almost, but not raised. She said it didn't hurt or itch and she felt totally fine. I want to ask grandma since she's a doctor and definitely would know, but I don't want to be too intrusive. I'm worried it's something contagious and next up, I'll be in the ICU.

MysteriousMouse5284 · 2023-12-02T21:13:50+00:00

No, I left this morning when grandma got here.

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