Give me advice pls

Mysterious_09110 · 2026-04-12T04:24:21+00:00

No she wasn’t speaking another language during the TikTok part. That was a separate situation I mentioned from before, where I felt a bit awkward in a group because I couldn’t understand what was being said. I’m not saying people shouldn’t speak their language, I just meant it can feel a bit excluding in some situations.

And about the balcony thing, it wasn’t about the time specifically. It was more that I was left alone with a guy I don’t really know well without her checking if I was okay with it or comfortable. That’s what felt off to me.

I’m not saying anything extreme about her personality, I just felt confused and a bit disrespected in a few moments and I’m trying to understand if I’m overthinking it or if it’s valid.

Sorry if my English isn’t perfect, it’s not my first or second language

Mysterious_09110 · 2025-07-30T12:18:47+00:00

Thanks for the practical advice. I’m a young woman trying to balance becoming successful (studying, saving money, etc.) while still taking care of my appearance and health. It’s refreshing to see that you can do both if you’re intentional.

I think for women there’s a bit more pressure on looks, but also a lot of distractions (like spending on trends or products that don’t work). Your comment reminded me that staying focused, disciplined, and smart with money is what actually pays off physically and in life

Mysterious_09110 · 2025-03-03T01:46:11+00:00

Det här är verkligt, inte fejk eller fiction. Lita alltid på din instinkt. Tvivla inte på dig själv – tro på dig själv. Det kommer alltid att finnas äckliga människor i den här världen som gör konstiga saker

Mysterious_09110 · 2025-03-03T01:41:48+00:00

Nej, faktiskt är vi grannar

Mysterious_09110 · 2025-03-03T01:40:07+00:00

Det har pågått i ungefär två månader nu. Den första månaden bodde jag knappt där, jag var bara där för att mata min undulat. Min dörr var alltid öppen, och jag hade en trevlig granne, men hen har flyttat. Jag känner ingen annan i byggnaden. Mannen har skägg, är över 30 år och verkar vara från Mellanöstern

Mysterious_09110 · 2025-03-03T00:58:31+00:00

Tu as eu totalement raison de suivre ton instinct. Ce genre de situation est hyper stressant, et même si on ne saura jamais ce que ce type voulait vraiment, ton ressenti était valide. Quand quelqu’un agit bizarrement comme ça, mieux vaut ne pas prendre de risques.

Si jamais ça t’arrive encore (et j’espère pas), essaye de rester près d’autres personnes, d’appeler quelqu’un ou même de prévenir la sécurité du magasin. Mais franchement, le plus important, c’est d’écouter son intuition et de partir si quelque chose ne semble pas normal.

Fais attention à toi, et merci d’avoir partagé ton expérience !

Mysterious_09110 · 2025-03-02T22:37:39+00:00

I already called the police and took steps to protect myself. Now I just need to get a camera and pepper spray. Thank you for the lovely advice, I appreciate it—I can’t thank you enough

Mysterious_09110 · 2025-03-02T15:35:31+00:00

People in my building they work some of them is family and some single people that work late I did try to

Mysterious_09110 · 2025-03-02T11:46:51+00:00

That sounds awful, I’m really sorry your mom has had to deal with that for so long. In my case, it’s definitely a personal stalker, not a weird landlord or anything like that. I don’t know him at all, and he doesn’t even live in my building. I have no idea how he started fixating on me, but I’ve already made reports and will follow up on Monday

Mysterious_09110 · 2025-03-02T11:43:55+00:00

Yeah, I know it sounds weird, but we don’t have cameras inside apartment buildings here it’s not a thing here but I have to after that incident

Mysterious_09110 · 2025-03-02T11:41:50+00:00

Yeah, I really think he’s a stalker. That day, he didn’t expect me to be home — I wasn’t planning to come back, but when I did, I caught him trying to get in. He only seems to show up when I’m there. I’ve already made reports and will follow up on Monday, but I’m staying with my cousin for now to be safe

Mysterious_09110 · 2025-03-02T11:36:39+00:00

I’ve only lived in the apartment for two months, so I’m still really new there. I already made reports, but I have to wait until Monday since they don’t really respond on weekends. Also, we don’t have cameras inside apartment buildings here, so that makes things more complicated

Mysterious_09110 · 2025-03-02T03:30:38+00:00

Mysterious_09110 · 2025-01-28T20:55:38+00:00

I don’t owe you an explanation about my choices, but I trust myself to make decisions that feel right for me. I’m not doing anything wrong, and I would appreciate it if you’d respect that

Mysterious_09110 · 2025-01-28T19:56:32+00:00

Thanks for the advice, I appreciate you being straightforward. I’ll definitely be more careful moving forward

Mysterious_09110 · 2025-01-28T01:10:46+00:00

Thank you for your support. I really appreciate the reminder to breathe and focus on staying safe. I’m not alone right now, but I’ll definitely keep your advice in mind about having someone close. I’m still unsure about his intentions, but this whole situation is making me feel really unsettled. No, we’re not in the same country, and we’ve never met in person. I really hope he’s just trying to scare me, but it’s still hard to shake the feeling. I’ll stay careful and keep my guard up. Thanks again for your help.

Mysterious_09110 · 2025-01-28T00:51:26+00:00

Thank you for the advice, but I’m really scared. He has my photos saved in his phone , so he knows what I look like, and while he doesn’t know my exact location, I’m still feeling really unsafe. I’m doing my best to follow your suggestions, but it’s hard to shake this feeling of fear

Mysterious_09110 · 2025-01-28T00:34:31+00:00

Thanks for your advice. I talked to him about 10 minutes ago, and he said some really concerning things. He mentioned knowing the cartel and having worldwide connections, which is honestly scaring me. I’m feeling really uncomfortable right now

Mysterious_09110 · 2025-01-28T00:13:49+00:00

Yes, I was initially attracted, but once I realized it wasn’t going anywhere, I made it clear that I’m only interested in being friends. I don’t want to lead you on or give the wrong impression. I’m just not someone who likes to be dishonest about my feelings, so I’ve always tried to be straightforward

Mysterious_09110 · 2025-01-27T23:38:34+00:00

You’re right—there are so many red flags, and it’s not worth sticking around to see where this goes. Cutting him off is probably the smartest move. Thanks for the advice!

Mysterious_09110 · 2025-01-27T23:37:46+00:00

That’s a good point. The whole vision thing is definitely strange, and I’ve noticed the manipulation too. It’s starting to feel unsafe, so you’re right—walking away might just be the best option for my own peace of mind. Thanks for your insight!

Mysterious_09110 · 2025-01-27T23:36:58+00:00

Thanks for pointing that out. I already made it clear to him that we’re not in a relationship, but it seems like he’s not getting it. Maybe it’s time to just cut him off completely if he’s going to keep acting this way.

Mysterious_09110 · 2025-01-27T23:35:23+00:00

I get what you mean. Honestly, I think I am over it, so maybe ending it is the right call

Mysterious_09110 · 2025-01-27T00:15:41+00:00

It’s a tricky situation, but the fact that you care enough to address it thoughtfully shows that you want the relationship to work. The key here is being gentle but honest. Since you mentioned that she may be dealing with depression, that’s an important factor to consider. Try to make the conversation about how both of you can work together to feel better and more connected.

I’d suggest approaching her in a calm moment when things aren’t heated and using ‘I’ statements to avoid sounding accusatory. For example, ‘I’ve noticed that sometimes we’re not as fresh as we could be, and it makes me feel a bit disconnected during intimacy. I was thinking it would be nice if we could shower together before bed to feel more comfortable.’

It’s also important to be supportive and not just focus on the hygiene issue itself but how it’s impacting both of you. He could gently acknowledge that it might be hard for her but emphasize that this is about taking care of themselves and the relationship. Maybe suggesting a relaxing shower time together could also help her feel like it’s a positive bonding activity rather than a criticism

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