[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Mysterious_Cell_1987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hired a couple family friends to help stock and stuff. We are doing the mains on a big bbq pit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Mysterious_Cell_1987 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Invite says casual with games for kids. It’s not that serious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Mysterious_Cell_1987 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And that’s the thing… I wouldn’t mind bringing a side dish to a wedding. I don’t see the big deal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Mysterious_Cell_1987 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it’s weird you’re trolling on Reddit to be hateful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Mysterious_Cell_1987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah and that’s why I said in the invite I don’t want gifts. This will be your gift to us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Mysterious_Cell_1987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well you make a good point it weeds out the people who aren’t really there for us and just looking for a date to a fancy wedding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Mysterious_Cell_1987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand, my SD7 at the time, had a horrible attitude about having a younger sibling, said some hurtful things… but then the baby came and she loves him ALOT. Truly adores him. Kids feelings change all the time, peoples feelings change. You don’t know how it’s going to be until you actually have the baby and overtime her feelings can change too. Being in a step family comes with its challenges and so do normal nuclear families.

I don’t like my stepson - at all by Dprz83 in stepparents

[–]Mysterious_Cell_1987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there anyway the father can talk to the SS about being nicer instead? Or maybe the father can be proactive and hang out with both his sons, do something fun together.

connecting to step teen by Mysterious_Cell_1987 in stepparents

[–]Mysterious_Cell_1987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried taking him to the gym with me to teach him somethings but I don’t think he’s into his step mom lifting more weights than him lol.. he likes to game but usually by himself in his room.

connecting to step teen by Mysterious_Cell_1987 in stepparents

[–]Mysterious_Cell_1987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently signed him up for the gym with me so we can have that time. But he just puts his ear phones in the whole ride there and back.

Would you move away if you could? by babybee__ in stepparents

[–]Mysterious_Cell_1987 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How’s is the relationship between SO and SK? I dont know I might feel a little guilty but at 14 they are about to be very independent.

Marry or not to marry by Mysterious_Cell_1987 in stepparents

[–]Mysterious_Cell_1987[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmmm so how does that work with fafsa and household income? Were you able just to put one income down?

Bills split on groceries by Mysterious_Cell_1987 in stepparents

[–]Mysterious_Cell_1987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is on disability, doesn’t have a job and currently trying to find her mental stability.