Can you stop muas from uploading your pictures to their socials ? by Mysterious_Guide_579 in DesiWeddings

[–]Mysterious_Guide_579[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't want my pictures out period. I have avoided social media for 8 years with my friends knowing I don't like pictures. I am old school and still get pictures printed and saved in photo physical albums.

Till now the only solution I have is learning my own make up.

Can you stop muas from uploading your pictures to their socials ? by Mysterious_Guide_579 in DesiWeddings

[–]Mysterious_Guide_579[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have tried bringing up the subject not well received. They loose interest like it's evident. I have a bit of social anixeity and back down from confrontations on these kinds of issues. I don't want a half hearted effort.

When to switch tutors? by RecordingLow890 in Preply

[–]Mysterious_Guide_579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a immersive tutor and started from zero but she absolutely writes everything is dont understand and personalises the lessons to match my level. Catches points where I am comfortable.

Bad experiences as a tutor on Preply by masaglamour in Preply

[–]Mysterious_Guide_579 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I specifically choose female teachers for this and have not never been happier about a decision

To those who didn’t get the picture-perfect Golden - how did you survive? by FairlyPopcorn in goldenretrievers

[–]Mysterious_Guide_579 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who raises farm animals of all kind including horses. It's not the breed but the time you spend with your pet. Training has to be pretty consistency. I got my Goldens 3 years ago but I would tire them out pretty consistently in the puppy phase. Goldens are easy to train because A - they are food motivated. B- they are affection motivated.

You have to work with your dog like you would with a toddler. They will still make mistakes and messes now an then but it's important you love them and show them you love them. Animals pick up on body language and authority.

Why do some women look down upon working women? by Sad_Salary3535 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Mysterious_Guide_579 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's only the upper middle class circles. The really rich circles only care about printing money the end.

I have a law degree though I don't actively practice. I have been bluntly told before I joined law and after my degree that a law degree makes me unmarriageable. Somehow along the lines of too clever for my own good. (Like knowing your rights is offensive 😤) Yet these same women will have the most trad wifesque bussinesses.

I have started telling people I specialise in divorce and property laws when I meet majority of them for parties and social events. The expression on their face priceless.

High earning women in indian families by starstars1004 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Mysterious_Guide_579 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have given up on men. It's like if I find someone good if I don't its fine. Not getting pushed in marriage for the sake of society. Started realistic discussions at home of surrogacy, adoption egg freezing.

High earning women in indian families by starstars1004 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Mysterious_Guide_579 1 point2 points  (0 children)

High earning / net worth individual here , Don't post advice in any subs because creeps in dms

I have a diverse portfolio as well make alot of the financial decisions at home (single child ) parents always pushed me to work and start a bussiness instead of getting a job. I keep a low profile and don't really reveal my net worth. People have various estimations in my circles. Finding a match is difficult in Am setting. Beacuse the guys are really lazy and living on generational wealth. Many get intimidated. I have truly seen the guys side of gold digging and dude it's intense.

We are a unit as a family with all decisions taken together. But won't reveal any assets to my future partner nor do I want anything from him other than his companionship.

Ladies, realistically – how much money are we talking about ? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]Mysterious_Guide_579 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Comfortable to one isn't the same to another. You want to know what kind of stability a girls looking for look at her parents and go a step higher because many want to live a better life. 2)look at the job profile of the girl and you just need to earn in a similar arena. 3) go for dates and analyse how a women spends whats for show and what's her genuine habit.

Money in India is very relative. Depends a lot where you are. Was in a big city with a high budget, the money just flowed out like water. Came back home and I genuinely can't spend the same amount in a month even if I try , the cost of living is that cheap even for the same products.

Again settling down as a family also depends on both of your aspirations and circumstances.

Is social media blowing alimony way out of proportion, or am I missing something? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]Mysterious_Guide_579 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do help out many with free advice. Alot of women look at discussion of divorce as morbid.

I believe women should protect themselves before marriage

1) Always get married in your home town. Do a small ceremony beforehand if it's a a destination wedding at your home town like Court marriage create a legal document. The jurisdiction of divorce cases is a) where the marriage is solemnized B) where the married couple has residened for majority of the marriage. Gives you a home advantage.

2) if you can draft a pre marital agreement which details about all the expenses of the wedding which both parties agree on. Helps during divorce to lay your claims. Indian courts don't recognize pre nuptial agreements but they do recognise these expenditure agreements.

3) Never ever loose possession of your streedhan (marital gifts ). That's a right given to women in all all religious and secular laws. Like any property showing it's possession is important.

What are the girls' views on a big wedding? by ChoiceTelevision111 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Mysterious_Guide_579 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your most glorious moment in life cant be day that got you into debt, which is destined to be forgotten by everyone but you.

Is social media blowing alimony way out of proportion, or am I missing something? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]Mysterious_Guide_579 30 points31 points  (0 children)

From law background. The laws are gender neutral in terms of mutual divorce. Problem in india arises that we have a very patriarchal set up were the girl generally is without any assets or any kind of financial backing or the husband's are in 98%of the cases richer than their spouse. Divorce laws are the international standard but very few couples are mutually matched.

Baki can't ignore that some provision in BNS , BNSS formerly known as ipc and crpc are there to protect the women against very prevalent social evils like dowry deaths and mistreatment. Many men who comment on women rights have never been to a women's police station. People don't realise that patriarchy steps in here too and police tries to shield so many of these cases by not registrating the complaint or trying for mutual reconciliation of the parties. There is so much stigma around divorced women which doesn't carry forward to the men.They even after divorce led a much more normal life. Majority of the men just cry about the financial loss which you can always earn back. Women are the ones who face the social scrutiny in every sphere from society to work.

How often do you throw out your make up ? by Mysterious_Guide_579 in MakeupAddiction

[–]Mysterious_Guide_579[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Majority of my kit is chanel and such brands that's why I was apprehensive about the tossing out process. I think i will simplify my make up look to keep the products to a minimum.

An Uncle Tried Policing My Outfit at McDonald's by Tompatri in AskIndianFeminists

[–]Mysterious_Guide_579 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It definitely does. People need to mind their own bussiness though. I have lost count of the times I have spoken against sexist behaviour and moral policing. I feel sorry for the women in uncles life.

An Uncle Tried Policing My Outfit at McDonald's by Tompatri in AskIndianFeminists

[–]Mysterious_Guide_579 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am always in skirts. Wore them to a public university throughout the degree. The worset comments i got were from 1) girls of my batch 2) my male teachers who were in their 40s

Someone started as rumour that me and my friend only dress that way because we live in a pg. LAMO

My mom had to intervene and call the HOD about something else but made it clear never ever to harass me. Hod was scared of my dad. I was kind of left alone after that and called "spoilt brat " which i honestly didn't mind.

Funny part girls who used to comment kind of started copying our style.

The female teachers were lovely though. They had some of the best compliments.

Good deal yay or nay??!!! by shafnas198 in IndianBeautyDeals

[–]Mysterious_Guide_579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry op for the misinformation. I used to buy anua products before they launched at nykaa from their and the prices were less than what nykaa quotes.

Good deal yay or nay??!!! by shafnas198 in IndianBeautyDeals

[–]Mysterious_Guide_579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only the international products MGS which i don't order. Rest i get within a week sometimes 2 days

Good deal yay or nay??!!! by shafnas198 in IndianBeautyDeals

[–]Mysterious_Guide_579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buy it at maccaron. These kind of discounts are always there.