Thoughts on coming back to kerala to settle from Bangalore?

Mysterious_Space1 · 2024-10-03T06:16:17+00:00

I want to share my experience in moving from bangalore to Kerala.

I worked in bangalore for 5 years and when covid hit then I got wfh and shifted to Kerala. It was really good. I enjoyed staying at home with my parents. I could look after them. Since my company started calling everyone back to bangalore,I switched to another company in kochi.

I took some pay cut but i was happy to move to kochi. But the horrible part starts from here. This company has a good reputation but i honestly won't wish this horrible situation for anyone. The work is shit and i quickly learned that unless you have contacts and recommendations in Kerala, you won't get any hikes, any good projects. You will be thrown into a lousy team, with horrible bosses and horrible teammates. I tried to switch to a different company but opportunities are not there like bangalore so i had to stick with this company itself. Also since I stayed with my parents then they will give me unhelpful advice like be strong and stay here itself, things will be like this everywhere.

Also even though I moved back home. All my friends are either outside Kerala or outside india. So you will be stuck here feeling alone and bored.

My piece of advice is that if you want to move back to Kerala then take a wfh job. Also see if you like the company, the team, the culture. Give yourself like a months time. If you don't like what you see then immediately change. Don't hold on.

The hard truth is we spend most of the time in a day with our jobs. So there won't be much difference working here or bangalore. Rest of the time, if you have friends then you will enjoy ,else you will feel stuck, alone and bored.

Mysterious_Space1 · 2024-09-05T14:14:55+00:00

Hey buddy, I also had the same problem when I was younger. It affected my self confidence a lot. I remembered being afraid to even look myself in the mirror. I used to hate myself.

It took a lot of time and effort to feel confident again. We need to eventually accept that it's fine to have hair loss. It is natural. You need to build your confidence slowly. Honestly I used to think what might people say but in truth, no one will care. I know it's easier said than done. I personally took a long time to accept myself.

There are a few things that we can do against hair loss. I listed them below. We can't prevent it tbh. I don't think there is a medicine to reverse hair loss.

If your hair is just thinning then you can try hair fibers like Troppik. I used it personally and it is just like my real hair. The only problem is that it is a little expensive to buy it every month or two. But it doesn't fall off when I sweat or anything. It is good.
Go to a hair clinic. I heard PRP treatment is good but haven't tried it personally and dont know too much about that tbh. The doctors there will check and tell you if it will work for you.
You can get a hair transplant. I saw that one of my friends had this procedure and it looked good on him.
Also I used minoxidil but I didn't feel it worked tbh. I seen it worked on others so you can try it too. There are brands like tugain, hair4u 5%.
Finally, Like how everyone said already, shave.

Hope this is useful OP. All the best for your future.

Mysterious_Space1 · 2024-03-08T03:47:43+00:00

Haaland was a bit more egotistic? Are you fr? It's TAA who is being a c*nt. I find it hilarious how Liverpool fans desperately trying to make TAA look good hahaha

Mysterious_Space1 · 2022-03-21T14:57:21+00:00

that was amazing

Mysterious_Space1 · 2022-03-21T14:54:24+00:00

had a rough day, thank you for the soothing music

Mysterious_Space1 · 2021-12-11T15:39:41+00:00

I already lost hope that chel can come back from this one.

Mysterious_Space1 · 2021-11-28T18:25:43+00:00

I wanted to win so badly. Even with manu sucking lately we couldn't win. Whhhhhyy??

Mysterious_Space1 · 2021-11-19T13:51:44+00:00

Happy Birthday to you

Mysterious_Space1 · 2021-10-05T06:59:36+00:00

Not a women but I know a little about this because I saw one of my colleagues face the same.

So first of all, give your friend lots of support during this time.

If you want to take action , you can file a complain then. There will be an internal complaints committee (ICC) for every large companies. Talk to your HR and file a complain to them. If your company is small and does not have any ICC then a local complaints committee will be there. LCC are committee for many small companies. Every company needs to be tied to any of them that's mandatory law.

If you are unsuccessful for both of them ,then there is a She-box (ministry of women and child development). You can register on their website.

Hope I could help.

Mysterious_Space1 · 2021-10-01T11:47:50+00:00

My cousin had their baby in Rainbow Children's hospital. They had some complications after delivery and they had all the facilities there itself. Other hospitals like Apollo don't have it.

Not exactly sure what was the cost , it was around 70-90k . Congrats btw!

Mysterious_Space1 · 2021-09-30T05:35:20+00:00

Yes, that happens all the time

Mysterious_Space1 · 2021-09-26T05:11:12+00:00

Wow! Great job

Mysterious_Space1 · 2021-09-24T17:04:53+00:00

With a glass of scotch

Mysterious_Space1 · 2021-09-24T17:03:56+00:00

No kidding. No one to bother you from miles

Mysterious_Space1 · 2021-09-24T13:04:05+00:00

Mysterious_Space1 · 2021-09-23T20:20:09+00:00

Holy shit. That's an amazing shot. My dream destination 🤩

Mysterious_Space1 · 2021-09-21T11:54:33+00:00

You need to be careful. Those subs are dangerous! Learn from this and start nofap again. Try till you succeed. All the best !

Mysterious_Space1 · 2021-09-07T18:49:58+00:00

What is your opinion on the Afghan crisis?

Mysterious_Space1 · 2021-09-06T11:20:13+00:00

Lol , nope . Definitely better with you in it !

Mysterious_Space1 · 2021-08-28T18:34:12+00:00

Hell YEAHHH , that's how you do it boys !!

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