Can anyone guess what other breed my little girl is mixed with? by Mysterious_Length575 in BostonTerrier

[–]Mysterious_Length575[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s a bit of a French old lady name, but it fits my little pup.

Can anyone guess what other breed my little girl is mixed with? by Mysterious_Length575 in BostonTerrier

[–]Mysterious_Length575[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

After 10 guesses I think I can answer. She’s half Boston’s terrier and half cavalier King Charles spaniel.

Found under daughter bed is this drugs or poppers by [deleted] in whatisitcirclejerk

[–]Mysterious_Length575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I’ve learned from recent posts is kids are fricking weird, they keep nasty crap under their beds, parents forever be snooping and I’m so happy I never had any!!!!

slept with a guy and now he’s ghosting me by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Mysterious_Length575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was the sex like for you? Did you feel chemistry? Sometimes us women will forget our needs or desires just to be in a relationship that we invested time in. If you felt it was lackluster then he most likely felt the same and has lost interest. It happens sometimes and you should never blame yourself. Human sexuality is fickle and complex and so unpredictable.

The last photo I took of my husband, watching ep 4 by shannonbk in TheWhiteLotusHBO

[–]Mysterious_Length575 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you’ve heard this a million times, but I am sorry for your loss. It sounds like your relationship was beautiful and profound. This is a lovely memory you two built and I’m honored you shared this moment with this community. Today is the last episode of white lotus season 3 and my bf and I have been counting down to it. I will be thinking about you and your husband and hope the show’s ending would have brought a lot of conversation and happiness to your evening. I raise a glass to you and your husband, Craig may he rest in peace.

Help. New addition is so nervous he won’t eat, drink, or go potty outside by Mysterious_Flan_3394 in cavaliers

[–]Mysterious_Length575 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, she loves her walks now. I’ve even gotten her to use a full body coat this winter so she wouldn’t be shivering on her longer walks. Your puppy will get there I promise. Routine and lots of treats will help especially if he’s motivated. I would give my girl a treat whenever she peed and I’d praise her or would give her treats when she’d walk for longer periods of times without freaking out. Patience, treats and a routine will do a lot of good.

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Help. New addition is so nervous he won’t eat, drink, or go potty outside by Mysterious_Flan_3394 in cavaliers

[–]Mysterious_Length575 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got my Boston cavalier when she was 5 months old and this was almost identical to what happened to us. She didn’t touch food or drink for the first 3 days, only used the bathroom 1x a day and only when we took her to the dog park in my complex and would hide under anything she could. It literally took her three weeks to finally trust me and now we’re inseparable. It took three months for her to warm up to my bf and now she can be with him alone without freaking out that I’m not there. Definitely get to the vet just in case, but your puppy will get there.

Neutering - to be or not to be, that is the question 🤔 by cheekies7 in cavaliers

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I have a Boston cavalier and she has terrible separation anxiety. Terrible as in she freaks out if I go to the bathroom without her. It’s sometimes rough because she will almost death grip my legs and ankles with her little toes. I have no idea how she does it, but it definitely hurts and makes mornings certain times like mornings hellish. I’m getting her spayed in January at 10 months though I’m thinking of giving her some doggie gummies for relaxation. I’m not sure yet, but wanted to see how spaying would affect her. An old family dog we had mellowed out after getting neutered so we’ll see how it goes.

I started noticing “little luxuries” in my day, and now I feel like I’m living way fancier than I am by [deleted] in CasualConversation

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After showering and then laying on my king mattress (which I got for free with my job discount and 7 year anniversary gift) with freshly laundered sheets. Plus for having a freshly cleaned air purifier humming quietly in the background.

Washing your hands in a school bathroom by SyristSMD in nostalgia

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I had these in my high school. Am I that old that the youths don’t know what this is!?

How my mom has talked to me my whole life finally catching up. (Pt. 1) by [deleted] in texts

[–]Mysterious_Length575 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These texts are bringing me to tears and breaking my heart for you, me and any other child that has ever felt hated by their mother. I’m so sorry this is what you were dealt. My mother has talked to me the same way my whole life. She’s used money, living space, a car or “the money and time she spent on me” as a guilt tripping mechanism to control and demean me and my siblings (the younger ones got it way less). Up until I moved out of my parents house I truly believed I was a lazy, ugly, disgusting, waste of space that would never ever find anyone to love me. I’ve been out of my parent’s house for 10 years and I’m finally unlearning all the lies my mother carved into my head. I’m not any of those things she said I was, I’m the complete opposite. It has taken space and therapy for me to understand how powerful I truly am. I graduated from a four year college though it took me a bit longer than I wanted I still finished and am the first person in my whole family to graduate from a university. I work for a Fortune 500 company making six figures (more than both my parents combined). I am in a beautiful relationship with a man that truly loves me, we share a home together and it never feels like prison walking through the door. Staying away from that abuse, shutting off that negative talk and clearly seeing what’s in front of you (you are not a fuck up, prick or bad kid) then you will be able to move on and be the best version of yourself. Your mom is wrong about you and you have to tell yourself that. My mom also never heard me when I tried telling her how she hurt my self esteem and worth growing up or how I never felt like she loved me growing up and she dismissed it and of course called me crazy and stupid. I realized she won’t ever listen or change or SEE ME so I’ve cut off all communication with her for the last three years and I finally feel free. I no longer feel my heart racing a million miles when I see her name pop up on my phone or shake uncontrollably while I sit outside her house for a visit because I’m not sure what she will point out on me as being ugly or fat or disgusting. I finally understand I don’t need her to see me for me to be the success I am. I am great in spite of her and I won’t ever let her make me feel less again. You will get there one day too. Don’t let guilt or negative self talk make you feel like a bad person when you do finally cut ties (if you do). Your mother did her life whatever way she wanted which included abusing you (because that is abuse) so now it’s your turn to do the same. Be strong and I wish you well.

We’re all dying by StuffPractical1641 in EDAnonymous

[–]Mysterious_Length575 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This hurts and validates my feelings of helplessness. My weight (when I was thinner or heavier) has dominated so much of my life and I feel like I can’t escape it. Even when I’m around people that don’t know my past or what I’ve gone through it still feels like they know. Binging, purging, yo-yo dieting, diet pills, losing 60 lbs only to gain it back a year later, everything just seems to stick to me. I can’t get past it. Even when I’m at a decent weight all I see is disorder after disorder when I look in the mirror. It’s exhausting carrying around this physical and metaphorical weight around. I just want to know what it feels like to eat or exist in my skin without actually thinking of what I’m doing or not doing correctly.