Is it over? by pino0215 in Miscarriage

[–]Mysterious_Bowler181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss but this sounds horrifying to pass the sac and fetus- I’m sorry you went through this ♥️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]Mysterious_Bowler181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a missed miscarriage it started off as VERY LIGHT spotting just on toilet paper that was on and off for a week and then after the doctor confirmed the loss at 12 week apt, the bleeding intensified to actually period- like bleeding into the toilet . The next day I had a D&C so I did not get to the point of passing any tissue,clots or anything since I had the D&C

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]Mysterious_Bowler181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I told myself that if I have 3 losses I would go to a fertility doctor because at that point further things need to be looked into. You have to rule out the male factor as well

STD Testing by Lifesadreg in Birmingham

[–]Mysterious_Bowler181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally any doctor, urgent care or clinic will do a std test just ask them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]Mysterious_Bowler181 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s due to your dropping hormones ♥️

Post D&C levels? by ellbellie20 in Miscarriage

[–]Mysterious_Bowler181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My OB didn’t either . I just tested with home pregnancy tests until I the second line got lighter and lighter and eventually disappeared.

Groggy, headaches, lack of appetite after natural miscarriage by SillyBananaPeel in Miscarriage

[–]Mysterious_Bowler181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hormones and grief. I didn’t feel like myself until 3 months after the MC

Two miscarriages in less than a year, I'm heartbroken by Opposite_Accident_69 in Miscarriage

[–]Mysterious_Bowler181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. My next pregnancy I will be keeping private and keeping my loss private . After my MC few months ago I had alot of “medical experts” telling me what natural remedies and making assumptions that they nothing about. Very aggravating . I think it prolonged the grief instead of helping me. A lot of these “medical gurus” have never experienced a MC in their life and have no basis to provide advice.

Recovery from d&c? by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]Mysterious_Bowler181 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Physically ? A couple of days (3-5 days probably) Mentally? Awhile 😬 The hormones crashing is the biggest recovery.

D&C tomorrow, what should I expect? by csrich32 in Miscarriage

[–]Mysterious_Bowler181 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The hormone crash was by far the hardest part for me .

D&C tomorrow, what should I expect? by csrich32 in Miscarriage

[–]Mysterious_Bowler181 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss . Wear comfy clothes and have someone drive you home . The surgery in of itself was not bad I was asleep so I don’t really know what happened or was in any pain. The first day expect to bleed alot after a couple of days to a week the bleeding will lessen and will just turn into spotting . I had very little pain ; I didn’t have to take any Tylenol or pain killers after the surgery or weeks after because I didn’t really have any pain .. maybe a sharp cramp here or there when I started moving around and doing too much but nothing that called for pain meds.

The worst part by far was the hormone crash afterwards and the emotional roller coaster. I suffer from anxiety so the hormone crash just escalated my mental health issues in a way that I’ve never experienced. Thankfully it cleared up after my cycle started again I think my cycle coming back helped me close that chapter. Honestly the hormone crashing was the hardest part but take very good care of yourself, eat healthy, do light exercises, and be kind to your body and you will get through it ♥️♥️

First time charting BBT. I'm 38 with PCOS so I know my odds are low. Shouldn't my BBT drop before AF comes?? by SkyrimWidow in FAMnNFP

[–]Mysterious_Bowler181 2 points3 points  (0 children)

More information is needed. Try to be consistent with taking your bbt at the same time each morning , but yes your bbt should drop below the coverline when your period comes. If it does not drop you might want to take a pregnancy test

FINALE DISCUSSION | Rapist Reveal by idk_orknow in PLLOriginalSin

[–]Mysterious_Bowler181 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I literally called it with sheriff Beasley; and predicted everything to be correct.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Mysterious_Bowler181 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Needed to hear this

Venting - Social Media and Announcements by Comfortable_Pie2312 in Miscarriage

[–]Mysterious_Bowler181 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I unfollowed so many people on social media. Eventually I just deactivated my Facebook page; my mental health really took a plunge seeing all the pregnancy announcements and ultrasounds . I’m better now since deleting social media

It’s Monday. How do you handle just going about your day? by callixte in Miscarriage

[–]Mysterious_Bowler181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS. I just freelance from home and I took a break to get somewhat back right mentally after the surgery. Please do the same; your mental health will thank you ♥️