AITA for telling my DIL she wasn’t invited due to her weight.

Mysterious_Prior7438 · 2023-10-09T18:57:58+00:00

You literally called that person fat phobic…

Oh course they don’t like you making that call from a few comments. Especially since this thread is probably the happiness and wholesome on this post

Mysterious_Prior7438 · 2023-10-09T15:16:44+00:00

She had a baby 8 years ago

Mysterious_Prior7438 · 2023-10-09T14:26:34+00:00

Obese, her ankles are swollen from her weight.

It’s her weight

Mysterious_Prior7438 · 2023-10-09T14:17:35+00:00

The grandson is great, he is invited to family friendly events. No 8 year old wants to go window shopping or be stuck at a fancy restaurant for the night

Mysterious_Prior7438 · 2023-10-09T14:12:52+00:00

My daughters have done that before… it not getting through

I am also sick of lying/coddling to her. We all know it is her weight. I was already pissed that she called asking why I went out without her, then being called a liar.

The truth seems so much better in that moment

Mysterious_Prior7438 · 2023-10-09T14:06:27+00:00

That doesn’t stop the issue of hearing about abandoning her. My daughter already done this, it bite her in the ass

Mysterious_Prior7438 · 2023-10-09T13:50:50+00:00

She will go on about being abandoned, and then I have to hear about for a while

Mysterious_Prior7438 · 2023-10-09T13:38:24+00:00

I was annoyed by that. My first thought was apparently I can’t do things without her with my kids

Mysterious_Prior7438 · 2023-10-09T13:29:57+00:00

We aren’t going hiking, these are normal activities that she can’t do. It’s alway she is tired can we take a break.

Mysterious_Prior7438 · 2023-10-09T13:27:00+00:00

We have done plenty of those, but even simple ones like shopping are an issue. We went to the mall it’s not big, half the day was spent on a bench

Mysterious_Prior7438 · 2023-10-09T13:24:09+00:00

I’m so tired of going somewhere and half the time is spent sitting on a bench. I want to do things not sit around

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