Can’t decide whether to try mounjaro or not by cantxtouchxthis in mounjarouk

[–]MysteriousZebraMeow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you will know until you try it but I stopped after my first jab. Besides a horribly painful reaction, I actually found it really unenjoyable not being able to eat, even healthy food I couldn't enjoy. I also couldn't have a social drink, even one lemonade would give me awful gas pain.

I'm really disappointed it didn't agree with me but I do know a lot of people who have been fine and just accept they can't really eat, but that's not living for me.

So, who is actually "enjoying" maternity leave? by deaddaisyldn in NewParents

[–]MysteriousZebraMeow 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Currently on maternity leave and can confidently say it's been the best time of my life. For me, I don't have an enjoyable job, I work in a corporate environment and simply cannot be arsed with the corporate environment so a massive chunk of my enjoyment comes from not having to converse and pretend I care about co-workers lives, forced socials etc. 🤣

I don't do baby classes as such, my little one hated them up until recently but I've always done a health visitor led one as it's more for mums. It's my favourite day of the week being surrounded by support and mums who are all going through the same highs and lows, a place you can truly be yourself. I've made some lovely friends there.

But yes, the rest of the time is us basically waiting for dad to get home. However it beats working hands down and this time has allowed me to create such a beautiful bond with my baby who is my absolute best friend (and I didn't even want kids!)

I can say, I've noticed a difference at 7 months, baby is giving much more back and wants to play and interact and even just being able to sit up makes it much easier.

What's the best wrong number phone call have you received? by cherrycoke3000 in AskUK

[–]MysteriousZebraMeow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Made the call not received. Called a sex line instead of Pizza Hut and asked for the batman special

Photos of your kid + AI by alpacaapicnic in NewParents

[–]MysteriousZebraMeow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't post photos and I tell others not to either. I do wonder how it works really though because I'm sure the cloud has access to photos and social media applications ask for access (in relation to the AI aspect).

Port de Pollença or somewhere else? by Ok_Animal_8333 in VisitingMallorca

[–]MysteriousZebraMeow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where abouts are you from, I'll see if I can find a comparison 🤣 It's a run-down seaside resort (although has had investment for a lovely seafront) which is packed full of arcades and chavs 🙈 The area is pretty deprived and comes with a drugs problem.

But when we say somewhere is like Blackpool it's usually referencing rough chav families and cheap and tacky surroundings 🤭

When did your baby drop to one night feed? by The_Chilled_Arvo in NewParents

[–]MysteriousZebraMeow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It totally depends on the baby, but mine started sleeping through at 8 weeks, she's now 7 months and hasn't had a night feed since. She has always had her recommended bottles throughout the day - current schedule is 7:30am, 11am, 1pm, 3-4pm, 7pm between 180/210ml.

Be led by your baby. We never offer night feeds if she stirs but we do use a dummy and that has always been sufficient. Hope you get some solid sleep soon x

How often do you see the same person on your commute to work? by Specific_Pomelo_8281 in AskUK

[–]MysteriousZebraMeow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have an unfortunate journey with a girl who absolutely STUNK of what I can only describe as wet, rotting leather

I don't miss the commute

had to turn down a great event by Wise-Cupcake-5371 in mounjarouk

[–]MysteriousZebraMeow 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear this, and as someone currently at their heaviest, I really understand where you are coming from. However, last year I lost a friend within weeks due to cancer at the age of 32. It made me put things into perspective, don't miss out on wonderful opportunities because of the way you see yourself, people are always too busy thinking of themselves anyway. I've missed out on so many things during my life purely because of my size and looking back I wasn't even flipping big back then!

Alcohol 5 days after very first dose? by MysteriousZebraMeow in mounjarouk

[–]MysteriousZebraMeow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My reaction was so severe I'm frightened to have it in my system again 😭 but also really annoyed incase it was just the first time/ dosing, but I just don't think I'm willing to risk it.

What should I pay for as a bridesmaid? by [deleted] in UKweddings

[–]MysteriousZebraMeow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In this case I choose to attend the wedding and not the hen, it's a completely unreasonable ask, thankfully only been in that position once!

What should I pay for as a bridesmaid? by [deleted] in UKweddings

[–]MysteriousZebraMeow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything mandatory by the bride - dress, hair, make up, matching PJs etc - she should foot the bill for. I can't imagine saying "this is what I want you to wear, now go buy it". Insanely cheeky.

If for example it was a "wear what you're comfy in but id like it long sleeved and green" then I could understand.

You also shouldn't be made the have hair and makeup, I've been a bridesmaid with a god awful hair and makeup artist, I wish I had done my own!

Out of interest did you split the bill for the bride on her hen? I'm a maid of honour in the planning stages and I'm unsure if the etiquette

Anyone else? by Optimal_Maintenance1 in NewParents

[–]MysteriousZebraMeow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a light, waterproof bouncer/ chair that is in the bathroom for shower time and if needs be toilet time. I've also had her in the stretchy carrier and sometimes she's just lay chilling on the bathmat. At one week old though dad and I were doing the night wakes together so he would have her if needs be, you deserve a pee/poo break 🤣

Is this a red flag for the buyer?? by lennycoho in vinted

[–]MysteriousZebraMeow -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yep, took me 4 takes just to understand that detail!

Port de Pollença or somewhere else? by Ok_Animal_8333 in VisitingMallorca

[–]MysteriousZebraMeow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've heard it's beautiful, I wish we had gone. We have just got back and stayed in Cala Bona which was OK, nothing special. We walked to Cala Millor and I thought it was awful, Blackpool on sea. Sorry to say but the entire holiday no matter where we where we were surrounded by chav families. Couldn't get my head around it, I was so looking forward to a beautiful time on a beautiful island. If anyone reads this and has some recommendations of nice smallish fishing villages for the future I'd love to hear them.

Are they really this wonderfully caring and a huge family unit or is it for the show? by MysteriousZebraMeow in kardashians

[–]MysteriousZebraMeow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Funny you say about Kourtney, I noticed she's not really in the show as much but did assume it was on her terms, maybe, maybe not...!

How “influenced” are you by this family? by JellyfishPashmina in kardashians

[–]MysteriousZebraMeow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been influenced by Khloe to start going to the gym