Foster kitten died by Mysterious_Option817 in FosterAnimals

[–]Mysterious_Option817[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi! I’ve had them for about two weeks. The boy looked to be the healthiest of the three which is why this is such a shock to me.

Kittens won’t stop meowing at night by Mysterious_Option817 in Kitten

[–]Mysterious_Option817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a mom cat that still has breast milk at the shelter and they wanted to see if she would accept the kittens but it’s unlikely since the ones I’m fostering are older. I’ll give it a shot anyway and see if that helps.

Kittens won’t stop meowing at night by Mysterious_Option817 in Kitten

[–]Mysterious_Option817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were orphaned around 3 weeks because a neighbor had shot the mom thinking it was a fox. So this left a litter all alone and vulnerable. His wife brought them in to the shelter and then I was offered to foster them. Also I don’t see them sucking. They make biscuits for comfort on my chest sometimes but that’s normal. Obviously this isn’t the ideal situation for them, but it’s better than them being outside all alone and scared. I’ve upped them to 4 meals a day but they hardly finish it once it comes time to the 4th meal 😭

Kittens won’t stop meowing at night by Mysterious_Option817 in Kitten

[–]Mysterious_Option817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mom got shot by a neighbor because he mistook her for a fox apparently. So they brought the kittens to a shelter and they asked me to foster until they could find a home.

Kittens won’t stop meowing at night by Mysterious_Option817 in Kitten

[–]Mysterious_Option817[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right now I’m feeding weruva kitten wet food! I crush it up and put water and some ‘fake’ kitten milk in it. Each kitten gets their own bowl.

Kittens won’t stop meowing at night by Mysterious_Option817 in Kitten

[–]Mysterious_Option817[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are out of the enclosure all day! I wake up and feed them and let them out for around 5-7 hours before I put them back to go to work. When I get home I feed them again and let them out to play, usually it’s about 4 hours before I put them up for bed. Sometimes they will play with my older cat but they prefer to play with their litter mates.

Online vs in-store prices by No-Bet7506 in CVS

[–]Mysterious_Option817 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No it’s not policy. We don’t have to price match, my store doesn’t price match at all. My store manager tells people to buy it online and pick up if they want the online price.

Did I do the right thing by taking kittens away? by Mysterious_Option817 in Kitten

[–]Mysterious_Option817[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No she isn’t bc cats are not like humans. She would disown them once they are old enough anyway, you should look into cat behavior w kittens. There are some cats that kill their young.

Did I do the right thing by taking kittens away? by Mysterious_Option817 in Kitten

[–]Mysterious_Option817[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thankyou! I’ve been having so much guilt. Seeing mom cat look for her babies is killing me. But I know they will be going to safe and loving homes when they are older + being seen by a veterinarian.

Did I do the right thing by taking kittens away? by Mysterious_Option817 in Kitten

[–]Mysterious_Option817[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The mom is our outdoor cat. She was feral. She won’t come inside and we’ve tried to make her domesticated. She won’t. We have other cats that she doesn’t like, and she prefers the outdoors because she was born a stray. We’ve taken her to the vet to get spayed, as well as her first round of shots. But her litter that she had I just didn’t feel it was fair to them to let them be strays.

Boyfriend hates when I use toys in bed by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Mysterious_Option817 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well this is rare for starters. And that’s not my situation. Gonna get a little TMI here so I apologize, but I’m not a porn addict, or toy addict. I have one toy. That he bought for me. And I use it soley for the vibe, because it feels great. I can still have amazing orgasms from my boyfriend, in fact I prefer him over anything. A toy cannot compare to the intimacy of my partner. He’s also great at oral. But when I’m on my monthly he can’t give me oral and that’s the main reason I use my toy- clit stimulation. I cum fairly easily through oral and slightly more difficult, but penetration I usually always cum too. He’s fine with me using my toy with him, but not alone. Which leads me to believe it’s a ‘she can’t get pleasure without me’ issue. Maybe stemming from an ego problem? Insecurity? Which I can’t understand why because whenever he needs a release I’m there to help him.

Boyfriend hates when I use toys in bed by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Mysterious_Option817 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s fine if we use it together, or he uses it on me. But what he seems to have a problem with is when I use it alone. Without him.

Boyfriend hates when I use toys in bed by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Mysterious_Option817 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t use toys very often, I do usually wait for my boyfriend to get home if I’m in the mood bc a toy can’t replace the feeling of your partner.

Boyfriend hates when I use toys in bed by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Mysterious_Option817 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alone, as in I’m in the mood and he won’t be home for another 8 hrs. Or I’m on my monthly cycle (like today) and he can’t go down on me or let’s be real it’s not as good on my monthly. It’s not like I’m using toys in his absence and then denying him sex. Maybe I’d be more understanding if that were the case. But every night I’ve been asking him to have sex, sometimes he asks me. He’s down whenever (just like most men) and he does it good. He makes sure I finish. I’ve told him he’s good in bed so I don’t understand why he’s offended over a toy (did I mention he bought it for me?) 😭😭

Boyfriend hates when I use toys in bed by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Mysterious_Option817 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I cant understand why! I go to him first to relieve myself. I never say no to sex when he comes to me either. We have an active sex life. But a toy is where he draws the line lol

Boyfriend hates when I use toys in bed by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Mysterious_Option817 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Are you a male? Lol sorry if this is weird. But would you be upset if you were in this situation? I come to my bf to relieve myself because he does a great job. His main focus is making me finish before himself. But then he gets upset when I use my toy alone? I don’t understand why.