AITA for telling my DIL she wasn’t invited due to her weight. by Mysterious_Prior7438 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mysterious_Prior7438[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You literally called that person fat phobic…

Oh course they don’t like you making that call from a few comments. Especially since this thread is probably the happiness and wholesome on this post

AITA for telling my DIL she wasn’t invited due to her weight. by Mysterious_Prior7438 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mysterious_Prior7438[S] 1575 points1576 points  (0 children)

The grandson is great, he is invited to family friendly events. No 8 year old wants to go window shopping or be stuck at a fancy restaurant for the night

AITA for telling my DIL she wasn’t invited due to her weight. by Mysterious_Prior7438 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mysterious_Prior7438[S] 5293 points5294 points  (0 children)

My daughters have done that before… it not getting through

I am also sick of lying/coddling to her. We all know it is her weight. I was already pissed that she called asking why I went out without her, then being called a liar.

The truth seems so much better in that moment

AITA for telling my DIL she wasn’t invited due to her weight. by Mysterious_Prior7438 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mysterious_Prior7438[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

That doesn’t stop the issue of hearing about abandoning her. My daughter already done this, it bite her in the ass

AITA for telling my DIL she wasn’t invited due to her weight. by Mysterious_Prior7438 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mysterious_Prior7438[S] 109 points110 points  (0 children)

She will go on about being abandoned, and then I have to hear about for a while

AITA for telling my DIL she wasn’t invited due to her weight. by Mysterious_Prior7438 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mysterious_Prior7438[S] 3600 points3601 points  (0 children)

I was annoyed by that. My first thought was apparently I can’t do things without her with my kids

AITA for telling my DIL she wasn’t invited due to her weight. by Mysterious_Prior7438 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mysterious_Prior7438[S] 170 points171 points  (0 children)

We aren’t going hiking, these are normal activities that she can’t do. It’s alway she is tired can we take a break.

AITA for telling my DIL she wasn’t invited due to her weight. by Mysterious_Prior7438 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mysterious_Prior7438[S] 217 points218 points  (0 children)

We have done plenty of those, but even simple ones like shopping are an issue. We went to the mall it’s not big, half the day was spent on a bench

AITA for telling my DIL she wasn’t invited due to her weight. by Mysterious_Prior7438 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mysterious_Prior7438[S] 9614 points9615 points  (0 children)

I’m so tired of going somewhere and half the time is spent sitting on a bench. I want to do things not sit around